How can I help a friend who is mentally closed?

You can first let him into your heart, share your joys, sorrows and sorrows with him, people are infected with each other, you share more with him, you will become more and more familiar, he will naturally share his with you, while you try to give him confidence, but also find a way to make him believe in you.

You still don't know him well enough, if you want to help him, you must first give him self-confidence, isn't your advice to him this or that just to slap him in the face, boys are good-looking, so it's best not to give him advice if you are not familiar to that extent, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Changing him needs to be subtle, don't be in a hurry, start from the little things, you must first gain his trust, you can help him, and he will listen to what you say. But is he autistic?

Make no mistake about it.

I used to be autistic because my right hand was burned and ugly. I was afraid of other people's eyes and opinions, so I chose to wear a kaftan every day and choose to be silent in the crowd. But after I arrived in junior high school, because my English grades were outstanding, everyone slowly took the initiative to approach me, so that I slowly got out of autism.

The most important thing is to give more encouragement from his friends to make him confident and optimistic, so that he himself feels very good, and others should also affirm him, so that he can slowly get out of autism. It's going to take a process, so give him a little more time.

I have a senior with autism....But I like him a lot....When I was in high school, I used to be cheeky to go to him...Show him the interesting stuff I found....At first he wouldn't dump me at all....But there will be no refusal either....Later, when I was happy, I texted him....If you finish the exam, you will say that you will share the results...If you don't take the test, you can say that the question is too difficult...He occasionally had to reply with a word or two....I tried harder to tease him...often dragged him to play....Bask in the sun....Anyway, it's a little strong who can't be killed....It's coming out slowly....His girlfriend or I came up with the idea to help him chase the drip ...(It's not me who likes Mao!) For Mao! ）

Hope you succeed too....Remember that being cheeky is the magic weapon for success.

Compare your heart to your heart, you are his friend, you should understand him better, I really can't think of it, just empathize, from his point of view, try it, if it were you, what would you do. Actually, I haven't studied this aspect, but I can't do it, work hard, I believe you can help him. Remember, empathy.

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If you can't do it, go to a psychiatrist, but it's expensive!

Introverted boys don't say anything to you in words. Their love is in the heart, and you can find out his love for you just by looking at the details he has for you.

He just lacks the understanding of his parents, go and try to understand him, talk to him more, so that his new knot will open on its own.

**It's autism, autism is just the surface, you find his good friend and ask, what's going on, talk to him on an equal footing, equality, equality is very important, you can't be domineering and say how this is, think more from his point of view, start, communicate with him sincerely, and then enlighten him.

First of all, this does not constitute autism;

Secondly, if you eat and sleep normally, but do not communicate with your family, what about your relationship with your family, and what about your sociality with other people;

Again, playing online games, generally speaking, is to put some inner feelings into the network, and the reason why this is so is because you can't get it in ordinary life;

If you can't help him, and he can't adjust himself, then he needs timely psychological counseling and **.

It is recommended to find a professional psychologist, without real contact with him, it is difficult to say a definite solution.

Find out what the problem is, and consult a psychologist.

The key is to find out why.

Get a job and work out, the environment will force you to communicate with others, and don't care if the pay is as high as you expect. Also, in the process of work, you must learn to be patient, and listening to too many cold words can also enhance your mental endurance. It's not wrong to read more books, but don't just bury your head in the pile of old papers, after all, people have to face reality.

As they said, let go, sometimes you have to take the initiative, I think you lack a particularly good friend, no friend of course lonely, but if you don't take the initiative to let go of yourself and interact with others, how can you teach friends? Don't deliberately suppress yourself, don't feel embarrassed, and don't feel inferior, life is beautiful, come on friends.

You can ask a question here to show that you are aware of your own problems and give you two suggestions:

1. As my friend upstairs said, go find a job and let the working environment exercise you, but I think it may be difficult to take this step, because you don't have enough capacity to bear it, and if you do it rashly, it will only make your nervous situation worse.

2. Use the network to make some friends, for example, you can add some local QQ groups, there are many groups that will often organize some activities, the cost is AA system, you can explain your situation in the group and everyone, I think most people will be willing to help you.

If you are in Ningbo, I can help you meet more friends, but in other cities I can only provide advice, far water can not save the near fire, the most important thing is that you must be overcoming your own psychological barriers, I hope I have to help you, but also hope that you will get out of the predicament as soon as possible!

It's fine, but you have to go out and find a job to get out and get out of the community.