I have no expectations for marriage but I have to get married, and the whole person is broken, what

Xiao Ke wants to persuade you, girls don't have no expectations for marriage, not all married life in the world is unhappy. You can have no expectations for the person you are getting married now, but you don't have no expectations for your future life.

What you need to solve now is to postpone your wedding for a little longer, so that you will have more time to figure it out. You can try to understand your marriage partner during this time, don't have a hostile heart to understand him, try to understand him calmly, if you still really don't like him, Xiao Ke suggests that you can talk to this boy.

You can't convince your parents yourself, so try to convince the boy, if the man dissolves the marriage agreement, then your parents can't do it, if the boy doesn't like you either, then you just need to tell him clearly, if he likes you and really wants to be with you, you can also tell him that you can't accept him now, can you dissolve this fiancé relationship first, let him give you time, and wait for you to slowly fall in love with him.

Of course, these are just procrastination, because you have already tried not to like him, as long as the marriage is dissolved, then you are free, you can go away, go to a city you like, go there and start anew, but don't not contact your parents, their love for you is not fake, so don't break their hearts too much.

People have a long road in life, you can't love and have no hope for marriage because you have been hurt, who has never encountered wind and rain on the road of youth, who can spend a lifetime together with only one love in your life, you can't lose hope for all men because of a failure. Even if it is because of the influence of your parents, their marriage relationship is unhappy, or the marriage of someone around you is unhappy, so you don't have expectations for marriage, but their unhappiness does not mean that you will be unhappy, you only give yourself the opportunity to try, open your heart to accept the love of others, you can know whether you will be unhappy in this life, if you miss a person who can give you happiness because of your fear of marriage, then will you regret it for the rest of your life?

Don't collapse now, calm down first, don't panic first when you encounter something like this, be calm. If you enter a marriage with resistance, then you will definitely not be happy, let alone be able to laugh at the wedding.

First of all, you don't run away from the problem, you have to find a way to solve it. You don't have too extreme thoughts, you can calm down with your family and talk about your thoughts and situation carefully, and try to get their understanding.

At this stage, you may not want to get married right away due to work or other reasons, so why not delay this plan for a while? So that you can be ready to plan for a wedding and remarry, otherwise a hasty marriage may lead to an unpredictable ending.

Be patient and explain the disadvantages of this matter to your family, if you don't want to marry but let you marry, then what if your life is not good and there are conflicts in the family? If I find that it is not suitable after marriage, will I still get divorced?

You can say these things more seriously, so that the idea of them forcing you to marry may fade. Secondly, if you don't have expectations for marriage, you'd better find out if there's a reason. Don't be afraid of marriage, in fact, marriage also has a positive side, not necessarily the grave of love.

Marriage does not mean that a task in life has been completed, but marriage is very solemn and a symbol of two families tying the knot. Therefore, before the wedding, the two families must have talked about a lot of details, including the gift money garage and so on, and if you are about to get married but have the psychology of retreating, you should talk to the family more, and don't be afraid of marriage.

After all, the starting point of all the goals of the family is to think about your happiness, don't have too pessimistic thoughts and don't feel too broken, pat on the shoulder.

I don't think anyone would have expectations for marriage, especially for a girl. In this case, like you said, I think you should start by adjusting your mindset and don't see marriage as such a terrible thing that will break you.

I don't know why you don't have expectations for a marriage, or as a girl, all girls should be looking forward to the moment when they put on a beautiful wedding dress and walk into the marriage hall with their beloved. I must have dreamed of working with each other for the rest of my life, forming a happy family, and having one or two cute and beautiful babies, I think this is something that every girl has thought about. Do you have relatives and friends around you, and their marriage is unhappy, which makes you feel that marriage is a burden for you, and you can't experience the beauty of marriage, so you have such thoughts, or you have talked about one or several relationships, and have been hurt in the relationship, so there has always been a shadow in your heart.

I don't want to think about getting married anymore, I think no matter what, you have to adjust your mentality first, and don't resist getting married.

If you are facing the situation of being forced to marry now, if you do not adjust this mentality, then you will not be happy in your married life in the future, so you should think more about marrying now, what is the benefit to you? For example, giving can make you stable and let you have a happy little family. If the person you want to marry happens to be your lover, but you don't have expectations for marriage, so you resist getting married so much, and feel that such a thing makes you very broken, I think that's okay, as long as you adjust your mentality, your future life should be quite happy.

But if you have no expectations for marriage, and the person you are forced to marry is not the person you love deeply, I think this situation is more tricky. I still advise you not to get married. If you feel broken down and helpless now, you simply resign yourself to fate, obey your family's arrangement, and casually marry someone you don't like, I think it is a blasphemy of feelings and irresponsibility to marriage.

You might as well tell your family and friends who forced you to get married that you really don't want to get married now, and let them give you a little time to settle down and tidy up yourself before you look for someone you really love.

I think your situation is that you haven't met enough people you like, if you don't have expectations for marriage now, then you must not settle for yourself, otherwise you will not be happy, I think marriage should be with the person you love.

If you don't want to get married, then don't wronged yourself, tell your family that you don't want to settle in a relationship, and believe that your family will understand you.

Don't be in a hurry, don't be impatient, calm down and analyze carefully, or find a few girls to talk about their opinions and opinions.

In fact, I personally think that if you don't like this marriage very much, you can discuss it with your family, or what I want to know is, why do you have to get married? If it's because of your family, you can communicate with them a little more. In fact, some people can live well without marriage, but I personally think that marriage can still bring great benefits, so you can try to look forward to love.

If there are no special circumstances in this world, there is no need to say it at home, unless someone forces me to force me, if you go to get married, you will definitely have bad emotions.