Is it a friend who is jealous of me, or am I jealous of a friend?

I think that after all, she envies you in some aspects, so she hopes to be better than you in other aspects, but the root of your thoughts is also that you care a lot about some things worse than her, and you subconsciously feel a little inferior. However, the relationship between friends and the strength of personality should not be a conflict. Everyone has their own strengths, and everyone goes through something before they can grow and mature.

You have to have your own thoughts, don't envy others, don't have low self-esteem, be yourself, and do what's best for yourself! You can't force anyone else! A good life is something you can do!

Friends are all about making friends!

I've been in this situation before, but if it's a real friend, I don't think she should say that. It can only show that your relationship needs to be improved in the next step, if you still regard her as a friend, then remember one sentence: be alone, have a clear conscience, act uprightly, don't care about these chicken intestines and other things, find some easy topics to talk to her, strengthen the relationship, I believe she is also because she feels a little worse than you will say those words to find a balance, I think if she knows that this hurts you, she should apologize to you in her heart.

If you don't treat her as a friend anymore, I think it should be a little too much, so what should you do, you have to think twice, don't be impulsive, and lose a lifelong friend, what do you say?

Although you don't have a happy family、、、 but she is more than one friend, if she really cares about you, will she do this to you? I'm sure not、、、 she may be jealous that you are better at studying than her、、、 you didn't laugh at her for being a latecomer, so what right does she have to laugh at you? Some friends start with a good relationship, but often they are 、、、 because they can't let go in the end

It's your own problem. If you think about it yourself, even if people don't mean it, you'll think about it this way. If you don't feel at ease yourself, no matter what others do, it won't affect you.

She glanced at you, you have to be entangled, you are tired or not.

Also, a happy family is not something you can feel, and some single parents are also very happy, because you feel that you are not happy, so you feel that everyone is happy. This is inferiority complex.

Two words for you. Take it easy. Life is meant to be a play.

Maybe you're too careful, and the listener is intentional.

Everyone feels this way: to be a good friend is to respect each other, and many things have to be created by yourself.

Students at this age will have such a comparison mentality, you are very good, you don't have to worry about these things, what you have to do now is to study hard, I am now in college, I want to tell you, studying well is really very useful, and it is much easier to go to society than to study well. Hope it helps.

I remember when I was very young, people I knew described me as lively, soft-hearted, kind-hearted, and righteous. At that time, ** will think so much, join in the fun, and be nosy.

When I was in high school, I had 3 good friends who chose to live in the school because their home was in the countryside, and my home was not far from the school. At that time, the conditions of living in the school were far from being compared with now, 12 people in a room, there was no independent bathroom, and there was no place to take a bath. Later, when winter came, my friends always complained that the shower was too cold and the clothes were too thick to wash by hand, so I often brought back the dirty clothes they wanted to wash back, and in the end, I simply let them live in my house.

I naively thought that our friendship would last a long time, but I didn't want it to have gone bad.

I don't know how I got them jealous, or why I'm so nice to them and take advantage of me. Eat well, drink and live well, who can still do this?

They began to spread rumors about me that I was ruining other people's feelings and spending other people's money; said that my grades were cheating; Even helping others has a purpose. At first I didn't know that the rumors originated from them, and I never suspected them, and they were on my side and comforted me every day. Later, after the rumors spread for a long time, everyone's impression of me also changed, and even more people would secretly talk about me behind my back, and they gradually drifted away from me, I don't blame them, I can understand.

Here are a few suggestions:

1.Be honest with your friends: Be honest with your friends about your feelings, tell them that you think they don't work for you, and that you hope they can change. At the same time, listen to the other person's feedback and understand the reasons behind his or her thoughts and actions.

2.Strengthen self-confidence: Do not dismantle the congregation, lose self-confidence because of the comparison and belittlement of friends, and believe in your own ability and value. Don't give up your ideals and pursuits in order to meet the expectations of others.

3.Adjust your circle of friends: If your friend's words and actions have been bothering and uncomfortable you, consider adjusting your circle of friends to find a more positive and healthy relationship.

4.Seek help: If your friend's words and actions have had a negative impact on your mental health, seek professional help, such as counselling or counseling, to help you deal with your emotions and improve your self-protection skills.

In short, dealing with this situation requires comprehensive consideration of personal circumstances and the specific circumstances of the friendship relationship, and taking appropriate measures to protect one's own rights and interests and psychological health and well-being.

How so? There is a saying that who doesn't talk about people behind their backs, and who doesn't talk about people behind their backs?

As long as you walk right and sit up straight, there is no need to care about what others think, or what others say.

Everyone has to be said by others, including yourself, so it's normal for some people to be jealous of you or you to be jealous of others.