Breaking up, who is more sad? What are some reasons for a breakup that make you sad?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Who is sadder, is this important to you?

    If I were to say it, I think the woman would be more sad because she has more pressure than you, right? It's hard for her to take care of your feelings on the one hand, but to take care of her own family on the other, isn't it?

    Maybe at that time, she may want your understanding and care more, but what you gave her was a breakup, who do you say will be more sad?

    Don't care who will be more sad, that doesn't matter anymore When you break up, do you have to see the other party unhappy to be considered a little comfort to yourself?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It should be her who is sad, the girl breaks up, her heart will break, you should comfort and comfort her!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Affection is like an elastic rope, and the person who loves each other holds the ends of the rope. When breaking up, a person lets go, and the person who hurts the most is the one who holds it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, she is not afraid of her parents, but afraid that her parents will be angry and sad. Since both of them love each other, what else can't be solved, why bother to make both parties sad by breaking up. Parents love their children, no matter what they do, it's for the good of their children, and after you find the reason why they don't agree with you being together, you can target it, and then solve it.

    If you want to find the reason from yourself, I don't believe that a son-in-law who loves her daughter and respects her mother-in-law, she wouldn't want to...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ha. You should know whether you love her or not, and of course you are the one who loves her and is sad.

    She should be the one who doesn't love to be sad. I hope you will persevere. I lost. I hope you can persevere.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This shows that she is an obedient girl, no matter what, she will not make her parents sad, no one is sadder in your situation, in fact, you and her are the same sad, and the feelings of the two of you are more regretful, from what you said above, you can feel that she is really a filial child, and will not go against the wishes of her family to do things, you have to be considerate of her, but you can also use your own practical actions to influence her family, the purpose is that you still love her, she also loves you, for your happiness, Finally, I wish you all loyalty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It should be: "My mom and my dad said we weren't suitable." Words like that.

    It's actually normal for couples to split up and get together. However, it is also important to note that there should not be the idea that "it is normal for the other party to admit their mistakes first" every time. No matter how deep the relationship is, if you just insist on it alone, after a long time, tiredness, and numbness, you will really let go.

    People are emotional, I can give a lot first, but if there is no return after a long time, there is no response that should be given, and I basically give up. I love you and want to be with you. But remember:

    I'm not a slave, and I'm not supposed to be good to you, love is consumed, and if the process is not "replenished", it will be over when it is consumed.

    1.The girl's birthday, the boy forgot because of the company, and the girl felt that the boy didn't like him, so he proposed to break up! The boy felt that the girl couldn't understand him and agreed to break up!

    2.The boy found that the girl was chatting with a boy frequently, and he didn't show him, so he was suspicious and questioned the girl. The girl felt that she should have privacy and was not convinced.

    The boy feels that there should be no secrets between couples and is getting tougher and tougher! Then they broke up! Actually, the girl was consulting a good friend of his:

    Boy's birthday, what kind of gift to buy!

    3.Girls think that boys play games, don't accompany him, and complain about boys! The boy patronized the game and ignored him. Girls hit **, boys don't want to pick up, it's very irritable! The girl proposed to break up in a fit of anger, and the boy felt that the girl was unreasonable and agreed to break up!

    In fact, falling in love is a very deep science, and many people have to grow from many love failures! The more bizarre the breakup, the more it is because I suddenly don't like it, I'm too lazy to accommodate, I'm too lazy to like it! Since you can't love deeply, remember, don't start lightly!

    Emotional things are not accurate, you often mention breaking up, and you may often reconcile, but what if the breakup is true one day, so don't do things that you regret.

    In fact, there is no reason to break up, only a reason to choose to end without feelings!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As I walked, I faded and didn't want to continue.

    At first, the two people cherished each other, and then naturally chose each other and walked together.

    But when two people are together, as each other's shortcomings are gradually exposed, the quarrels in getting along continue to increase, and your feelings are constantly being worn out day by day, which makes you feel very tired and want to regain your freedom.

    After the quarrel, the two parties broke up angrily.

    In love, too many people are always duplicitous, obviously just angry and want to be coaxed, but they say they broke up.

    When one thinks that he will not leave, and the other thinks that he will stay, but the two parties are deadlocked and have been in a state of gambling, then with the passage of time, a good relationship is often really inexplicable, and it is gone.

    A third party stepped in, and the two parted unhappily.

    Although after choosing a person, you should not look at other people of the opposite sex, but too many people just can't change their liking of the new and hating the old.

    When there are people around you who are more attractive to you, many people can't control themselves at all, and they are directly unfaithful to their other half. The world of love is too narrow, after all, there are only two people, and when a third person appears, this relationship will naturally not go on.

    Your parents objected, and you didn't choose to insist.

    Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families, and there are always some parents who like to interfere in the marriage of their children.

    But if one of the parents feels that it is not appropriate for each other to be together, then many people will not think about convincing their parents and insisting on their love, so they will directly follow the opinions of their parents and choose to let go very happily.

    Long-distance lovers, who break up with no end in sight.

    No matter how much two people love each other, when they are in a different place for a long time, it is difficult to maintain this relationship all the time.

    Because when you want to meet, you can't see each other at all, and when you need to be accompanied, that person is not there, this situation is easy to feel insecure, once both parties are unwilling to compromise and there is no way to end the long place, then the breakup will become inevitable.

    When couples break up, some of them are independent choices and don't want to go any further, and some are indeed forced to be helpless, as if there is no way to reconcile.

    It's just that no matter what the reason, everyone is the same, and it shouldn't be easy to give up a relationship and give up the person you like very much.

    There are indeed many people in this world, but in this life, the people you like and like you at the same time are really hard to find.

    There is no relationship that will not be a problem, but as long as you hold on, hold on a little longer, and resolutely don't let go, maybe one day, if you are not careful, you will really come to a white end together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you treat someone wholeheartedly, but in the end he says that he has no feelings for you and wants to separate from you, it will definitely be very sad. Because he gave so much, he hoped to be with him for a longer time, but in the end, he didn't approve of it. That makes no one's heart feel good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the other party breaks up with me because they don't like me anymore, I feel more sad and sad, because I liked to be together at the beginning, but as a result, I feel more sad because I don't like to be separated.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are all the reasons for my sad breakup, the first reason is that you are very good, I am not worthy, the second reason is that I still like you very much, but we can't be together anymore, the third reason is that I have no freshness for you, let's break up, the fourth reason is that you are becoming more and more vexatious now, I really can't stand it, let's break up, the fifth reason is that you are becoming more and more strange now, so I can't see it more and more clearly, so let's stop here and so on.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think the thing that makes me the most sad is definitely the betrayal of the relationship by this other party, he found another new love, so it led to the two of us breaking up, so this incident has always made me very sad and sad.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the reason given by the other party is that I no longer love or even like someone else, such a reason for breaking up will make me very sad, because I have invested all in my relationship, but I have obtained this result, and I will feel very unworthy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it is two people who love each other very much, it will be very sad and sad to break up. For example, the other party says that we are not suitable, and I am not worthy of you, these reasons are very perfunctory, and they will make people feel very sad to hear.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the relationship is very deep, but because of some practical reasons, you have to break up, especially if two people have feelings for each other, but they break up because of factors other than the relationship, I think it is easier to be sad and sad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In real life, I think it must be the betrayal of the other party to himself, and the fact that he is not dedicated to his feelings, which will make him very sad and sad, so I have such thoughts.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because of the financial pressure of real life, the two parents do not agree, which leads to the breakup, and I feel very sad. After all, there is no problem with the relationship between two people, but the breakup caused by external factors.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason for the breakup, if it's really because there is no love, I don't think I need to be sad, many times the reason for the breakup is that sentence, I love you very much, but we can't be together for this, I think it's the most sad and painful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The reason for my sad breakup should be his dislike and indifference, but he told me that he has no feelings for me, and when he doesn't like me, I feel very sad, because I like someone so much, and if he says he doesn't love him, he won't love him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What reasons for the breakup will make you sad and sad, such as some objective external factors, the parents of two people do not agree, or they dislike each other and change their minds about you, etc., etc., all of which will make you sad and sad.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Probably only if the person I love doesn't love me will be very sad, because for the person I love, I must have spent a lot of time managing the relationship, and I will definitely be sad if the relationship breaks up like this for so long.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you feel sad about the breakup, don't worry about it, the loss of someone you once loved will make you feel sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My girlfriend says I'm not considerate and gentle enough, and I'm going to be sad. Because I am a person, I am very good to girls, and I often accompany my girlfriend to go shopping, eat and watch movies.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The saddest thing for two people is that one is preparing for the future, and the other is preparing to leave. No one can know what is going on in the heart of another person, and even the person he loves the most cannot guess when he doesn't show it. When one party suddenly proposes to break up, maybe the other party will feel that things are too sudden, life is good, and he loves him very much, why break up?

    At this time, I blindly thought about whether I had done something wrong, and whether I could go back to the past if I corrected it. In fact, the other party proposed to break up, which seemed sudden, but in fact, he wanted to break up for a long time. At this time, the other party has accepted the 10,000 possibilities of separation, and the sadness has long since disappeared.

    People are looking for better and better characters, which is admired and looked up to, and the requirements for the other half are no exception. When there is a better person around you, you can also get in touch with it, and you will slowly shift your mind to this person, and the idea of breaking up will appear over time. You may also care about accompanying your other half, but after a long time, your enthusiasm will fade, and you will start to run away.

    When an excellent person appears around, he will slowly forget the person who accompanied him, and the sadness when he broke up will naturally be gone. With a new person by your side, the sadness of the breakup will be replaced by a new relationship, and you will only think about how to accompany your new lover at this time. For some people, love is not the whole of life, and when he experiences an unforgettable love, he will not indulge in it.

    For him, feelings are just an experience, a part of life, and they are discarded after they have been experienced. After falling in love, I was bored, and I decided to focus on my work, and I no longer forced myself to fall in love, and I would have an indifferent attitude after the breakup. Breaking up is a new beginning for him.

    When two people first start together, they may be infinitely tolerant of each other and ignore each other's shortcomings. But if you get along slowly, you will find that the two people can no longer calm down and chat well, the two have different visions, which will produce many contradictions, and they will torture each other together, so one party will propose to break up. The party who proposed to break up must be unbearable anymore, and after the breakup, he is no longer nostalgic for the past, for him, the past is a kind of torture, and going back to the past will only be painful, only looking forward, no longer nostalgic.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The reason is actually very simple, that is, because you don't love him, so you won't be sad, and if you love him, then you can't control your heart at all, and you will be so miserable that you can't breathe. Because you don't love, you won't be sad at all after the breakup, and you even feel a little relaxed.

    When I was in college, there were six girls in the dormitory, and four of them were in love a year after the start of school, and then I was the only one who was not in love with another girl.

    That's right, it's because I see that everyone else has it, so I want to have one, not because I like who wants to have one, and the girl who is single like me also thinks the same, and we are worried about finding a boyfriend all day long.

    Later, she had a suitor who chased her for about half a year, she didn't really like the boy very much, but she really wanted to fall in love, and then she agreed to date the boy, and when she dated the boy, she thought that love was sweet, that is, the kind with pink bubbles, but it was not.

    She was still relatively fresh in the first month of her love, and ran out to play with her boyfriend every day, but she didn't want to go out and didn't want to see her boyfriend in less than a month, she should be in love at that time, but she was not interested in dating, she was not interested in meeting the boy, and she was not interested in talking to the boy, and then the relationship ended, and they had just been dating for two months that day.

    You don't know how happy she is after she broke up, she feels happier than the person who announced her love, not sad at all, because she doesn't like the boy, so she feels like a burden with him, and she doesn't feel happy at all.

    And you're probably similar to her, because you don't like it, so you don't feel sad.

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