My heart is very bitter, very bitter, what should I do

Men are like that. He looks like he can't see you. But he still loves you in his heart. Don't be a boy like us in the future, all of them can afford to let go.

You can talk to him and ask if you can be friends again. If you can. Then you can be friends again. It's been a long time. The two of you might be at it again. If not, you're best friends.

Personally, I recommend that you don't put too much thought into it. Face it bravely. Find more confidants to work with. Don't just worry about your boyfriend. It's not good for people to do that.

Be brave and be a strong woman.

In fact, everyone's personality and ability to bear is different, if you feel that it is painful for two people to be able to meet, you still find a way to leave, don't create this kind of situation where you will always meet if you have nothing to do, gone, slowly maybe it will not be so sad, time can dilute everything, you have to believe that you are an independent and strong girl, I hope you can get out of this shadow as soon as possible.

The man may not jump out, and maybe he will not feel good. You may not be able to let him go like this, think about why you broke up in the first place, if it was because of trivial things, take the initiative to tell her, it should be able to recover. If you can't, there are two ways.

1. Have the courage to tell your parents what is in your heart, they have rich experience and may be able to alleviate your pain. 2. Start a relationship again.

Don't love the wrong person because you are lonely, and don't be lonely for a lifetime because you love the wrong person;

Fate is a book, if you read it too quickly, you will miss it, and if you take it too seriously, you will cry

Hehe, I'm the same, although I left with her, but I still have to see her all day long Hehe, in fact, if you want to open a little bit, it's good to pull I don't know why, I was very sad at first, I feel that I can't do anything well by watching her every day, but think about it, in order not to affect myself, let alone bother the other party, or slowly let myself relax my mind is not numb. You come on, too

The quickest way to forget a relationship is to start the next one!

Bless you, sisters!

Like me, better than me, I even take the bus, or when I eat, my eyes are full of tears! Depressed to death.

I feel like you.

But the difference is that we are not suitable for myself because I am not good enough.

Like you, I always think about him.

Sometimes I feel uncomfortable for some reason.

Can't see him, think.

You can see him, it hurts.

I'm confused myself.

But I'm getting used to it.

You have to learn to adapt.

I think it's good to get used to life without him after a long time.

Isn't there a saying: let time dilute everything!

Select Forget to put.

I used to be the same.

Tell yourself to cut it will pass!

First of all, you have to firmly believe that this period of time is like getting sick, that the illness will always get better, and that it will pass after a while. Find more friends to spend with you, don't give yourself the time and opportunity to think about him, find something else to attract attention, keep yourself busy, and then one day you will find that you can face it calmly.

I'm a man, but I know that if you like someone and love someone, you shouldn't give up, unless he doesn't like you, because life is short, don't regret it, in fact, I'm the same, but I won't give up, unless it really makes me die, even if it's painful, I will, no matter what I do, I'm worth it.

If you love him, then keep him, if it's really not suitable, then you can't force it...

When you are separated, you have to love yourself more. It's a gift for yourself.

Leave and start over! Leave.

Think about the line you have, our life can't always be smooth, but it won't be unlucky all the way to the end, think about the friendly aspects of the band, and work hard to carry it, good things will always happen in the downward book a turn.

The root of human suffering and disappointment is often to care too much about oneself. Only by forgetting oneself and serving the public can we achieve ultimate happiness.

Like a dew drop under the sun, although it is crystal clear, it is always worried that it will be evaporated and dissipated into nothingness, so it suffers from gains and losses, depression and does not feel happy. In his short life, he is always shrouded in feelings of depression, pain, and disappointment. Why not let yourself be in the middle of the ocean?

Forget yourself and blend into the sea, no longer a dewdrop, but a part of the vast sea. When the dew melts into the sea, life is sublimated, and the bliss of life is here.

Paying attention to one's own pain and helplessness all the time is easy for people to lose their happiness and go to extremes. Forget about yourself, pay attention to others, help others, integrate your life into the immeasurable and boundless beings, serve them, be anxious about what others are anxious about, and think about what others think. Instead, you will get real happiness and a sunny life.

So, when you are depressed and in pain, go and help others and use your own strength to help others solve problems. Care for others, be grateful to others, help others, and magnify "others" to the infinite toiling masses and all sentient beings. You will be amazed to find that your own problems are solved.

Your own pain is no longer pain. Dissolve ourselves into the world, and each of us will sublimate from the dew to the sea, and life will gain eternal brilliance and brilliant sunshine. All the gloom is gone, and all the pain is gone.

I think that the morning glow, the dewdrops, and the comet are short-lived, impotent, and miserable, and I think that the sun, the sea, and the universe are splendid, happy, and eternal.

When you encounter pain, despair, depression, frustration, or helplessness, help others, and after a long time, your own problems will be solved. Some people say that I have nothing and can't help others. I don't want to help people.

However, when you truly dissolve yourself into the common life, you will find that you are a valuable person. No matter how good you are, there is always someone better than you. No matter how painful you are, there will always be someone who suffers more than you, and there is always someone who is worse off than you.

As far as you can see, you can always help some people. In the beginning, you can make a plan for yourself to do a few good things every day. Slowly, it became a habit to help others.

Over time, you will find that you have become sunny and energetic, and you have seen through the things you couldn't see through before, and you have figured out the things you couldn't think of, and the things that made you desperate have become nothing more than that.

Friend, maybe you're having a hard time. But as long as you give yourself and integrate yourself into the sea. You will discover the meaning and value of life, and you will also get real happiness.

I wish you happiness. The following TCM prescription can regulate mood and relieve depression, anxiety and depression.

Try drinking some barley and jujube tea, which can regulate your mood and relieve depression. If you have the conditions, you can grasp the traditional Chinese medicine, sweet wheat and jujube soup, soak in water to drink, boil medicine and drink.

What factors are needed to get married.

1. Factor 1 required for marriage: the status disparity between the two parties is not too large.

Although it is said that now it is not important to pay attention to the right family, as long as you love each other, but in real life, it is not that there is love, but also consider whether each other's family conditions are too different, if one party's family conditions are very good, one party is poor, one party will be more inferior, and the party with good conditions will always feel that he is a little married, once the contradiction between two people breaks out, there will be a crisis in married life.

2. Factor 2 required for marriage: both parties are independent enough.

The so-called independence, not only refers to economic independence but also ideological independence and independence of life, if the other party is so old, everything is arranged by the parents, and even the feelings between each other also need to be handled by the parents, the mind is not independent enough, there is no own opinion, life can not be independent, can not do everything by themselves, as long as two people have a conflict, the parents have come forward to interfere and participate, then choose such a person to marry, the marriage will often have contradictions in the future, and even the marriage cracks.

3. Factor 3 required for marriage: both parties get along harmoniously.

When you and your lover feel that there is a kind of mutuality between you, then you are happy together, love is mutual, if the other party's heart is always single, then your marriage will eventually go wrong. 4. Factor 4 required for marriage: both parties are easy to communicate.

After two people fall in love, it is easy to communicate problems in most cases, and the two can open their hearts to each other very comfortably, and they can face anything very frankly with each other without worrying about being suspected or despised by their lovers, then there should be no quarrels after marriage. You can be with someone with the same cultural cultivation as you, or you can find someone with a higher cultivation than you, or not as good as you, and the wealth is the same, but your values must be the same, if there is a deviation in each other's values, then it is better to leave each other as soon as possible.

If you're feeling depressed or weird, it's a good idea to talk openly and honestly to someone close to you, such as a family member, friend or doctor, so that they can help you analyze the cause and offer support. In addition, you can also try to solve your psychological problems through psychological counseling or self-help books. You can also try to relax, increase your self-awareness, and feel a sense of accomplishment through activities such as exercising, reading, writing,**, traveling, and more.

If you're feeling sick inside, there are a few ways you can try to ease it. First, you can try to relax. For example, try deep breathing, practicing meditation, or doing some light exercises to relieve stress.

Second, you can try to analyze the causes. For example, you can recall recent events, identify possible causes of your psychological discomfort, and take steps to address them. Finally, if you feel that your psychological problems are seriously affecting your daily life, you may want to consult a professional counselor or doctor for professional help.

This may be an emotional problem, you can try to find a psychological counselor to solve it, and the professional can tell in advance whether it is a more serious problem such as depression.

There can't be no happy time, life is a mixed bag, there are bitter and sweet, just stay optimistic.

Finding someone to talk to or a place to vent is of course a serious place.

If you want to open a little, you have to open everything to see.

Say first let your parents know where you are.

Let them know what you need right now? They can't give you what you need now.

All you need is to exercise socially , their ideas are good. But their ideas are also the ideas of that era.

It's outdated, it's as old as China was a long time ago.

Don't be afraid, be taken advantage of, be tricked. Because you can learn from it in it.

Make your mind more flexible.

1.First of all, you have to have an environment that will not hinder your development.

2.Dare to attack, and have the courage to face many situations.

3.Watch more positive books and movies that will improve your knowledge and sanity.

4.Remember the 3 points I said earlier.

My parents actually did the same thing as you said, but then I convinced them.

Let them know the severity of the problem. There are still things to face in the future.

Is there something that makes you lose your self-confidence and fall into a little bit of inferiority complex? Or maybe you've been alone for too long, getting used to this environment, and gradually becoming reticent (suggesting more cheerful friends, which I am) As for the intellectual aspect, it's a congenital problem, but these can be made up for by experience....You can't grow without going through all kinds of things...I hope you get better, I think I'm the same kind of person as you...If you don't mind, you can add me Q and let's talk....

Actually, you're not stupid at all I think the main thing is that you don't have much contact with the outside world, so you lose a lot of things that you can't learn There is a saying that it's good to live and learn all the time It's okay to communicate with others often So that you can make progress I suggest you have nothing to buy some books on how to communicate with people I suggest you have nothing to read more Liaoning Station Lao Liang views the world I hope it will help you.

Let go of emotional things, think about your future, a girl who has no ideals, who dares to ask for it, even if she wants it, it is also playing.

When you have revenge, you have ideals, you have a soul, and thus a temperament, and then it will be very charming.

I'm sorry, I can't explain it, I'm also a sufferer.

I'm in a similar situation to you, since I was a child, my low self-esteem led to self-isolation and reluctance to communicate with other people, and now when I graduate and look for a job, I will find that because everything is traceable, how will we be in the future.

It depends on the quality and experience given to us by everything in the past, the problems that have accumulated over time, what does suffering come from, it may be that every time we think about our own situation, when we think of something unpleasant and think that it is caused by our own stupidity, when we are not able to solve the problem, at this time the suffering comes, I really graduated and want to find a job, and I find that you seem to be incompatible with the world and the people and things in the world, but when others persuade you, they will say that you think too much, how good you are, In fact, they don't understand our situation at all, I may be depressed, I have not dared to diagnose it, the frequency of suffering in my heart is related to the recent bad situation, and it is ...... to actively improveI'm actively looking for a job, learning to enrich myself, busy and less want to be sleek when I meet people, keep my head calm, and I understand you very well recently, otherwise I won't come to search, and I want to do better, I will always have my own career and soulmate's refueling.