Does growth come at a cost? The price of growth?

There have been happiness, there have been pains, there have been beauty, there have been sadness, there have been love, there have been hate, once had, suddenly passed away, learned a lot, it seems that it is still not mature, understand a lot but do not use it in real life.

There have been cowardice, there have been retreats, there have been bravery, there have been strength.

There have been advances, there have been backwards, there have been efforts, and there have been discouragements.

There has been sweetness, bitterness, beauty, and decadence.

He has been praised, ridiculed, exalted, and kicked down.

I have been beaten, hurt, respected, and despised.

The beauty of growth lies in the moment when the chrysalis becomes a saucer, and the butterfly is beautiful, but from that moment on, you can no longer be a carefree caterpillar. The pain of the metamorphosis is also bone-devouring and indescribable. However, we need to grow up eventually, and when we grow up, we will appreciate the deeper beauty of the water's edge.

The cost is incalculable, but we should ignore the pain, actively face a new tomorrow, and meet a stronger storm, because that is life, that is growth.

Allow me to ask a question before I ask: Have you ever seen or heard of someone who grew up overnight?

If you're sure, then I'm too lonely. If you're negative, then do you think growth comes at a cost? People can only grow up by constantly falling and getting up, and in the process of falling and getting up!

Isn't there an ancient saying in China: If a person teaches a person, he will be angry to death, and he must be experienced to be unforgettable! Isn't it?

I think about this a lot.

When I was a child, I wanted to be a scientist because I thought science was amazing, and scientists could invent many things, such as airplanes, cars, computers, etc., in short, they could lead us to a better life.

But as I grew older, I found that the original ones called"Scientists"In fact, it's just that, their work is not that great, they are just doing something that others have done well, and even, sometimes, they will do some thankless things. So, gradually, I started to lose interest in science.

Later, when I went to high school and became more and more busy with my studies, I put more energy into my studies and neglected some of the people around me, until one day, I suddenly realized that I hadn't hung out with my friends for a long time, which made me feel very sorry.

Later, when I went to college again, I began to have a lot of free time, so I often asked my friends out to play, but slowly, I found that although I was with my friends, I didn't seem to be happy. Because I found that my friends are not what I imagined, when they are with me, they always talk about things that are not there, or, just keep complaining.

I wanted to change that, but I found myself powerless.

Later, I saw a sentence on the Internet: The way you are now is what you used to be; What you look like in the future depends on how you live now. This sentence made me suddenly understand something, yes, my current life is my dream, but now, it's not, is this growth?

Perhaps, this is the price of growth!

The so-called growth must have gone through many hardships! On the way to growth, we will meet countless people and experience countless things, growth is both happy and painful, and we grow up from children to become adults.

I know how to persevere, always believe that I can do it, I am the best, I want to believe that every day is good, and I want to live a wonderful life. Behind every hard work, there will be a double reward.

If you know where to go, the whole world will make way for you. It is not simple to insist on doing simple things well, and it is not easy to do ordinary things well.

The so-called success is to make extraordinary persistence in the ordinary.

I do not look forward to the relief of others or the good fortune that falls from heaven, but my will is tempered with fortitude; The life of hardship has made me stronger and wiser.

I knew early on that people grow up in the struggle of difficult circumstances. For more than ten years, the cold window has been dormant, just waiting for this day to break out of the cocoon; Countless people are looking forward to it, just for this moment of excitement and turning into a butterfly.

It's probably that you see through some things and think of the dark side of things.

When I really grow up, I will find that I have not met those requirements at all for my childhood vision and planning, and many people will feel disappointed and regret because of this. Personally, I think this feeling is inaccurate, and I don't have to be disappointed and regret it. ......The reason why I say this is because my childhood vision and planning were too idealistic to become a reality, everyone's growth needs to encounter difficulties and pay a price, and as long as I have no regrets in the process of growing up, I have no regrets.

1. Childhood visions and plans are too idealistic to become a real reality. For us as children, we lack both experience and knowledge accumulation, so our understanding of the future is very simple. Planning for the future of one's own preparation in such a state often results in too much idealism to become a real reality.

Therefore, when you look back on your childhood visions and plans when you grow up, and find that you didn't meet the requirements, you don't have to feel disappointed and regretful.

2. Everyone's growth has to go through difficulties, they have to pay a price, and it is impossible to be perfect. When we were children, we had great plans for our future, but our real-life upbringing was full of difficulties and had to pay a lot of costs. ......As a result, we can't grow up perfect, let alone laugh at the requirements of our childhood.

We don't need to regret this problem, let alone regret it, it's like this in real life.

3. As long as you have no regrets in the process of growing up, you will have no regrets. In the process of our growth, we have made our own efforts, reaped the rewards of growth, and finally learned knowledge, gained experience and experience, and also had our own position in the process of learning and working. ......In this process, as long as we do not leave regrets, we have no regrets, and we do not have to feel disappointed and regretful because we have not lived up to our childhood visions and plans.

We've done a great job and we should be proud and proud.