I ve had a boyfriend for more than a month, and now he doesn t seem to pay much attention to me, why

There are several possibilities, one is that after more than a month of understanding and contact, he feels that you are not his ideal partner, so he wants to distance himself from you or give up on you. Another possibility is that you may have hurt her, or she found out that you did something that didn't hurt her. This situation requires you to carefully conduct a self-examination.

The third situation may be that your popularity rises too quickly, after all, you have only been dating for more than a month, and the two parties may not know each other very well, but you want to quickly enter the feeling of being in love. There is also a situation where she may want to test your attitude towards her and how much you care about her by being cold to you. Judge it in combination with these situations.

It should be that he has a spare tire, or some of your behaviors that he doesn't like very much. Or maybe he has a better option than you, so he's waiting for you to propose a breakup so that he can get out of the relationship.

Hello, it's been more than a month since I had a boyfriend, and if he's really busy, it's normal to have no time to pay attention to you, after all, most people are Alexanders now, but since they have chosen to meet, it's fate, understand and tolerate each other, and do it and cherish it.

If it weren't for the high pressure due to busy work, it might be that I don't want to get along with you! What is the reason, you can talk to him directly, if you are really not satisfied, then say it directly, so get together and disperse! Don't delay each other's time to maintain this relationship for the sake of face!

He may feel that there has been little real progress. Or there are others. The spare tire basically does not turn right. Try to think about letting go. Find someone who is always thinking about you sending you messages.

Maybe you don't feel too much, and then take a good look, if it has not improved like this, it is recommended to plan early, so as not to delay each other.

Love is mutual, the other party asks you to take the initiative a few times, and the woman should also take the initiative appropriately. Otherwise, the man will think that he is just hot, and you are passive.

When we manage love, we think that we can go to the end with each other. But two people have been together for a long time, they will become more and more cold, which is a common phenomenon, at this time we should know how to manage our love.

You've been with your boyfriend for two months, and you feel like he's getting colder and colder with you. At this time, you should find fault with yourself, whether you are not doing well in what aspects, so that the other party will be like this. Many times, the reason why boys are cold to you is because you are too willful, girls are generally more willful, and they will have a lot of problems when dealing with love, which leads to boys becoming more and more cold to you.

If you want the other person to change their attitude, you have to get rid of these bad things about yourself. If you feel that you have done nothing wrong, but that the other person is becoming more and more cold to you, then you should explain it to the other person and ask what the other person means. If he really doesn't love you anymore, the two of them should get together and break up.

If he still loves you, you should explain all this to the other person and make him change his attitude towards you.

Many girls don't want to talk about it, they will be cranky, but the more you think about it, the more confused it becomes, it's better to explain it to the other party, which will make each other better. Boys are getting colder and colder to you. In many cases, I just don't like you anymore, and at this time you should recognize all this, two people have only been together for two months, and they haven't loved so deeply.

At this time, the breakup will not hurt yourself, if you give too much, the other party does not like you. At this point you will become more passive, so the girl must take the initiative.

When you love someone, you should give your heart and soul to them. Your boyfriend is becoming more and more cold to you, which means that there is nothing new to you. He's tired of this love, so you have to recognize the situation.

Yes, his enthusiasm for you has slowly faded, which means that the other party does not care about you very much, and does not particularly like you.

It's not that I don't like you anymore, but because I don't want to perfunctory you anymore, I feel very irritable, and I feel that you can't do without him.

Yes, he doesn't like you anymore, and after spending a long time with you, he will have all kinds of small contradictions and feel particularly irritable.

It's a shame to hear that your boyfriend is acting cold to you. This situation does not mean that your relationship has come to an end, but you and your boyfriend need to have a serious communication to understand his thoughts and feelings in order to find out what the problem is and try to solve it.

Try asking your boyfriend if he has any feelings or problems with his recent behavior, and at the same time express your affection and concern to him, hoping to work with him to find solutions and improve the relationship with them.

If your boyfriend doesn't want to talk to you or the problem doesn't get resolved after you talk to you, then maybe you need to consider whether or not to continue the relationship, and it's up to you to make your own decision.

If it's not that he is in a bad mood and is a little cold to you, it is possible that there is a problem with your relationship, and he unconsciously shows it, and he no longer has enthusiasm for you, and his phenotype is cold and indifferent. At this time, you still have to communicate with him more to see if the problem is in the ** and whether there is a possibility of change. If he blindly runs away and doesn't want to face it, you may not be able to go on.

Summary. He actually loves you, but you don't think the same way, and your thoughts are why your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as he used to, and if you do, he cares about you, and your boyfriend does this because he thinks you're his future wife, and you won't leave him, so he doesn't care about you as much as he used to, and now he thinks about working hard for the sake of your future, and you think that if he doesn't love you, he won't, and you will bring the house to your parents.

I've been with my boyfriend for more than three months, and I feel that he is becoming more and more indifferent to me and treating me badly, is he not loving me anymore? We have known each other for four or five years, each other has an unhappy marriage, we have families, and there are children, but the children do not live with us, the last three months we choose to be together, he does his own business, I work in the unit, at the beginning I feel that he is very good to me, aside from other things, to come to my aunt will cook brown sugar eggs to send to the unit, every day to and from work will pick up, buy me fruits, buy lipstick, buy bags, cook every day and wait for me to go back to eat, etc., but I feel that he has changed recently, and there is less information exchange, Sometimes the reply to the message is slow, sometimes I don't answer** and I don't reply**, but now the only thing is that before eating, he will ask me if I will go back to eat, does he not love me anymore? I feel like I can't stand this indifference, what should I do?

How to deal with this relationship?

He actually loves you, but you don't think the same way, and your thoughts are why your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as he used to, and if you care, he cares about you, and your boyfriend does this because he thinks you're his future wife, and you won't leave him, so he doesn't care about you as much as he used to, and now he thinks about working hard for your future, and you think that if he doesn't love you, he won't take the house to show his parents1

Girls should be independent, whether they love it or not. At the beginning, he was kind and considerate to you, so that he became your spiritual pillar, and he became your habit, but no one will always have the enthusiasm of first love for each other. So don't take his love for granted, and don't rely on it too much, it will only make yourself miserable.

It is said that an independent woman is always the most attractive to a man. You have your own circle of life, girlfriends, beautiful clothes, a good mood, and your own things to do, even if you love him very much, you must make yourself a part of your life. Women can't take men as fate, an independent and wonderful woman will fascinate men, whether it's three months or three years.

Don't suffer from gains and losses, be yourself, maybe he will come back and stick to you!!

His parents didn't know yet.

I feel so tired, just a few months have been dull, even a sleep is back-to-back, am I too devoted.

Well. Teacher, this is too difficult.

Indeed, you are too engaged.