What do you say if your boyfriend says he poured it in the rain for an hour?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should say something caring, from the bottom of your heart, he's your boyfriend after all. If you get along well and have feelings for each other, you will stay together for the rest of your life. Say something of concern and ask him to drink some ginger water and take a hot bath at home.

    If you soak in the rain for an hour, you will easily catch a cold and get sick. If it's convenient for you to get off work, you can go and see him, which is what a girlfriend should do. Since you are boyfriend and girlfriend, doing so will increase your affection for each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The boyfriend said that he poured it in the rain for an hour, at this time you should say something caring, such as hiding downstairs on the side of the road, and then find a place to pay attention to safety when the rain stops, I will cook ginger soup for you now, you won't catch a cold when you come back and drink ginger soup, these words can be said, and your boyfriend will definitely be very moved when he hears it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Explain the meaning of your boyfriend who was drenched in the rain for an hour, your boyfriend should be at work or on the road by the rain, you can say that he wants to save his body, and if he is sick, he should go to the hospital in time, so he cares about him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, you have to care about him, ask him if I don't have a cold, if you have time to visit him, these are all okay.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He's waiting for you to get drenched in the rain, and this guy is so stupid!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The boyfriend said he poured it in the rain for an hour. You can tell him. Why don't you value yourself so much?! Do you know - someone is worried about you and feels sorry for you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You just say something caring, it's your boyfriend, just say it, or go and see, isn't it just that two people are together to take care of each other

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You must go up to comfort her, why are you so stupid? Drenched in the rain for an hour.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't get gonorrhea, I'll make you a bowl of ginger soup to drink!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend is like this, he's sick, how can you say that you don't know yet? So how did you get a boyfriend? If you care about someone or your boyfriend, what should you say and do, do you still need to ask others?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dear, I'll solve your problem for you, pro 1, "When a boy says that he is drenched in the rain, you have to tell him not to get caught in the rain when it rains, because it can easily cause colds." You can buy an umbrella or hide from the rain outside, because it is easy to catch a cold in the rain. Be careful and pay attention to your physical health.

    2. Hello, if it is the object of your concern, then you need to tell him to reply: be careful not to catch a cold, take a shower when you go back in the rain, and drink it with 999. If it's just an ordinary relationship, you can reply:

    Why don't you go out and look at the weather forecast, this rain has a memory, 3, remember to see the weather forecast when you go out, the weather has been hot recently, take an umbrella in your hand, shelter you from the wind and rain, dear, I am happy to serve you, dear, I hope it can help you, dear, I wish you a happy life, happy every day.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think this question scores, because sometimes if your boyfriend is inconvenient to pick you up at that time, or he is very far away from you, to pick you up for a long time, you could have taken a taxi to go home faster, and he doesn't have convenient transportation, and it is very inconvenient to run to you, so you still ask him to pick you up, I think this is a bit excessive. In fact, many times, it is not too much, it would be nice if you could understand each other.

    It is everyone's instinct to love someone and want to protect her. If your boyfriend has his own car and has nothing to be busy with, then I don't think this request is excessive, because the man who loves himself must be willing to pick him up, and it is still raining heavily, he will definitely worry about you, afraid that you will catch a cold in the rain, afraid that walking is too slippery, he should not need to call him He should also take the initiative to pick you up, even if he doesn't have a car, you go out without an umbrella, he will go to bring you back. If he cares about you and argues with you because of this little thing, it means that he doesn't care about you as much as you think.

    Many times, two people will get along with each other for a long time before they will slowly find that the other party is not as perfect as they imagined, and they will slowly find out whether the other party is sincere to themselves, two people will live together in the future, it will no longer be like when they are in love, when they are in love, they are eating, drinking and watching movies, and after they get married, they may be old and young, as well as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and there is pressure from life, work and society, so the person who wants to marry must be a person who will love himself and hurt himself, People with a sense of responsibility, otherwise their future life will not be happy. Before getting married, you must have a good understanding of who the other party is before you can make a decision, what kind of person a person is, no matter how he disguises it, the longer you get along, the more you will be exposed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's too much, but it's hypocritical.

    You may think you don't have an umbrella or something and want to ask him for help to pick you up. And he's your boyfriend, so he should play the role of a boyfriend at this time. Therefore, if it rains heavily and you are helpless, it is not too much to ask your boyfriend to come and pick you up.

    Women are looking for boyfriends and husbands just to seek support, not to find someone to talk to. Therefore, at this time, I call my boyfriend just to experience the warmth of my boyfriend, I can understand it.

    However, I think it's hypocritical enough. If your boyfriend really has a heart, he will take the initiative to pick you up. It wasn't that you called him to come, and he came.

    Isn't there a saying that "a woman who takes a gift from her husband is happier than a woman who reaches out and asks for a gift from her husband." So, what is his attitude, can't you see it yourself?

    Moreover, I think girls should be independent. My own personal feelings: If you are always pestering others, ask to be taken care of.

    If, one day, the other person is going to leave you, you will become very panicked. The beggars of love are very pathetic creatures. So, think of it as sticking to your pride.

    Even if it's raining heavily, borrowing an umbrella, buying an umbrella, fighting, running wildly, it's good in any way, just don't get used to relying on each other.

    What can maintain a good love is to take the initiative to understand and love, not to restrain and kidnap. If your boyfriend thinks it's too much for him to pick you up in the heavy rain, then say goodbye to him. No matter how good he is, he is not good enough for you.

    Instead of dwelling on your demands, think clearly about how much he loves you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I think that I really need to consider this issue in combination with many aspects. Because different circumstances also highlight how much this girl thinks about her boyfriend.

    First of all, I don't think this request is unreasonable, but I think love is not a person's tenth, but a combination of five points per person. But as a boy, it is also necessary to pay a little more, because in terms of social development, China is still in a stage where men's rights are greater than women's rights, and they are about to enter the stage of equality between men and women. Therefore, it is understandable that boys here are often the ones who pay more in love.

    And a girl is more lonely, and it's raining heavily in the sky, is it wrong to want her boyfriend to pick it up? Yes, yes, it's very reasonable, but have you ever thought about it for your boyfriend, if your boyfriend is doing something very important, every second counts, and you know such a situation at this time, and then you still want your boyfriend to pick you up, I think it's a bit vexatious. When it rains, you really need a sense of security, with the person you want most by your side, then your boyfriend will put down what he is doing to pick you up, he loves you enough, but over time, the man may feel tired.

    On the other hand, if your boyfriend doesn't have anything convenient, then he should come and pick you up, because I think that's what a guy should do, and in bad weather, even if you don't call your boyfriend, I think the guy should take the initiative to contact his girlfriend to ask about the situation and say that he wants to pick her up. Because girls need you, you can't help but show up, right?

    In fact, from such a small question, we can see a lot of things, whether your boyfriend cares about you, and whether your girlfriend thinks about you. This is understandable in love, both parties have to pay a little heart to each other, otherwise a person is too easily tired and will not love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on the specific situation, and sometimes it's better not to be too willful.

    If your boyfriend is fine, his health is fine, or he is closer to where you are, and he has his own car or transportation is very convenient, then you let him pick you up, I don't think it's too much, after all, it's nothing for girls to be hypocritical when they're in love, and this is also a girl's patent. If your boyfriend doesn't want to pick you up and wants to play at home by himself, then he's going too far.

    But if your boyfriend is not in good health, or it is very inconvenient for him to come to you, he does not have a car, the transportation is not convenient, and you have your own umbrella to go back, I think your request is a bit excessive. Because although girls have the right to be hypocritical when they are in love, this right is not so abused, you have to know that the two of you are equal, and your boyfriend is not a slave.

    The most excessive thing is that if he is not in good health, you still let him come, which is very ignorant. Have you considered your boyfriend's body? Heavy rain may have made his condition worse.

    And you're not a child anymore, even if you don't bring an umbrella, it's so convenient for Didi to take a taxi now, can't you take a taxi and go? If you have to ask your boyfriend to pick it up, it's a bit overkill.

    I'm assuming these are all assumptions, if it doesn't happen to you, you don't want to sit down, I'm just talking about my own views superficially, I think you have to pay attention to everything when you're in love, whether it's coquettish or hypocritical, it's appropriate, that's the mood, it's excessive, it's disrespectful. And everyone has their own things, and sometimes you have to learn to be considerate of each other, even if he doesn't come to pick you up, it's not too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As boys, protecting their girlfriends is a boy's responsibility, so I don't think it's too much. If it was your girlfriend, walking alone in the heavy rain and majestic weather, what kind of picture would it be, did you bear it? If you can't bear it, I can only say that maybe you don't have the heart at all.

    Even if you don't have a car and can't bring her shelter from the wind and rain and other tools, is that what she wants? Even if you take an umbrella and walk past, I believe that she is also moved, at least when you feel lonely and helpless, there is someone who cares about me and is willing to brave the heavy rain to accompany me, even if the rain is heavy and the body is cold, but the heart is also warm and happy, and you are her happiness.

    I remember one time I went out with my boyfriend for a weekend, but the weather was really bad that day, the whole sky was overcast, and it felt like it could rain at any time. He sent me a message saying that the weather was bad today, so let's go back tomorrow. But I wanted to meet him at that time, even if it was two people with me, not saying anything, not doing anything, I was happy.

    I was a little angry and said he didn't want to see me. Then he deliberately didn't pick him up and went about his own business.

    He was probably in a hurry at the time, because he called a lot of ** and I didn't answer, and then he took a taxi directly to find me, but when he got out of the car, it was already raining, and it was getting heavier and heavier, so he came to my door in the rain all the way and knocked on the door. When I opened the door and saw him standing in front of me like a chicken in soup, all my anger disappeared, and I only felt full of distress and self-blame, and felt that I shouldn't lose my temper so willfully.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girls are sensitive creatures, especially girls in love, who are even more sentimental. I'm a girl, and I can understand girls very well.

    In fact, although a girl's mind is very complex and delicate, this shows that she loves you. <>For a girl, I think that since she is in love, she should be a treasure in the hands of her boyfriend, the kind that is afraid of melting in her mouth and afraid of flying in her hand. It may be that everyone's emotional outlook is different, so I'll talk about mine first.

    I think that as a boyfriend, the least you should do is to treat your girlfriend wholeheartedly and spoil her like a girl. We don't ask our boyfriend to give you any more expensive gifts, because what we want is not expensive gifts, but that heart. If you really love your girlfriend, then care more about her, at least remember your girlfriend's birthday, your girlfriend's aunt's day has to be estimated to be about the same, and when your aunt comes, don't just say let your girlfriend drink more hot water, we are not stupid, of course we know that hot water is good, then we can't drink hot water for everything.

    Don't have a cold war if you quarrel with your girlfriend, even if it's your girlfriend's fault, the boy should coax his girlfriend first, and then talk about his grievances when the anger is gone.

    If two people in love happen not to be together, and the weather on the girl's side is bad and it suddenly rains heavily, as a boyfriend, you should pay attention to the weather on your girlfriend's side, and if it rains, you should contact your girlfriend and take the initiative to pick her up. Unless the boy is very busy, very busy, and has no time at all. And about getting my boyfriend to come and pick me up when it rains heavily, I think this has risen to the level of another problem, because whether or not to come to pick me up is something that I think about as a boyfriend.

    Maybe the boy forgot or something, but since he forgot, then the girl had to remind him, and it wasn't too much.

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