Why is it taboo to have a child in the first life, and what is the saying for a child in the first l

Having a child should avoid the first year of junior high school, which is the statement of the older generation and has no scientific basis.

From ancient times to the present, there is a saying that men do not give birth to the first day of the first month, and women do not give birth to fifteen, because with the change of time, it can be seen that the first day of the first lunar month is the most prosperous time of the year, therefore, the boy born on this day will make his life character because the innate numerology yang energy is too strong.

too tough, so that it is in the path of life.

But the numerology of the girls born on this day is completely different, and they make their aura and fortune increase day by day under the harmony of the five elements of yin and yang, so that they can go smoothly on the road in the future.

Reasons for having a child in the first place:

1.The ideological influence of the older generation. In order to be auspicious, some families will choose to have children on the first or fifteenth day of junior high school, thinking that this can bless the children to grow up safely and healthily.

2.It is convenient to calculate your child's due date. Every woman's menstrual cycle is different, some women have a menstrual cycle of more than 40 days, and some women have a menstrual cycle of only about 28 days.

Therefore, if you want to accurately calculate your child's due date, it is generally calculated from the first day of menstruation in the month of pregnancy. If a woman menstruates on the first day of the new year, the due date of the child is basically the first day of the following month.

3.May be related to the mother's birthday. Some women have a birthday on the first day of junior high school and feel that it is a fate to get pregnant on their birthday.

There are also some couples whose birthday falls on the first day of the following month, and most families hope that their children will be born on their parents' birthdays. Therefore, I will also choose to prepare for pregnancy on the first day of junior high school.

Some children are born on the first day of the new year, because the first day of the first day of the month, parents feel that the first day of the child will have a special meaning, so they will especially want to know what the first day of the child has in the folk. So, what does a first-life child say?

There are old people who say that "the mother of the first year of junior high school" means that the child born in the first year of junior high school has a good life, and it will be married to a prominent family or a big official in the future, waiting to enjoy happiness. But with the advancement of science and technology, people know that children are born according to the laws of nature.

There is no meaning in choosing what day and hour to be born, and do not think that the child will be able to become a great official or enjoy happiness in the future as soon as he is born.

Parents should not instill in their children from an early age the concept of "you are born at the first time, your life will be good and you will be able to enjoy happiness in the future", so that it is easy for children to develop the problem of laziness, thinking that they will be able to enjoy happiness in the future anyway, and now they don't need to work hard or be diligent, and fate will help them. In this way, when the child grows up, he has no ability to survive on his own, which is equivalent to ruining the child's life.

Some parents believe in fate very much and feel that it is a good thing for their children to be born on a good day and at a good time. In fact, it is okay for a child to be born at any time period, and there is no such thing as a bad day or time period for birth. Parents should not give their children an "auspicious day of the zodiac".

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The first day of the Lunar New Year is our Chinese New Year, which is a very festive day, but some people may be born on the first day of the new year, that is, the first day of the new year. In general, there are some sayings among the people, what is the good meaning of children born on festivals, and different festivals may be different, and we have more festivals in China, and there may be children born on each festival. So, what does it mean to have a child at the beginning of the year?

First of all, a person who has a child at the beginning of the year may be blessed with both fortunes, high fortune stars, a prosperous career, and a prosperous road; A man's life is prosperous, and he is guided by nobles, especially those who are twenty-five years old; The woman's husband is blessed, and the evening is blessed. Although there is no basis for these claims, it is indeed a double happiness to have children at the beginning of the year, and people are in a happier mood.

Secondly, the fortune of the child born in the first year of junior high school is relatively good, and he may do everything smoothly in the future, and may often be recommended by nobles, so that his career can have a chance to develop smoothly. However, no matter what day a child is born, through his or her own acquired efforts, his or her future career may be successful. After all, everyone's date of birth is not something they can control, but their future career can indeed be obtained through their own efforts, and not every child born on the first day of the new year has better luck than a child who is not born on the first day of the new year.

The customs of our hometown, there are two taboos on the first day of the new year:

1. You can't sweep the floor on the first day of the Lunar New Year.

2. On the first day of the Lunar New Year, children are not allowed to say unlucky words, they cannot scold others, and adults are not allowed to beat people.

On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, no matter how late the family keeps the New Year, they will not forget to sweep the floor and take out the garbage, which indicates that all the troubles and bad luck will be thrown away.

On the first day of the Lunar New Year, if relatives and friends come to the house, no matter how dirty the house is, you can clean it up, and you must not use a broom to sweep the floor. When I was a child, my mother always hid her broom in the corner on the first day of the Lunar New Year and didn't let us see it. lest we put the taboo.

Garbage can be collected, but it is also not allowed to be taken out, on the first day of the new year, everything, including the garbage at home, is the fortune of the coming year. It is not to be swept away, and it is not to be poured out. Therefore, it is taboo to sweep the floor and take out the garbage on the first day of the new year.

Another thing is that on Chinese New Year's Eve, adults began to tell children: On the first day of the new year, you must please a good lottery, do not talk nonsense, say auspicious words, and scold and unlucky words are taboo.

Often children to the New Year's Day, happy and forgetful, have long forgotten the advice of their parents, between brothers, between friends, for toys or games, often commit taboos, adults see angry and hateful, sometimes sticks and slaps have been raised in the air, or endure to put down, because adults also have taboos that day, can not hit people. Therefore, if the child makes a mistake that day, it is often not necessary to be held accountable. On the first day of the Lunar New Year, many naughty children often use this to blackmail their parents and elders, and make all kinds of excessive demands that they usually dare not mention.

No matter how angry your parents and elders are, they won't be beaten!

The above two customs are still preserved in our hometown, do you also have such customs in your hometown?

There is a saying that a boy cannot be born in the first year of junior high school, that is, a boy can be born in the first year of junior high school if he does not disturb the journey, otherwise the child's life will have a bumpy fate, and there will be more and less luck.

There are two reasons why men are not allowed to start the first day of the first month, especially the first day of the first month, one is that the first month of the year is the beginning of the year, and the children born at this time have a big life and are difficult to discipline. In addition, the first day of junior high school is the first day of January Li Closed, and the boy born on this day has a strong personality, and the rough stool is even more difficult to discipline; The second is the first day of the first lunar month, the first day of the New Year, in ancient times, the probability of the child dying is relatively high, at this time the birth of the boy's family will be worried about the fear of death, if unfortunately died, the first day of the new year is the child's death day, is also very unlucky.

Gelao customs. There are many taboos on the first day of the first lunar month, one is to sweep the floor, so as not to sweep money out of the door, in order to pray for money and food to go in and out;

The second is to avoid eating green, lest grass grow in the fields, so as to pray for a good harvest; Three taboos to eat meat, lest livestock get sick and pestilence, in order to pray for the prosperity of the six animals; The four taboos are quarrelsome, lest the family and neighbors are not harmonious, so as to pray for harmony and prosperity; Five taboos to open the door early, so as not to enter the house with evil spirits, in order to pray for prosperity; Six taboos to chop wood, so as not to scare away the God of Wealth, in order to pray for a prosperous source of wealth; Seven taboos on laundry, lest the blessings be washed away, so as to pray for blessings; Eight taboos to fry beans, lest the child have boils, in order to pray for the child to be healthy; Nine taboos to sell dry firewood, lest the source of wealth be exhausted, so as to pray for wealth and wealth; Ten taboos of unlucky words, lest they be unlucky, so as to pray for the auspicious stars to shine. In addition, avoid getting up at dawn, breaking things, and stirring fires. There is a saying that when you get up at dawn, the soil will collapse, and if you break something or turn a fire, you will sew clothes and break needles, and hoe the ground.

It is even more forbidden to beat and scold others, so as not to transfer your strength and luck to others.

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