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Resolutely can't quit your job, it's hard to take care of your children, you can't be independent without income, and women must not lose a job because of their children.
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It is recommended not to quit your job after giving birth, and it is the best choice to work hard and raise the child at the same time. Because once you quit your job to take care of your children, your career will stagnate, which is not conducive to future development, the family's economy, and the synchronization with your lover. When the child is older, there will be many discomforts when he is employed again, and life is a colorful and intertwined life, so work hard!
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It's better not to. Even if it is a little hard to take care of children while getting a job, you will not be out of touch with society, and you can still have a common language with your lover; Once you quit your job and your children don't need your care, if you want to step into society and have to put in more effort, people won't necessarily use you.
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If your salary is okay then it is not recommended that you quit, you can find a nanny, so that you still have your own space, and also have your own income, and you will have the financial ability to live a good life, if you give up your job and take care of the baby at home, it will be very sad to be a full-time mother, it is hard and no one understands, so it is best not to quit.
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The value of a woman's existence is not only for the sake of the children and her husband, resignation will only make her own nanny, one is out of touch with society, and the other is self-depreciation, as the child grows up, not only the husband's family looks down on you, but the child also looks down on you. Women should not think about quitting their jobs after marriage, and would rather hire a nanny than reach out to their husbands to ask for money to support themselves.
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If your family's economic conditions are good, your husband's career is good, you can concentrate on taking care of the children, if your family's income is average, then you still don't resign easily, and let the children be taken care of by your in-laws.
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The postpartum period will indeed be more fragile, the child is all you have, and you want to give the child all the love, I think it's good to want to quit your job and take care of the child at home, but you need to have a considerable income in the family.
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This can be done for the sake of a better child's education, but only if you can afford the family financially.
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To be honest, young people now have a lot of pressure in their lives, working hard to earn money to support their families on the one hand, and taking care of their children on the other hand, so they can't be left behind. I have also encountered such a problem, weighing the pros and cons, weighing the two evils, taking the lighter, balancing the two benefits, taking the heavier, you have to look at the childcare and quitting the job, which one is lighter and which is heavier, and then make a right choice.
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After giving birth, she blamed herself for the sake of the child, because she had no one to see the child, and he had to support the families to take care of the housework.
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Decide according to your own situation.
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For the common growth of children and stay-at-home mothers, fathers should also take responsibility, share housework, and share the burden of picking up and dropping off children. Learning is lifelong, not only the learning of knowledge, but also the learning of experience, of course, including the learning of social attempts. Be brave, for the sake of the children, for the physical and mental health of the family, full-time mothers must learn to let go, be strong towards work, and enter the society.
When mothers start working, the family's income increases. People have such a consciousness that people who don't make money are not confident enough, and a strong mother can be cultivated into a strong character for children.
Notes:Stay-at-home mothers are in a state of closed information, and some confusion will be unable to tell the attack, and there is no way to solve it. Sometimes they will pin their hopes on their children indefinitely, and slowly put all kinds of mental pressure on them.
After giving birth, many women will worry about this problem, but many will inevitably develop horizontally. When I gave birth to my baby, I was in Beijing Xiyun Mommy, and the confinement was also there, and they would formulate a personalized postpartum body repair plan according to each person's different body shape and physiological characteristics, including whitening, blemish, slimming, yoga, fading stretch marks, abdominal tightening, pelvic floor muscle tightening, postpartum, etc.
From the birth of my daughter to the age of 2 and a half, my mother-in-law and nanny took care of her, I worked in other places, and I had to travel a lot, basically sometimes I couldn't go home once a month; After the age of 2 and a half, I quit my job and went home to take care of my daughter full-time, and soon we established a good relationship, and now my daughter is excellent in all aspects; So in my personal opinion, before the age of 2, the baby is still young, as long as the basic needs are met; After the age of 2, it is the first period for parent-child establishment, and the baby's education cannot be all done by the elderly, they do not have the knowledge and the ability, the mother must do it herself; Look at my daughter's kindergarten children, the good quality is basically brought out by full-time mothers. View the original post
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