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I can probably understand your feelings, because that's how conflicting I am with my boyfriend. He gave me the feeling that everything was very good, but he was too honest for me to accept it for a while. Because I'm a girl on the outside.
But after we have been in contact for a long time, I found that honesty is not a scumbag or unmasculine, on the contrary, it is much more reliable than those who are slippery, such can only be a short-term boyfriend and cannot be a long-term husband! He will also be very assertive and stable when he encounters problems. Even more attentive than you.
This is just what I encountered, I don't know if you encountered it like this!
But I also want to tell you, you have to understand whether you like him or not, if that's the case, I don't think you should expect him to change because of you, because when you love him, he was like that, and after you change, he won't be the same person.
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It's good to be honest, you have this temperament, it's not easy to change, but don't learn to be honest, in that case, it's very impersonal, whether it's like it or not.
If you know that you are honest, you will make honest friends and do honest things, so that everyone knows that you are sincere.
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Boys are honest and will change one day, doesn't it say that time can change people?
If it's emotional, if the boy is honest, the girl should take the initiative.
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Honesty also has the benefits of being honest! Some girls like honest boys! However, this society is honestly more at a loss.
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It's not so good to be honest.
It's easy to be played with, not to mention that men are not bad and women are not loved. Scold.
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One: I don't know how to fight for my own interests in the face of human favors.
People who are too honest often do not know how to fight for their own interests in the face of human affection, even if they know that they belong to their own interests, but they often dare not speak out, do not like to bargain with others, what others say is what they say, and in the end they work hard and suffer a big loss.
2. Do not know how to refuse other people's unreasonable requests.
People who are too honest generally don't know how to refuse the powerless requests of others, because people who are too honest have no mind, are relatively simple, and others let them help, often do not refuse, thinking that they will help others, and others will help themselves when the time comes, but is this really the case?
People who are too honest also have an obvious characteristic, that is, they care more about other people's things than about themselves, this kind of psychology can be understood, but it is not necessary, there is no need to worry too much about their status and impression in the hearts of others, because their own approach may be praised by others, but it will make their family feel tired, why they are so concerned about other people's affairs, but they are not so attentive to their own affairs.
Four: It is easy for people to take advantage.
People who are too honest, most of them have a sense of justice and morality, others are a little better to you, and as a result, they will keep it in mind, and when they have a competitive dispute with the other party, they always take others to their own goodness in their hearts, so it is easy to let others take advantage of it, but they suffer a big loss.
In fact, everyone's personality is different, everyone's style is also different, no matter what kind of person, we should accept, learn to appreciate each kind of person's character, honesty itself is a very good character, just don't be too honest, after all, society is very realistic, many times although you are out of kindness, but others may not remember your kindness in the future, so it is okay to be honest, but don't be too honest.
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The circle of honest people is generally small. They are cautious and do not leave the house, except for the people around them who are almost "black-eyed", they do not know anyone. They also don't like politeness, greetings, don't like to socialize, disdain to exchange glasses, and can't open up a social situation.
They tied their hands and feet, and in the end, when something happened, they knew what it meant to "call the heavens and the earth to be unspiritual."
Honest people, they have too many troubles. They often can't let go of their faces, and they are most afraid of losing face. Honest people are always "embarrassed", and as a result, people don't think so:
Honest people are afraid of showing their ugliness and shortcomings, so they always hide it, but they are often laughed at; The honest man complains and complains, but only sighs and complains that his life is not good; Honest people are timid, always hiding in the corner, sitting in the last row, and as a result, they are unknown.
Honest people's careers are not always very smooth, honest people have no confidence in themselves, so they can only complain every day, feel bored at work, as if nothing is going well, and cannot treat others and themselves correctly. When I see other people's achievements, I feel that others are lucky, nothing is great, and they are not much better than themselves, and they will even hate others and belittle others: when they see that others are not as good as themselves, they secretly rejoice, sneer, and laugh at others.
At work, honest people do their own thing, subjective and arbitrary.
Honest people live tiringly. is honest and does his duty, but he is often looked down upon. I am not "welcomed" in the workplace, and I am also angry at home.
Honest people die to save face, and they are forced to do everything until they can't do it, and they are always burdened by themselves. Honest people only know how to keep their heads down and hurry. And if you don't look at the road, you often "don't do as well as see, and busy is not as good as idle."
As the saying goes, "A man must be wise, but fire must be hollow." "If the mind is too solid and too dead, you will not be able to see clearly in anything, which in turn will hinder your own progress.
An honest person's mind is too dead, and he thinks about the bad in everything and only thinks in the direction that he thinks is right, and as a result, he will naturally not be able to see the problem clearly. They always look at problems with prejudice, are prone to go to extremes, tend to moralize and idealize things, are ashamed of their words, and are always distressed themselves.
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A man who is too honest is cowardly, decadent, and has no opinions, that is, he is too cowardly. Under normal circumstances, such a man is often bullied by others, but he will not fight back against others, and advises you not to be too honest.
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Speak upright and have no heart, honest men will also be more stubborn, have low emotional intelligence, can't speak sweet words, don't understand romance, and talk less.
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Personally, I think that men who are too honest don't like to show themselves, will be a little shy in doing things, and too scruples about face problems.
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What honest people can there be in today's society? What's more, it's still a man, if you use the previous way to judge whether a person is honest, that is to look at the way he speaks and does things, feel if there is any more slippery performance in the usual contact, this kind of thing is just the actual feeling of the individual, as for the specific performance, the benevolent see the wise and the wise see the wise, as long as the two people are comfortable with each other, he has nothing to dislike you, it's okay!
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Otaku, talk less, like to play games, no entertainment,
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The surface is sluggish, he doesn't like to talk, and he doesn't have many words.
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A man who is too honest will not choose the right time to say the right thing when he speaks, and his brain will not turn around!
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Kiss, too honest, you can change the following, 1. Be with cheerful people. 2. More experience, in fact, experience will force us to change, if we don't change, it will be difficult for us to survive. When people have a cheerful personality, they will be willing to associate with all kinds of people.
3. Pay more attention to things. More honest people have a characteristic: they trust others too much and are easily confused by their words and deeds.
4. Learn to resist and refuse. Honest people usually have one characteristic: they are afraid of offending people.
However, the more you are afraid of offending people, the more others will offend you.
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Untie the rope that binds the child.
People who are honest will be bullied, and this society is like this. But I believe that someone will always find this advantage of yours, so don't cry, being honest is also a blessing.
First, you have to correct your attitude, from the heart you think that you are unique, not their slaves, you can not speak, but as long as it is something that you think you should not do, you don't do it, what others say, let him go, and one day they will bear the consequences for it; >>>More
Q]: My son is 4 and a half years old this year, he has been more honest since he was a child, he will always be beaten by children in kindergarten, but he is a guy who fights and does not fight back, how should I guide a good way to make him courageous, and I don't like to take the initiative to greet strange children, and always love to watch cartoons at home, I don't like to go out, and recently I fell in love with Superman, no matter dressing, shoes, toys, learning posture, questioning is Superman, a little uncomfortable, just cry, Until we transfer to his hobby will be in a better mood according to him, I don't know if this hobby will be transferred for a period of time, if there is no thing he likes in the mall, he will always be unhappy or cry or read it for a long time, good explanation has no effect, angry at him plays a role but is afraid of hurting his self-esteem, it has a bad effect on him, I don't want to be angry with him from time to time, it looks strange and pitiful, and he has a sense of fear of me. What should I do? >>>More
The influencing factors are as follows:
An honest person generally refers to a person who is introverted, mild-tempered and a little timid. There are many people in life who like to bully honest people, or honest people are easy to be bullied. "Honest" is a positive term, but "honest person" has become a derogatory term. >>>More
There must be, a person has a fate in his life, according to the personality, the extroverted girl looks back at you [grasp back to the bigger], she herself is more lively and cheerful and loves to talk, she wants to find a boyfriend who listens to him and has a sense of security back to care about people, but if you are in the society, it is not necessarily, there are many factors, there are careers, looks, and family, and other obstacles, so it is difficult to find someone who really loves you in society [don't be discouraged, if you have a chance, it is easier to find one in school but not for a long time, If you find it in society, it means marriage] But now girls are very complicated, you have to work hard.