Is it a promise or a mistake, should I trust myself? Help me.

If you can really do what you said to promote each other's learning, you have no problem together, after all, you are still high school students, try to get into a good university, it is best for two people to continue in the same university, don't believe in the that "distance produces beauty", distance can only make you more estranged. But if you can't do what you said, then you still have to separate, and when you can both take on a certain responsibility, then come together, after all, love is a responsibility, a deep like, I wish you happiness.

Others are not you Someone else's words are advice Not necessarily all right Only what you think makes sense can be considered You can't just be shaken by other people's words If you are easily shaken, then what future is there? Besides, you can help each other in your studies, and it doesn't affect your learning, what's not to do, as long as you firmly believe in a goal, and then everyone works together, you can have the possibility of being together, and striving for it may not have results, but if you don't strive for it, it will definitely not be fruitful, as you said, you have taken into account many aspects, which shows that this is not a childish feeling, will it come to an end, no one can be sure, who can predict in advance? But for a bright future, we must have confidence, come on.

Don't think too idealistic about reality, you are only the beginning of life, there is still a long way to go, and some things are expected to be preached. But as long as you work together, it's not hopeless.

If you like someone, you should treat it well.

If you like it now, you won't be together.

And how to talk about the future?

Being together now, at least later, won't regret it.

When you regret it, you really don't have a chance.

This is really hard to say... It's not a discouraged word that I said.

A lot of times it's really hard to talk about emotional things...

Sometimes it's just a moment... Maybe·· It's changed.

You're still too young. It's not even a problem to feed yourself. I really don't know what to talk about in love.

Do you believe that who you are with is predestined for a long time?

The answer is "predestined", but not necessarily true.

The reason why I put quotation marks in the answer here is because Hu Gao used the established answer to go to the unknown question for it.

In the Olympiad, 1 plus 1 is fixed equal to 2, and this "doomed" can also be this 2, and 1 plus 1 is destined to be equal to 2. But when used in the description of people and things, this "destined" is not fixed to be 1 plus 1 equals the "2" in 2, it can be an infinite number of "2".

In my opinion, "destined in the dark" is indeed the answer, but it should be said to be a summary, the crystallization of the wisdom of all our civilization sages, it is more concise and wise than any summary copy, it includes the thoughts of the hundred schools of thought and the cause and effect theory of Buddhism, etc., and summarizes the interests between them in the most concise words.

All the people and things we experience every day are "predestined".

Including the passing yesterday, our lives, everything we do, and the future, your wife who has never met, your child born in an unknown year, all the facts you see, and all the future to be experienced, are all "destined in the dark", and it can even be said that the entire human civilization is woven by countless "destined".

So my answer is "predestined".