What is the state of expecting love?

Love has not yet come, of course we can expect love to come, but we don't expect a perfect lover, no one in this world is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings. We have to boldly show love to a person we like, express our admiration, in fact, there are a lot of very reliable friends of the opposite sex around us, but you are too familiar, so many of the advantages of others have not been seen, only you use your heart to discover, boldly go out, true love will come.

The expectations for love are different at every age. For example, when I was in love when I was studying, I wanted to go to school and leave school with my favorite classmates, I wanted to be at the same table with him, I wanted to sit behind him or sit in front of him, it was very pure and simple love. When it comes to work, the love you want is companionship, understanding, support, tolerance, etc., mixed with many complex factors.

When you reach the age of middle age, the love you want is simple, plain, two people rely on each other, support each other, never give up, etc. When people reach a certain age, the love they pursue is not the same, and their needs are different.

Social perception puts a lot of pressure on women, and not every woman can break out of the cage. In my life, I always hear about women and what women should do when they are old, and I think it's very unfair to women. When two strangers meet, do they always ask the person to talk to?

Married? Did you have a baby? Don't have a target yet?

You have to find it quickly, or it's too late! And not what do you do? What major did you study?

We women are no worse than men at work, but we always care about whether women are married or not.

Love doesn't come just as it comes, we should be ourselves first, find our own love, don't ask for a perfect partner, find a person who suits us, and really love each other, live for ourselves, in order to live up to our life, don't settle.

This state will be very sweet, and every time you see a couple, you will show an envious smile. They are also full of expectations for love, and they don't think about the consequences if they love the wrong person.

I think love should be something that everyone should look forward to, a person who believes in love will deeply look forward to the arrival of love, this person should be enthusiastic, believe in good things, treat others sincerely, and at the same time be a person who is responsible for his own life.

If you have an expectation of love, you should have a very fulfilling life, but you will also want to be accompanied by another person.

It's a special happiness. Because I feel that this kind of love will also make me very good.

These people are more loyal in the face of love, and they have seen through love, so they either don't talk about it, or they just talk about a long-lasting relationship, and whenever they come into contact with a relationship, they are fully devoted. Take care of everything you have.

Some people don't have any expectations for love, because they have experienced an unforgettable love without any results, their enthusiasm is exhausted, they feel that they have lost the ability to love, they have lost confidence in love, and they have no expectations.

Because he didn't meet the right person, he wouldn't let himself have a heart-warming idea. He knew that he wouldn't spend his time on one person because he didn't want to. Everyone's time is precious, and if it's something you don't like, there's really no need to waste your time.

Hello, probably because I've been disappointed. For example, there are some unpleasant memories, such as family reasons, thinking that parents are not doing well, such as friends, seeing that friends' feelings are not so smooth, such as liking to be alone, not liking others to disturb it, for example, not meeting a person you like, there are too many reasons.

Because many people don't believe in love, the most fragile thing in the relationship is love, which is not long-term is also love, because family affection is inseparable, and friendship is much simpler than love, and it is not as complicated as love

1. I haven't met real love yet, and what I've encountered is not so beautiful, so you don't look forward to love so much. Headlines Lai Yan.

Second, if you have met a very beautiful love and are not together in the end, you don't believe in love so much, so you don't look forward to it.

If you don't have this expectation of love, it means that you have been hurt a lot in the group, or you have lost a lot of hope for love, so you don't have such an expectation, because you don't want to fall in love now, or you feel that you are in a very good state.

Maybe some people have been hurt by love, and he has lost confidence in love, so he doesn't have any expectations for love. Maybe some people still have a lot of things to do, and there are still a lot of unfulfilled wishes to be fulfilled, and he doesn't have time to think about love, so he doesn't expect love for the time being.

Some people don't have any expectations for love, because they have been hurt in love, so they no longer believe in love, in fact, I think we should face our love with a positive attitude, I believe that we will be happy.

Some people slowly lose any expectations for love, and such people are often hurt by love, so they lose confidence in it. This kind of person needs to adjust his state slowly.

The reason why many people resist falling in love, or being single for a long time, sometimes has a lot to do with the previous relationship, because the previous relationship has suffered a lot of losses and is a little afraid of love, so they have been single and dare not start a new relationship.

Because some people have been hurt a lot in love, or they are very afraid of love, so such people do not have any expectations for love, because they want to stay away from their love.

Some people have been hurt by love, when they pay, all for a girl, but the girl does not have any response, but hurts the boy, then the boy must not have any yearning and expectation for love.

It's not that I didn't have expectations, but I didn't meet the right person. When one day, you really meet the person who makes you like and makes your heart move. You will still believe in love, and you will still meet in anticipation of the beginning of love.

There are a lot of people who don't have any expectations for love. Most of these people are heartbroken by love. I have experienced a lot of failed relationships in the past. The heart is already scarred. From now on, I will no longer believe in love, and I will no longer have any expectations for love.

Those who have no expectations for love may have been hurt a lot in love, and feel that love is a kind of pain, so they no longer have any illusions about love.

If a person has been hurt emotionally, he will definitely not believe in love easily, and since he does not believe in love, he will definitely not look forward to it. Only people who do not believe in love do not expect love.

Maybe they are in the emotions of their youth, or the emotional experience of the people around them, and they have seen a lot of unfulfilled love, so he is not willing to believe in love anymore.

Some people have been hurt by love, or have seen others hurt by love, or their parents are not in harmony, so they are afraid, so they have a sense of fear of love and have no expectations.

We girls should be very eager for love, because love can make people learn to tolerate others, learn to get along with others, and at the same time be a warm harbor in each other's lives. The love I yearn for is not so flashy, just simple, but I hope that such a love wish can come true!

Love that has been together for a long time

Although I have never been in love, but there are people around me who are constantly falling in love and people breaking up, many people break up after two or three weeks or two or three months together, I feel that every pair of lovers who break up is very regrettable, although people are to pay attention to fate, but it is not easy to be together, why break up? Could it be that those who break up easily agree to be with someone else because they have not confirmed that they feel that they are in love, and after a few weekends, they will find that they either don't want to be in a relationship yet, or they don't like the other person! I don't want to change boyfriends so often, so I want to be able to stay with him for a long time when I'm in a relationship, from high school to college, from school uniforms to wedding dresses!

Love with a sense of security

In love, both boys and girls need a sense of security, and sometimes two people are in a long-distance relationship, which will make people feel more anxious. Because the long-distance relationship has been going on for a long time, they are afraid of each other, and someone else appears next to the other person, in these processes, I can't say what I see, what difficulties and problems the other party has encountered, we can't help, and I seem to have withdrawn from the circle of lovers! So if I'm in a relationship, especially a long-distance relationship, I hope that the other person can give me enough security, keep in touch with me at any time, tell me everything, and preferably share his daily life with me, although I don't have much leisure time, but I am willing to understand his life status, and I hope that he can tolerate small troubles like mine, because I need security.

If two people have not been together for a long time, it is difficult to fully trust each other, and the love I want is not very high, but many people can't do these requirements.

What is Love? Actually, I don't know very well, because I have never been in love, and the mother and fetus have been single until now, and I have never even held a girl's hand.

But if you haven't eaten pork, can you still see a pig run?

I haven't experienced love, but others have experienced it, I've seen it, although it's not real, but I can appreciate it.

Everyone longs for different love, and the definition of love is also different, some only believe in love at first sight, a glance is ten thousand years, only to feel that this life is just to meet you; And some people don't believe in love at first sight, scoffing at it, thinking that it is superficial, only believing in love over time, thin water, companionship is a confession of long-term love, and the appearance can slowly fall in love with a person and stay together for a lifetime, and grow old together. No one can say for sure about the generation of love, each has its own preferences and its own fate. Love at first sight, heartbeat; Over time, the water flows.

I think the most sincere and simple love is just holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son.

I've always believed in love, and although I've never had one, I've always had good expectations for love. What is Love? Love is what it looks like, as for what your love is like, it's up to you, no matter how you fantasize about it out of thin air, it's also your love, only when you really touch it, you will know what your love is like, what you want to cultivate it into.

Sail beam dress. So I understand, are you still looking forward to love? Of course, I look forward to it, who doesn't look forward to beautiful love, but when you really encounter love, please take it seriously, otherwise this love may bear bitter fruits, making you doubt love, don't doubt love, what you have to doubt is whether the people in love are beautiful enough, you are just "reaping the consequences".

True love is beautiful, so please keep your heart looking forward to love, and please keep making yourself better enough to be worthy of the love you are looking forward to. One day, you expect the love of the scum to knock on the door.

I've been waiting for a long time, hoping to wait for someone I like.

Many people yearn for marriage, because marriage is a sacred and solemn thing, if two people make up their minds to enter the palace of marriage, it proves that each other is ready to join hands for a lifetime and accompany each other to old age.

Although everyone has spared no effort to pursue a beautiful love, life is always full of variables, no one can go through the beginning to the end, some people are lucky, from the beginning to meet the right feelings, while some people's love road is very bumpy, always meet people unladylike.

Full of longing for feelings belongs to the normal needs of people, the famous psychologist Maslow once divided human needs into 5 parts.

The bottom layer is physiological needs, that is, food and clothing, the second layer is security needs, including acceptance security and psychological safety, the third layer is the need for love and belonging, everyone can get a sense of belonging and love satisfaction from family or love, and the fourth layer is the need for respect, and it is from the fourth layer that the demand has entered a high-level model, and the fifth layer is self-realization, that is, to realize dreams and pursue the meaning of life.

Man is a social animal that needs love and care. When you're happy, you want someone to celebrate with you, and when you're sad, you want someone to rely on.

Human beings' emotional needs are far more detailed than their physical needs, and this spiritual pursuit is also inseparable from the individual's growth experience, personality and family of origin.

Psychologist Erikson pointed out that in early adulthood, an individual will face the contradiction and conflict of intimacy and loneliness, during which the individual will be extremely eager to establish stable and long-term intimate relationships, so as to alleviate the inner loneliness.

If an individual is able to establish an intimate relationship smoothly, his or her sense of security can be established, and conversely, if he or she is not adequately loved and cared for, the individual will develop a state of benign disorder.

Psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that a normal, healthy person is full of love, able to work more seriously and live a more active life, and not only did he point out that the unity that individuals build during their adolescence is conducive to establishing stable and good intimate relationships with others later on.