I broke up, I was sad, and I wanted to escape

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't be sad Now that the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

    Cheer up and welcome a new day, you just have no chance with him on the road of life, there will be people who are destined with you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's the same as you, I want to leave and want to escape after the breakup, but can you escape if you run away from your heart, but in the situation, as long as your heart is let go, it's fine, if your heart hasn't let go, it's useless to escape to the ends of the earth Let's face reality, even if the reality is cruel, but he is real

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People who have not been hurt by love do not know what true love is, think about it at best, maybe because of this injury, you will get better feelings in the next relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In such a hesitant situation, you should calm down, think about it, and don't meet for a while.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    HeyBrotherLet's face it...Be a strong man. `.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Allow you to escape, allow you to be depressed, but not for too long.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you escape for a while, you can't escape for a lifetime!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sadness is a day, happiness is also a day, depending on how you choose!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In modern life for young people, falling out of love is a very common thing, the deeper the affection to the end of the hurt is the deepest, since the thing happened, we have to face it calmly, the best way is to enrich yourself, choose a job, choose yourself to find a place to read quietly, in short, don't let some messy things occupy your mind.

    1. Self-healing.

    People are easy to get emotional, so if possible, you can leave the original place, go outside for a period of time, travel, business trips, etc., in short, leave the sad place, to seriously experience what the happiness of the people you see in your eyes, feel the beauty of your life at this moment, encourage yourself, cheer for yourself!

    2. Correct attitude and deal with it calmly.

    I understand that it is in the past, whether it is nostalgia or hatred, I should let it go, so that I don't blush or blush when we meet again. A lot of sadness is caused by your own thoughts, even if you don't forget it, others won't care, since the other party has let go, why can't you live happily every day only for yourself.

    3. Shape a more perfect self.

    Don't be willing to fall because of a breakup, there are many forgiveness for a breakup, there is no absolute right and wrong, but you can find your own reasons from it. If you think it's right, stick to it, correct it in time, read more books, improve your cultivation and connotation, exercise more, and maintain a great figure. Finally remember to smile every day, time can give you happiness again.

    4. Divert your attention and look for sunshine.

    If you still can't forget, your ex will still be in your memory, and it will appear in front of your eyes from time to time, but you can't let yourself grieve in your memories. Do something else, chat with friends, listen to songs, watch a funny variety show, find sunshine for yourself, and warm up your mood.

    5. Don't put yourself as a victim.

    After the breakup, he put himself as a victim, thinking that the other party should not abandon him, the other party is ruthless and unrighteous, how can he dump himself if he pays so much to him, he is too ruthless, which will only hurt him deeper. Don't always think that it's the other party's fault after falling out of love, a failed relationship is problematic for both people, so if you want to get out quickly, you must learn to admit the problem and solve the problem.

    Love that makes you miserable is the best chance for childhood trauma, and only by bravely facing these pains can you have a chance to jump out of the cycle of compulsive repetition and get true love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Personal suggestions: 1. Communicate more with your family and relatives and listen to what people have to say, 2. You should look at the future, 3. Do something meaningful and positive to divert attention, such as your hobbies and interests? Or take a break with friends and classmates, travel, broaden your horizons, and shift your focus to life and study.

    4. Do some healthy sports in moderation to make your mood feel better 5. For the future, you have to recharge more (live to learn to be old), study, read, cultivate sentiments, raise flowers or cats and dogs, and spend more time with family and relatives There are many things that can be done If you concentrate on learning something, cultivate some hobbies (practicing calligraphy, calligraphy, oil painting and sketching, or others, or learning guitar and musical instruments), you will definitely pay in the future and have a harvest Reasonably plan your time and study and do something you are good at Things to divert attention, for example, you can make something delicious After all, people take food as the sky, listen to what you like**relax, call friends and relatives**Tell a refreshment. Do something meaningful, want to open up, get together with friends around you, slowly become cheerful, and live an active life. Best wishes!!!

    Be physically and mentally healthy! May your skies be free of haze and forever blue.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We may meet people in life who we love and hate very much, but not necessarily this person is suitable for holding hands for a lifetime, the end of this relationship, you don't need to mind, the wound will slowly pass with time, maybe in 3 years, you look back and now you will feel very lucky, there are no good words to comfort you, say something practical, can make you easier nowCut off all contacts, and consider means such as changing your mobile phone number to avoid contact2During this time, travel more, go to more places with mountains and rivers, and let the openness of nature soothe you.

    3.Talk to your parents more, and your relatives will play a good role in comforting when there is no love4Go out with friends to play ball and sing songs.

    5.Putting an end to all narcotics such as alcohol is not good for your health and does not help your feelings to come out.

    6.Finally, my advice to you, don't rush into the next relationship during this time. Give yourself more space. I'm sure you've learned a lot from this, so keep up for it next time

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Marriage is not easy, stop losses in time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you break up, you will definitely be sad when you are emotionally involved, and you need to divert your attention and separate yourself from the sad situation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, friends!

    It is inevitable to break up and be sad, but breaking up is because you are unhappy, and breaking up is to regain happiness, so at best, you will feel better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Break up, can I choose money? . . Don't say I love money, I think if it really comes to that time, I think many people will still choose money, after all, the world is realistic, although the girlfriend is the most loved, but maybe in the future, she may dislike you, no money, useless and don't want you, although money is not omnipotent, but without it, it is absolutely impossible!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since there is no fate, smile and bless each other, and then adjust your mood to be an excellent self, the end of the world is full of grass, there is always a treasure in the palm of your hand.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's sad to break up, but you also have to face the reality and get your mentality right. Go out and talk to someone, go for a walk, divert your attention, and control your sadness first.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A relationship, a past, a breakup will be sad I hope you can afford to let go Time is a good medicine Slowly heal back to forget You can also start a new relationship to help you come out.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you break up, you need time to recover your mood, and after a long time, you will forget that you have to learn to let go, and you won't be sad if you let go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, the biggest difference between a woman's lovelorn and a man's may be that a woman's will is not as firm as a man's. Once a man says to break up, it is 100% divided. Women generally can't break up 100% when they say they break up.

    So if your boyfriend says to break up, then don't struggle uselessly. Turn around happily and leave, don't hesitate, don't expect the lost heart to be picked up again. Don't expect him to come back, be strong, and your new life will begin soon.

    Hope it helps, thank you! ·

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's definitely not normal to break up, but the days have to go by day by day, I hope you can cheer up soon!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's normal to be sad when you break up, and when you're sad, you cry out loud and go out to eat delicious food, relax, and shop. Don't think about it all the time, a person who is willing to break up with you is not worth your sadness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Divorce may also occur after marriage, so you must be thoughtful before marriage, date for a period of time to see if the two are suitable, whether the personality and hobbies are the same, if the answer is yes, then you can talk about marriage, if the answer is no, then break up, go find another suitable partner!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is part of great love, only one lasts long, and one should focus on himself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's okay, it's normal to break up.

    It's good to pass this hurdle, and time will erase everything.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Time is the best medicine for all pain, and with the passage of time, any pain will slowly recover and slowly fade away. It's the same with broken love, maybe today you are still in pain, and after a while, maybe you can't even remember what that person looks like. This is the power of time, silently erasing your pain.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I felt very sad when I broke up with my boyfriend, and I thought back to the happiness I was with him, happy, good to myself, and felt that I still had feelings for him, so I was so sad.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's okay, you'll find better, time is the rinse of sadness. Don't feel sorry for someone who doesn't cherish you, just muster up the courage and happiness will be yours at all times.

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