What does it mean to rule the law and resentment without oneself .

At the beginning, the first emperor favored Meng's and trusted him, Meng Tian was appointed as a foreign general, and Meng Yi often sat in the middle of the staff meeting, called Zhongxin, so although the generals did not dare to fight with him. Zhao Gao was guilty, and the first emperor made Meng Yi rule him; Yi dang Gao Fa deserves death. The first emperor was sensitive to things, pardoned him, and reinstated his officials.

Note: It is better to blame others when things go wrong, than to blame yourself; It is better to find the willingness from others than from yourself.

Zhu = the attack of the boss is greater than.

Burying it is like complaining about others, not patting it is like complaining about yourself.

It is better to turn to others than to yourself.

Don't always blame others for problems, rely on yourself to solve problems.

People always have to rely on themselves.

Explanation] describes a filial son who serves his parents carefully. It also refers to the rulers who make the people industrious and the people have no complaints.

Example] Qing Wenkang's "Biography of Children's Heroes" Chapter 37: "If you don't obey the advice, you don't disobey it, you don't disobey it, you don't complain, this Da Shun so" only contains the eyes and the bottom of the eyes, and the world is determined by the father and son." ”

This sentence comes from the "Analects, Chapter 17, Yang Goods", "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful." ”

Confucius said, "Women and villains, these two kinds of people are very difficult to get along. Approach him, he will be unscrupulous, women go home, she will quarrel with you, displease and alienate the villain, he will deliberately torment you. When you get angry and leave the house, the woman will become a resentful woman and complain about you. ”

Only women and villains are difficult to raise", which is considered to be Confucius's classic disrespect for women, and there are also those who justify this sentence; They say that the "female" of the woman in this sentence is another word "you", and the villain is said to be "child", but the real translation overlaps, and it becomes Confucius speaks repeatedly, and it seems to be scolding, Confucius is impossible for a literati to speak directly, nor can he be vulgar and scolding, that doesn't make sense. In fact, compared with reality, there is no fuss about Confucius's words, he is just Confucius's feeling as a man for a while, and it is difficult to get along with the opposite sex and subordinates, and there are not many profound words.

This sentence comes from the "Analects", which should be: those who are near are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful. It means that a person is close to him, he is disrespectful to you, and if he is estranged, he complains!

A schoolboy who has a lot of complaints about everything.

Paraphrase: Twists and turns, after several changes, everything finally falls like dust on the earth, and everything finally returns to the ordinary. At this time, even if there has been something, we should not blame anyone who has hurt us.

Because they have achieved the peace and calm they want, everything has become unimportant. Only cherish the present and cherish the people in front of you.

Reference reading: "Memories Settle Like Dust".

Time flies by in a hurry from your fingertips, you don't have time to capture the beauty around you, and suddenly everything is like dust, returning to the ordinary, becoming the endless thoughts in your heart.

Memory is like a flower blooming, fragrance is floating all over the world, memory is like a thousand-year-old wine, the taste is mellow, and memory is like a good medicine, making up for the inner scars, although heavy and worry-free. Memory seems to have become an inescapable shackle in human life, no, it should be a rich emotional testimony of human life....

Time passes like water, and the memories of old people live forever. The beauty of the past has become history, but some are the beautiful memories in the heart, like a dream, which makes people yearn for it, and want to cultivate the open-mindedness of the heart in it, and deduce a different kind of wonderful, but the gap between reality and dreams, who is not sentimental, in the crowd of people who come and go, how many people and things that we can't avoid, choose the good one.

And from there, use a sincere heart to interpret the beautiful emotional sky, to pursue the person you like, or to make a true friend....

Some people are gone, but they make your thoughts fly, some people are hidden in their hearts but they are scoundrels, where to go, you have to think carefully, some people are here, but they are even more afraid, and who you have a deep friendship with, you have to be very careful....

People are emotional and rational, and they will not do anything to hurt themselves and others until they have no choice, and everything happens for a reason after all. No matter how childhood sweethearts you used to be, how colorful and enviable you were...At the end of each of them, who will cry for the two of you. It's just that the happiness and happiness of the past have evolved into the good memories in my heart, such as.

The dust settles, and it returns to the ordinariness of reality....

It is easy for people to be sad, people are sad to work, and it is difficult to fill the lonely heart. Recalling the gorgeous scenery of the scene, I can't help but smile, and my face is full of brilliance and beauty.

People can't live in the melancholy of the past without thinking about making progress, they can't fall into the trough of feelings and be disheartened, and see through the red dust ......Let the past pass! Abandon pain and let beauty last forever. Some people miss you may be his loss, please don't cry red eyes, injustice, for people who are not worthy of your sadness are depressed, no one knows what will happen tomorrow, only go on well, is the most important thing ......

In the past, the clouds and smoke love the old love, the thoughts are flying for whom to dance, the dust settles and returns to the ordinary, do not complain about who hurt themselves in the past, only leave the beautiful heart, people can not live for decades, the flowers and willows change when they are broken, people go to the building and the moon is not missing, the memory is in the heart of the king for a long time, the mood is good to worry about the dissipation, the rainbow after the suffering, people are in the Jedi life, life is not willing to return to the dust, only because the memory lasts for a long time, and the laughter is still happy.

Remote. Memories settle like dust, return to the ordinary and transcend the ordinary, and become a song that will never fade.