After spending more than a month with my boyfriend, he said we weren t a good fit, but I didn t want

If you want to save a relationship, you can chat with him as a friend first, you may have communicated too little before, and neither of you has fully shown the most authentic side of yourself to each other, which is the most direct reason. I dare to assert that the two of you don't know each other's personalities at the moment, not long after they met, the two of them wanted to show their best side, and they hid their truest selves and tucked them away, which is the worst performance, the more like that, the more nothing to talk about, don't be so restrained, the atmosphere of the two chatting together is the most important, and the atmosphere is good, and he is also relaxed in his heart. A man is nothing more than just looking for a girlfriend who feels no pressure to be with him, you can start with QQ chat, and you can treat him as a girlfriend you can laugh at.

I advise you to end it, the twisted melon is not sweet, he is so cold to you means that he doesn't love you enough, and he doesn't want to be with you for the rest of his life, otherwise he will be very willing to be with you; There is no suitability, it is not suitable, it is not like it, there is no feeling; It's better to divide it; You will meet the next one that loves you and the one you love.

In fact, the landlord If you really love him, then of course you should go to the party This is an opportunity When you fight for the opportunity, the probability of success is greater Feelings require courage and courage If you really want to keep the other party or do not accept it, then don't fight for it Feelings need tacit understanding If the two parties love each other, then walking together is happy If you don't love each other and walking together, you won't be very happy Landlord Each of us is constantly looking for the most suitable one for us on the road of feelings, so Even if you lose it, it's to meet the right person at the next corner, and I hope the landlord is happy.

People in love are all fools" This sentence is really true, there is also a saying, called: "Whoever doesn't love first leaves first, leaving behind people full of scars", love is originally two people, you love him again, he doesn't love you, what's the use, you wake up, leave it to the person who loves you, at least it won't hurt your self-esteem.

Go to him again, and pursue your own happiness.

I'm not optimistic about your relationship, let's break up.

The world of love is always unacceptable, and many times it is not according to the trajectory of one's imagination. When you get along with your boyfriend for more than a year, the other party suddenly says that they are not suitable for each other, in the face of such a situation, at this time you will take the initiative to ask for an explanation, if the other party really doesn't love you anymore, then let go decisively.

Love will often face unsatisfactory, and it is not up to you to say it alone, and the other party suddenly says that it is not suitable, so you should let the other party say a reason. If there is really a problem in the relationship and it is an unsolvable situation, this is the time when you need to calmly accept this fact.

No matter what, you can't keep a person who is not in your heart, and a year with each other is not a long time, but it is not short, and at this time you need to accept the result of love failure. No matter when you need to let yourself meet the situation of love, since it is a love that cannot be kept, girls should also maintain themselves in love, and cannot let love affect their decision-making, so that people can live more soberly.

Everyone longs to have a good love, but if you really encounter a bad situation, learning to let go is the best outcome for yourself. Love is not the master of one person, it takes two people to manage it well, so that people can feel the beauty of life, since a person's persistence can not get good results, then take the initiative to let go will better welcome the arrival of love.

If you don't meet someone who treats you sincerely in love, don't be discouraged, so that you can have a good life. For yourself, love is not all of yourself, since the other party already has the intention of leaving, then decisively letting go is a better choice, and you deserve better people to take care of you.

Since it has been more than a year, it proves that your relationship has passed the test of time, and if it is not suitable, it may be really inappropriate.

Another possibility is that the relationship is really weak, and there are indeed differences in personality and three views, and it is impossible to run in.

I've just been with my boyfriend for a year, and he suddenly says to you that you are not suitable, he said this before there should have been a precursor, you were too careless, if so, he must have thought about it maturely, and the chance of redemption is very small.

I think the two of you should communicate well, communicate calmly, review your own problems, and then give each other a chance to make corrections.

should break up with her boyfriend, since her boyfriend said such a thing, it means that he doesn't want to be with him anymore, so he must decisively give up this relationship.

Since your boyfriend has suggested that it is not suitable, it proves that he is going to break up with you. It's enough to prove that he doesn't like you anymore, so he can only break up.

In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party to understand the real thoughts of the other party, and if the other party is determined to break up, there is no need for you to keep it.

First of all, we must ask why you suddenly say that it is not suitable, whether it is ** inappropriate, whether it is inappropriate personality, whether the three views are inappropriate or the economic conditions are not suitable, or that he doesn't like you anymore, find the root of the problem, and then go to solve these problems together, you can't be cold, you can't be angry, you can't break up if it's not suitable, we can't break up without knowing it, we have been together for more than a year, we should sit down and talk about it, and explain this matter.

In fact, you can try a little harder and think for yourself why you are not suitable. If you want to find the reason, you can change each other. If it's just because he really doesn't like you, then I don't feel like there's any need to force it.

If this is the case, it means that his love for you is no longer so deep, maybe he doesn't love you anymore, and the melon he asks for is not sweet, and he should share it.

When he said this, it means that he is tired of this relationship and doesn't want to continue with you, so it's better to accept it, the twisted melon is not sweet.

You should choose to break up, and the other party has already done this, which is to show yourself that you don't want to continue, so you should fulfill the other party.

In this case, I personally don't think there's any need for you to be together, because he's been planning it for a long time, definitely.

You've been together for a year, and if he says something inappropriate, then you have to break up, because after all, you should know him, right? So, if I don't think it's appropriate, I'll divide it, right?

Your boyfriend ignores you for half a month and doesn't say anything about breaking up. Then there are two reasons for this situation. One case is that it doesn't work.

This way of doing things has to do with his personality and the way he deals with problems. There is also a situation where this kind of relationship is not very cold, and it is dispensable. So there's no need to deal with it.

It is recommended that if you still want to continue, the best thing to do is to take the initiative. Ask him out and try to communicate with the two. If the other party makes it clear that our relationship is over, then it's time to let it go.

If your boyfriend has ignored you for half a month, but he doesn't take the initiative to break up with you. Then I think it's very likely that he means that he doesn't plan to break up with you anymore. He just wants to force you to take the initiative to break up with him through this cold and violent way.

It is very likely that you told him that she still ignored you after the breakup, because he was afraid that you would continue to pester him. So what he means by this kind of man is very obvious, that is, to break up with you through this way of not contacting and not talking.

Is there any conflict between you? In fact, you don't have to guess what the reason is, you can find a time to ask him out, and the two of you can communicate well, don't you know what's going on?

If you have something to say clearly, don't be like that over there, and after a long time, you won't come back to your relationship.

He gave up your relationship from the bottom of his heart, but he didn't want to be a negative man and take the initiative to break up, forcing you to take the initiative to mention it yourself.

Or maybe he has a new girlfriend and is happy every day, and he has already left you behind.

If you're smart, you don't have to wait for him, just find another one yourself.

Some men are more cunning, obviously he has the idea of breaking up, but he won't say it, he is just very cold to women, and he wants to slowly force women to take the initiative to leave.

If a man doesn't contact you and throws you aside, but he doesn't break up with you, he just keeps his distance from you by having a cold war, then you have to know that this man is forcing you to leave by doing this. Because he knows that one day you can't stand his indifference, you will leave, so as long as he does ruthlessness, you will not have the slightest nostalgia for this relationship.

Women, you have to believe that if a man wants to go on with you, he will not snub you, and even if there is any conflict between you, he will not fail to contact you.

But if a man doesn't want to deal with you at all and treats you like air, then maybe he has other ideas.

Breaking up should be something that two people decide together, even if he doesn't love you anymore, the two should make it clear thoroughly, rather than the sudden disappearance of one party and the overwhelm of the other.

Don't bother to say it, cuckold him.

I've only been with you for half a month, and my boyfriend has ignored me for two months.

I ignored you for half a month, and you still didn't mention breaking up?! Just let him hang you like that?

If you can hold on for half a month, you can consider breaking up.

Hang your appetite and let you take the initiative, it's best not to ignore him first, and try to see if he has feelings for you.

Ask him what he means to continue, to break up, and to give him a happy word.

You can ask him to reach out to him by calling **.

The boyfriend who has been in love for two years suddenly puts forward the conditions for breaking up with the girl. When asked for the reason, the boy even broke up because we were not suitable, and such a reason is unacceptable to any girl. But in fact, girls should also realize that the boy's idea of breaking up is not suddenly thought of breaking up, it must have been premeditated in advance.

And girls must also improve their abilities when dating boys, so as to reduce the boys' thoughts of wanting to break up. Ask your boyfriend why they broke up and then make corrections, and if your boyfriend can forgive, you can choose to continue dating together.

Girls should cheer upIf a boy proposes to break up with a girl, the girl should not keep too much, and must believe that only by improving their own abilities will they meet a better next one. If you don't have an ex, you won't have a next one, so when you are dating a boy, you should also be aware of whether there is a problem with your own personality. It is unbearable for boys to choose to break up, and breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing, just to lay the groundwork for meeting a better next person.

After two years of dating, my boyfriend said that we were not suitable and asked to break up. At this time, don't be in a hurry, don't panic. You should learn to be calm and face the situation.

Calm down and think about it, whether this relationship is really as he said, it's really inappropriate, and it's going to break up. If you still like him very much and want to continue to walk with him, then you must communicate with him attentively, find each other's problems, and then solve them together.

1. Communicate with him more, accompany him more when he is lonely, and try to take care of his life and career.

2. Try not to do things that make her angry when he is happy.

3. Comfort him when he is unhappy.

4. Try not to play tricks, be a good woman who is empathetic, be friendly to his friends, don't get angry no matter how angry you are when there are many people, and then communicate with him calmly when you are together.

5. Don't put too much pressure on him, he thinks everything is right, encourage him to take risks, don't dislike him for being poor and ugly, but he is full of confidence.

6. Be a woman he can't live without, leave you and make him uncomfortable, then you will succeed.

I think what you need most at this stage is communication. The two sides make time, make an appointment in a comfortable environment, sit down face to face, and talk calmly, what does he think of the Gu family, and what do you need to do, you say that you are aware of it, and what you are aware of, you can have a good chat. Use a turn-based system, listen to yourself when the other person is talking, listen well, and don't interrupt each other.

Don't rush to make assurances, first hear what he needs. If you can reach an agreement after chatting, then everyone will be happy. If you feel that you can't meet his demands, it depends on how much you love him and how much you are willing to make concessions for him.

If this happens, make sure your boyfriend gives a proper reason, otherwise don't agree to break up.

Then you agree to his request and break up with him, because it's useless for you to force it, it's better to break up happily.

<> been with my boyfriend for two months, I gradually got impatient, should I choose to break up? True love is attached to each other, and from that point of annoyance, unless this man doesn't love you and annoys you, a pair of people who have feelings for each other, morning and twilight want to be with you, the heart is sweet and happy, and some men can't stand the test of time, like the new and hate the old on the above situation, to this point, women don't want to stay, life is long, should let go or let go, hate you when you're young, live with him and toss you more, long pain is better than short pain, leaving is the best choice, There are people who really love you, as long as you work hard to perfect yourself and cherish your youth, you will definitely be able to find your own happiness. Why does your boyfriend think you're annoyed and need you to break up?

Since he annoys you, shouldn't he want to leave? Or are you annoying him just as much? Or don't you want to annoy him like this?

If you can't stand him anymore, the two of you can talk openly and honestly, and put the problems between the two of you on the table clearly. If both parties can understand each other and are willing to change for each other, then you can move on. If there is a big disagreement, and you clearly know that it is difficult for you to change, then it is good to get together and disperse, and there is nothing bad to propose.

If you are afraid that he will be annoyed all the time and don't want to live like this, you can also directly say the reason why you want to break up. If he really annoys you, he will readily agree, so I don't think there's anything hard to say. If he still cherishes the relationship between you, then I believe he will also adjust himself, clear up misunderstandings, and start anew.

Either way, you should be able to accept it. The real breakup is quiet, if he really annoys you, maybe he is waiting for you to break up, which will avoid him a lot of trouble, what you need to consider now is how to make yourself correct as soon as possible and start a new life, instead of tangling the way to break up; Because when a relationship can't continue, it will naturally be broken.