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Whether reading can improve a person's aura depends on whether you actually read it, and whether you have made what you read a part of yourself. I think it would be helpful to improve if you could do the following three things: First, read widely.
I think a person's taste in books can reflect a person's temperament to a certain extent, but before you can establish the tone of your reading, you must dabble in a wide range of knowledge, have a foundation, and then you will have the ability to distinguish between good and bad books, and the books you will read in the future will become more and more quality. Second, the chewing of good books. When you have discernment, you need to chew on good books.
You can't just read a book, you have to carefully understand the writing and emotions, and you have to take the initiative to extract the essence from it. Third, think and apply. You need to think not only about the book itself, but also about integrating it into your own life and experience of the present world, coming up with experiences that are beneficial to your life or conducive to your own growth, and then making it a part of yourself and using it in the future.
I privately think that if you can do these three steps, you will more or less have an appreciation for the wisdom and experience of your predecessors, have a feeling, and have an experience, so reading must be beneficial, and the aura itself comes from your inner fullness, and it may be improved unconsciously.
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Reading to a certain extent can enhance a person's aura. But this is not the role of books, it is the role of thinking; Or maybe it's not the role of thinking, it's the role of opinion. People who have hills and valleys in their hearts are always very clear about what they should choose and how to do it.
This kind of implicit self-confidence is a kind of aura. It means that you don't get nervous even if you don't follow the crowd, and that's what reading is all about. Introversion doesn't actually cause much damage to a person's sense of existence, what really makes a person's sense of existence weak is mediocrity.
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I don't think so. Reading is just a way to acquire knowledge, and to prompt aura, it is better to start with the actual personality, learn psychological skills and the Enneagram, and train yourself. Reading books will make you know something, think about things on different levels, and develop a unique way of dealing with the world.
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First: "aura" has nothing to do with reading, and the "aura" that the subject talks about is mainly for outsiders, a positive evaluation based on the social evaluation system. When you are alone or when you are reading a book, you will not think about taking a mirror to see if you have an "aura" when you are reading a book, the subject may want to gain dominance or voice in normal social interactions, and expect to get another thing to make up for your self-confidence defects by reading, but the actual situation is that your defects still exist - I am also a person who has not been confident, I used to drill "art", read a lot of books, and came up with a lot of "theories and methods" as smart, hoping to get a sense of security, which can be called " Confidence".
I hope that these methods can be directly applied when I encounter real-world situations in the future. Only later did I find out that real life is not like this. If life can really be summarized, can be **, and can be theorized, then what is the meaning of living if you commute to work every day, eat and drink three meals a day, sleep every day, and live as usual and unchanged in your own ** and expectations every day until death.
Life is uncertain, and this is the greatest joy of life for a person. Learn to embrace uncertainty. Finally, you'll ask yourself a question:
Is aura, self-confidence, and reading important? Isn't it important? Does it matter?
Is it that important to be unimportant? Unimportant!
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First of all, I will light up the point of view. Books are the crystallization of the wisdom of our ancestors and predecessors, especially some good books, which are simply the pinnacle of human wisdom. Therefore, reading can be said to be one of the best ways to increase experience, increase knowledge, and improve wisdom.
And the process is extremely efficient. But reading is not a sufficient condition to improve personal quality, including aura, but only the most important part, for example, if you read a lot of recipes but you still have difficulty grasping the heat, you can't make delicious meals, so some people say that practice brings true knowledge. A person's aura is all kinds, self-confidence, free and easy, and wisdom are all aura.
If you can read books and understand them thoroughly, with poems and songs at your fingertips, astronomy and geography, talk eloquently, and have unparalleled professionalism, then this must be an aura and have a long history.
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Now, if you read too many books, you will have something to say when others talk about a certain issue, and you look like an expert and you have an aura However, unless everyone is talking about a very serious and professional topic, the knowledge in your book can come in handy. Otherwise, you still have to brush up on Weibo more, watch TV dramas, play ball, play e-sports, etc., and it is easier to talk to you with one or two entertaining bad hobbies, because everyone's usual topics generally revolve around the entertainment topics of life, which are called casual hobbies. If it's too stuffy and has no aura, and if it's too serious, it can only exude an aura that drives away others.
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This is no longer a time when open books are beneficial, and when we talk about reading, we must distinguish what kind of book we are talking about. Can reading books improve a person's aura? If it's Kong Menglaozhuang, I dare to pat my 75a small flat chest and tell you, even if you can't read the meaning, just shake your head and read for 1 hour every day, and there will be a significant improvement in three years.
If it's a bestseller, success studies....Allow me to speak badly, it can't be a book...
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What is aura? Assertive! What is self-confidence? It could be reading, it could be a career, or it could be a bank deposit. Reading books expands your mind. It has a role.
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When I was eight years old, I read an adolescent book that introduced various adolescent knowledge and adolescent quirks. When I was ten years old, on the way to cram school, I saw a middle-aged man walking from the opposite side exposed, I passed by calmly, did not exclaim, and did not even look at his expression. Because I have read it, it is called "exhibitionism", which is considered a mental illness, and exclamation or disgust will make the other person excited.
When I was twelve years old, I had menarche, and I calmly went to the supermarket to buy a pack of sanitary napkins. A lot of things are that you know it's the way it is, and you don't have to make any fuss anymore.
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Su Shi's has poetry and books in his belly.
Zeng Guofan said that only reading can change temperament.
In fact, reading can not only change temperament, but also change fate.
The process of reading is the process of communicating with ancient and modern Chinese and foreign wise men.
The ancients said that one life, two luck, three feng shui, four accumulation of yin virtue, and five reading.
Not only that, but the process of reading a book is also a process of communication between oneself and one's heart.
Reading is a practice in itself.
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It's okay to improve your temperament, but it's not necessarily necessary to improve your aura, think about those senior actors, the aura of those bigwigs can only come out after a hundred battles in life.
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It depends on what you read and how you read. The aura may be sunny, but it can also be cloudy.
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The difference between those who read and those who do not read is relatively large, which is mainly manifested in the following four points.
The first point is that the bearing capacity is not the same.
People without education often cannot withstand major difficulties, setbacks, and blows. Two days ago, I saw an article about a farmer who died drinking pesticides because he had no money to treat his children.
If a literate person encounters this situation, he will raise funds and ask for help through various channels such as **, the Internet, and rescue agencies, and will not give up his responsibilities and obligations to find short-sightedness.
The second point is that the quality of life is different.
Readers have a broad horizon, elegant and romantic. They have deep accumulation, precipitation, aura and style, even if they are not rich in life, they are "expensive but not rich", those who do not study, even if they earn some money, can only be called "local tyrants", called "rich but not expensive".
The third point is that the temperament is different.
People who read books are knowledgeable, intelligent and wise, and their speech and demeanor reveal a kind of cultural atmosphere and cultivation. They often have green lights and yellow scrolls, accompanied by books, moisturized and dyed with the fragrance of books for a long time, and their hearts are also surrounded by wisps of fragrant fragrance, and their bodies naturally have a unique elegant charm.
People who don't read are rough, and what they exude is ruffian.
Fourth, the angle of looking at the problem is different.
People who have no culture look at the problem and drill the horns, and a road with the lease goes to the black. And cultured people can always find the best angle, always jump out of the circle, and always survive in a desperate situation.
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