Is it valuing friends or same sex attachment?

Life needs such a confidant, one is the best friend and the other is your lover, I think you should be happy to have such a friend... I also have good friends, and sometimes I miss them when I'm bored and lonely, but these don't mean anything, is it wrong to miss someone? So it's because you take the problem seriously, the more you can think about it like this, the more you feel that you are "in love" with your friend Hehe, in fact, I also like my good friend more, but I don't think there is any trouble Put yourself in a good position and go through high school with your friend, and you are likely to be separated after the college entrance examination So cherish it.

You're still young. Maybe you just treat him as dependent, maybe he is your closest friend, so you will care about him a lot, pay attention to him, and even eat his jealousy. That's how I am.

But as long as you still maintain a good impression of the opposite sex, it means that you have no problem. When you grow up, you'll get better.

And you must not always imply that you may be gay, so that in the long run, even if you are not, you will mentally force yourself to become gay, there are such examples. He thinks he must be, and he must be gay, so he is really gay (a little awkward).

In short, let's be normal.

Well, in fact, it is normal to be dependent on someone, everyone has their own dependent people, but we must look at this psychology correctly. It's normal .

You can think about it and see if your feelings for him are exclusive? For example, when other people, especially girls, are close to him, do you feel very uncomfortable?

Now you are only fifteen years old, you are very young, it is good to have a good friend, and it is normal to admire him. It's normal to have this kind of thought, don't care too much, cherish your good friends now, put your energy on your studies, work hard, and when you are older, your social experience increases, and you are slowly maturing, and then you think about these issues, then you will understand what kind of relationship you want and what kind of future you have. In short, now with your good friends for the sake of your future, the most important thing is to learn more and increase your knowledge.

There is a danger of slipping into homosexuality. You should be firm and correct in your emotional stance and keep him in the heart of your brother and iron buddy.

1.What is same-sex attachment: Same-sex attachment refers to a behavior that appears in adolescence to like and be with the same sex and alienate the opposite sex, which occurs between the two small periods of no suspicion and the period of admiration of the opposite sex.

2. What is the manifestation: As mentioned above, a kind of people who like to be with the same sex and alienate themselves from the opposite sex, at this time, it is easy to have a good relationship with a friend of the same sex, and it is easy to be mistaken for the phenomenon mentioned by the above respondents.

3.Crowd range: Teenagers, after the two little no-guess periods, the sexes begin to drift apart, and this is the relationship with the same sex will be very good.

4.Why is there a normal period of physiological development, and it is normal to enter the period of admiration of the opposite sex.

5.What are the advantages and disadvantages of being in this period: Advantages: The friends made at this time are likely to become lifelong confidants and can be relied on for life;

Disadvantages: Sometimes there is a feeling of "jealousy" when seeing friends with others, and there will be a lot of strange suspicions, etc., which is the biggest obstacle to the progress of friendship.

6.How to carry forward the advantages and overcome the shortcomings: carry forward the advantages: cherish the friends around you; Overcome your shortcomings: Make more friends and broaden your social horizons, so that you don't care too much about the unintentional behavior of a friend and become suspicious

Attachment between people of the same sex is not inevitable.

Everything is different from person to person.

Attachment between friends of the same sex is commendable if it is normal for friends to be dependent, and true friendship is rare in today's society.

1. Same-sex attachment is the dependent love between the same sex;

2. It is manifested in liking to be with the same sex and rejecting the opposite sex;

3. Teenagers to tens of years old;

4. Those who are not cared for, mentally ill, or have been hurt by the opposite sex, have been deceived, etc.5 If a woman will not get pregnant, she will not suffer from accidental pregnancy surgery; If it is a man, there will be no sorrow for marrying a child; The disadvantage is that you can't experience the beauty brought by the opposite sex, and the probability of causing reproductive diseases is high, and it is not recognized by the public.

6 As long as it is same-sex attachment, this advantage will always exist, if you overcome the disadvantage, pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene, seek medical attention early, go to places that recognize same-sex attachment, and meet like-minded people.

I think you have made a choice in your own heart that you need to overcome or not, no matter what the choice is, all we can provide is encouragement and comfort, try to enrich yourself, improve yourself, friends are necessary, but the road can only be walked alone.

It's the psychology of dependence''A little restraint would be fine''

If it's true to you, there's no need to overcome it. Instead, think about it!

Need. It's okay to play, but don't be emotionally dependent.