I m confused about love right now, what do I choose for a job?

Updated on society 2024-06-25
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, you can look for the recruitment information in his city on the Internet, and find a job where you have a job similar to your current job and similar salary, there must be, see if you can find it, if the salary is slightly worse, you can also consider going.

    The answer to your question depends on your values, or you can think of it this way, if you have a successful career and know how to dress up, there will be no shortage of good men; Or you can think of it this way, there are so many good jobs in the world, but he, there is only one in the world. It depends on which one you value more. Personally, I think that if you really trust him, you can let it out vigorously.

    But if you think that he may not be the person you can rely on for the rest of your life, just keep working and keep watching.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you think he's worth giving up your job, go to his city; If you're really hesitant, don't give up on your job just yet, after all, it's just a major event in life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It must be that the job is important, and I heard you say that it seems that your boyfriend is not the kind of person who belongs to the peace, and I don't feel worth it to quit my current job just to be with him, and to put it bluntly, you are stupid to think like this, what if you quit your job to be with him, and then he suddenly runs away to another city, what will you do at that time??? Then I quit again and ran to be with him??? What time was that???

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I want to work, I'm already in a long-distance relationship, and I've lost to distance!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Work, whether you are in a different place or not, if he loves you, he will not quarrel with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's work. There's nothing wrong with being a career woman.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since ancient times, there has been a dilemma between loyalty and righteousness, depending on which one you like the most, and you will be brave to face it when you choose it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is inclusive, not indulgent.

    Love is caring, not pampering.

    Love is a blend of love, not unrequited love.

    Love is all kinds of flavors, not all sweetness.

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love warms not only themselves, but also the worldly hearts.

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    If you already have a rare love, two people should take care of it seriously; If you are still looking for love in the vast sea of people, you need to show yourself well in front of the person you like.

    Career is a person based on the society, to meet the needs of life security, career development, ability + luck + experience, just like the time + location + people, a moment of failure or setback, let you feel lost, it is this confusion, will let you adjust your mentality, deal with the perfect, your career on the road baptism once, please treat your confusion correctly, give full play to your talents to overcome, at the same time, under the nourishment of love, the career will rise steadily!!

    Good luck!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can set a certain goal for yourself, and you can work hard towards the goal, and you will have a direction and a goal in life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, let yourself calm down, and then plan your ideals and goals reasonably, so that you can find the direction and work towards the direction you want.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, we can find a job we like to do first, so that we can have a small goal, and slowly it will develop, so that we are no longer so confused.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know what the reality of the situation you are facing, but I guess it can't be messed up with my life during the last year.

    For work, what has just been summed up, you have to assess, now you are walking on a road to what direction, and what is the work you want, evaluate what is useful to you and what is useless to you in the current work, and if you have a firm direction, you must persevere to the end, no matter how hard you work, even if you cry, you must continue, as long as you think it is worth it and meaningful.

    For feelings, there are some things that I actually understand in my heart, there will be no result, and even one of the two must leave the matter to end, and if you can't look forward to the good, you will bravely face the reality, 26 is still young, you should turn your focus to work, to make your life richer and more exciting, let everything go naturally, be yourself, and stick to your own. is still the same sentence, you can't wait for beauty, whether it is a family-oriented boss, confidant, ambiguous colleague or confidant, you should struggle when you should struggle, and give up when you should give up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There will always be too much helplessness in life, work, friendship, family affection, and love will bring joy and distress to people. If people want to live, they must be strong, and only by being strong can they live better. You are right to choose to persevere, even if the current situation is not good, you have to believe that you will get better in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, at this time, what you should do is to re-examine yourself and the path you are taking. is not suitable for yourself. One must find a comfortable state of life that suits oneself.

    In this state, there is no irritability, no exhaustion, the person is full of spirit and clear thinking. You must lean yourself in this direction, otherwise you will go further and further aside! It is advisable to take a short break or travel!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are sometimes like this, easy and comfortable to make people uncomfortable, the process of growth is a process of experience, to learn to face, learn to decompress yourself, find a close friend to communicate, read more aspiring books, muster courage, sail away, the door to success is open for you, come on! Friend!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't know if you have chosen the right career, then measure the salary, the future, and the development, if you don't turn back correctly, it's still too late, or you don't change careers, or you don't change careers.

    26 If the boy is still in the ** period, the relationship can start all over again, and it can also be adjusted appropriately to add a little mood to life.

    If the girl is under a lot of pressure, try to make life a little more flavorful with her own hands, and go to the streets and alleys to find food, or backpack travel together.

    If there is no partner, then go on a blind date in various ways, and if you have a crush, then confess, which is to face the interviewer.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Life has to go on,,, go with the flow, why make yourself so tired? Be optimistic, many people are alive the same, we have to be grateful, we are happy enough! It doesn't matter if you think about it this way!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are two ways to solve the wrong path.

    One is to keep the energy and curiosity to try different areas until you find the right path, but the length of this method is not something we can control.

    The other is to persevere, any way, there will always be a way out.

    It depends on what kind of personality you mean.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you have chosen everything, don't think about it and trust your decision.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, if you choose, you will insist, so that you will not leave regrets in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you choose, there is no right or wrong, depending on how long you can hold on.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Think about something happy and take some time out of your day to do what you love and keep yourself in a good mood.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, if you have a goal, then you have to achieve your goal step by step, to struggle.

    Don't overthink it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm sure everyone has felt that way.

    This is not something that can be solved in a single word.

    The main thing is to look at yourself.

    There is no determination to do something.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is how the world is! Happy day, unhappy day, why not choose to be happy!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's good to find a time to go out and have fun, and that's good for your body and mind.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are a lot of things that I think about, but I don't really do them, and I always think about it in my mind, and I don't want to act.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's right to be tired, and comfort is reserved for the dead.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not many people in the world know what they want in the end.

    Not many people know exactly which way they should go back to get an answer.

    If someone knows, it's only a rough idea.

    Because the world is changing every day, he can't know in advance what will happen.

    The truth is that you think too much and you can't think of anything.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Life is a mess, and if you want to live and understand, you can only make yourself miserable.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hey, that's what life is all about, live slowly.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Find something serious to do Don't think nonsense Brother, this is short of people and has nothing to do to work so tired that you don't want anything When you're full, you want to sleep.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Career: I think your current situation is very good, first of all, you have a very envious public institution, secondly, the salary is okay, and secondly, you can have enough time to study graduate school and English. Aren't these things good?

    It is recommended that you finish the graduate exam first, achieve your goal in mind, and at the same time have more favorable competitive conditions, and then consider the unit that can achieve your ideals, while you study graduate school and English, you can also learn about some of the careers you like, which will help you develop in the future.

    Feelings: I think 24 years old is still young! Maybe it's the custom of Beijing!

    What I want to say is, you have to understand the ratio of men and women in China today, and even in the world, will there be a surplus of women in China? There are quite a few bachelors...Feelings can't come in a hurry, you have to meet the right person at the right time - fate.

    Also, finding a boyfriend doesn't matter if he's the best, good character, good to you, and loving each other is more important than anything else, I believe you will meet such a person ......I wish you happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then you have to think clearly, the future life you want to live;

    The first one, still commuting every day, getting a fixed salary, finding a local boyfriend, getting married and having children, although this kind of road is bland, but life often wants to pursue a high direction, I am afraid that some gains are not often lost, but the ideas of young people nowadays are not so conservative, so I am you, let go of Bo Yibo;

    Second, look at your accessories are good, whether it is to start a business or find a job, it will not be bad, even if you lack work experience, but now do not try, wait for what year to go. Even if you have a fiery heart, let yourself burn, no?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Public institutions can also change jobs, and then jump to public institutions, and transfer in and out of hemp, not to say that this job will be done for a lifetime, and there is also an internal system of competition. Don't drop off your studies, sign up if you have such an opportunity. It is difficult to enter public institutions, so don't come out easily.

    If you really can't stand to come out, you have to ask yourself a question: can you still earn so much after you come out, and enjoy such vacation and insurance, if you are now on official business or in business, then you must not come out, especially if you are not married or have children, this is a big deal. This is the only unit that allows you to take care of your own home and your children.

    I will reimburse you in full, my husband is still looking for a city person, it is best to have some connections to transfer you to the city, and it is convenient to go to the big city in all aspects.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Life is a mirror, you laugh at it, it laughs at you, you cry at it, it cries at you. Optimism is better than anything else. As for emotional matters, I personally feel that there is no geographical restriction on finding a partner, not necessarily to find a local or city is the best, in fact, the best love is two people who agree to agree.

    Cherish each other, love needs money, but money will not buy true love. When you think about it, you think that work is more important than family. Slowly get out of your current relationship and strive for the next love.

    Hope you are happy!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In terms of feelings, I can understand, if you divide it, you can divide it, and it's really painful to be together without feelings. You also have to think about it in terms of work, maybe this job makes you very bored and can't see the future, but you also have to be sure to go out and find a better one before leaving, it is recommended to do the job you like, as long as you are interested in doing it, it will be better slowly. I hope the landlord is happy.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The future is in 50 years, and besides, tomorrow and the accident come first, it's a matter that you and I can't **, and the choice now is that you decide what you want tomorrow, but do you know what you want tomorrow? ?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The salary of public institutions is too low! It is impossible to buy a house with the salary of a public institution! If you have the ability, you can change the job in the relevant field of expertise.

    Hehe, but I want to tell you, other companies are not as idle and tiring as you are in the public sector! Tired! Physically tired!

    Won't you get bored then? Dull, boring or tired of ups and downs, you choose the one you like. Hehe.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In terms of career, you don't have to worry about it, although you are 24 years old, but now you can still fight, if in the future, you are old, will you think that you did not do it and regret it? If you can, try it! Of course, it's not a blind fight, but when you have full confidence or a high chance of choosing to leave this position!

    Emotionally, I think that after this breakup, you will have a metamorphosis in your heart, don't indulge in the sweetness of the past and the entanglement of the present, these will pass, and the current entanglement will be a waste of time and will interfere with the progress of your previous career!! Go with the flow, the charm of girls often attracts different boys from all aspects Since this is divided, it means that it is not suitable! There's always someone waiting for you! Come on.

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