What if you want to find an ex but hurt him badly before?

One or two people talked very speculatively.

Some people just talk to you; I can't say what the reason is, maybe it's just fate! Whether it's a man or a woman, you'll meet some people who have a special conversation with you; But follow the others, and you will have nothing to say; There is a sentence that is not speculative for more than half a sentence; The same is true between two people of the opposite sex, when two people sit together, it sounds very appetizing; If a man and a woman can talk in a special speculative way when they meet, or at any time, we can judge that there is a certain fate between them; Think about it, if two people talk about it, then is it necessary to continue talking? It certainly can't be continued.

Talking is the premise of fate.

Second, women listen to men very much.

In fate, the most important point is that there is always one party, especially listen to the other party; For example, after a man sees a woman, he listens to her very much, and when she goes there, the man generally has no opinion; Of course, for the most part, women listen to men; As long as one of these two situations appears; Then we can say with certainty that these two people have a deep fate.

Three, two people will always think of a piece.

There is a saying that is called heart-to-heart; That is, what do you think of? What else would she think? Even though you have only just known each other; But on top of a certain thing, there will always be a thought of going together; This kind of thought and feeling, that requires a certain amount of spiritual communication; A lot of people don't believe in heart-to-heart connection, but I'm telling you, it's very accurate; Sometimes, when something happens to you, your mother has a premonition, which is called mother-child connection, also called heart-to-heart connection, telepathy.

A man and a woman, if they can always think of one piece when they encounter something, then it means that they are in the same heart; Such people, together, will live more harmoniously; Because what are you thinking? I know, what was I thinking? You are also well aware; A lot of ideas just coincide, which is not easy to think about; It is easy for two people who have this kind of thinking to walk together; The concept is the same, the idea is one; It's a kind of fate, a deep, deep fate.

Of course, in addition to the above three points, there is a more scientific criterion, that is, the University of Minnesota's "Oak Premarital Relationship Test Scale".

His test has more than 100 questions, from the couple's sex life, personality compatibility, sharing and communication, financial management, conflict resolution, family and friend relationships, children's education and other eight aspects of the analysis of couples, to determine whether it is the most suitable and most suitable couple, and it will also provide unmarried couples with suggestions for improvement, thereby improving the quality of marriage after marriage, reducing the divorce rate.

I'm trying to say you're not going to be a high school student, are you? Isn't this kind of question too naïve if it was said in high school? If you are a college student, you can talk about this kind of problem.

I would say that in this case. The other party is now in the honeymoon phase. Regardless of what about the ex?

Nor can it be shaken.

This is just your own idea, if you want to get back together with him, first of all, you have to see whether he is willing or not, only if he is willing. Even if you hurt him before, he let it go. Therefore, it is not your business to get back together, but the business of two people, depending on whether your actions can impress him.

The love in the student period is too immature, don't waste time twice on a relationship with almost no results, all you have to do is study hard, and leave the rest to fate. To put it bluntly, what I saw and considered when I was a student was too ignorant.,When I become an adult,I'll feel naïve when I look back on it after work.,But the feelings of childhood sweethearts are good.,If not, it's good to get together and disperse.,It's all a good memory.。

I guess it's no play, if he still cares about you, it's possible, no matter how deeply you hurt him, the chance to get back together is still possible, you have to work hard and be brave.

Why bother when someone else already has a new life?

Then you have to study hard! Don't move bricks like I do!

I work hard until I am convinced.

We always think of our ex when we start a new relationship, so will the ex affect your criteria for choosing a mate? In fact, the ex will more or less affect his mate selection criteria, especially those who have been hurt by the ex.

The ex is a past that cannot be mentioned for everyone, if you can, please don't miss that failed relationship too much, let yourself withdraw as soon as possible, and naturally there will be a different life.

To experience a good relationship, unless you are particularly lucky, you must be prepared for psychological growth, because many people, the first time they fall in love, are ignorant and naïve, and often become the one who feels hurt by their brother.

For example, as the relationship develops, your expectations of the relationship may be inconsistent, which can also become contradictory**. Some people feel that their other half is perfect at first, and they also want to have a beautiful relationship in their fantasy, but after experiencing many conflicts and even breaking up.

It is reasonable that his expectations for the next relationship will be much lower. Sometimes when you meet an ex who is not good to you, you can also make yourself more vigilant, knowing that no matter what, you should not be too centered on your own feelings, and sometimes reasonable doubts will make you more able to grasp happiness.

The fall of a relationship, for both parties, is a sting that goes deep into the bone marrow. The past is eroding their hearts all the time.

Walking past the places we have stayed together, we will stop to remember. Seeing the token of the love I once loved, my thoughts were like cotton threads, entangled with myself. These former beauties have become their own weaknesses, which cannot be touched, and once touched, tears burst instantly.

A good ex will shape your view of love. It will make you feel that love is what it is when you were with him. You will try to find his shadow in the love that follows.

And in a wounded relationship, you repair your broken heart countless times, wipe away your tears and want to start over, and want to avoid being hurt again in future love.

In fact, everyone will have their own criteria in their hearts, but this criterion is not fixed and will change chemically, and the factor that depends on the change is nothing more than your emotional expression of that person.

You are willing, and you want to be able to get close to each other, feel the enthusiasm of the other party, and feel the warmth and touch brought by the other party. That's the best criterion for choosing a mate.

You first have to figure out what love is.

Love is a commitment between men and women to rely on each other, tolerate each other, and stay together for a lifetime. It's an emotion for each other.

From your expression, you look at emotional matters too superficially, as casually as playing house, a girl has no woman's reserve, no self-respect and self-love, not to mention any shame.

One of them just came out of school, and he was eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. That's not all, what's even more hateful is that when I broke up with the boy later, I was embarrassed to rekindle my old relationship with the man in front of me. You treat others as human beings or as objects, and they come and go!

As for whether you can get back together with this guy, I don't suggest it. Because both of them are ignorant children, they are not worthy of love at all. But I have to advise you, a woman, please be self-respecting, self-loving, and don't be self-inferior.

To cherish your body is to love your lover, true love can't tolerate half a grain of sand, no boy likes to share his woman with other men and men!

If he really wants to be with you, he will forgive you for being willful and vexatious. If he finds another girl who is better than him in all aspects, you can give up.

Since you missed it, don't force it, love each other deeply, it's enough for the other party to be happy, you have to be optimistic, look forward, many people are waiting for you, there are many choices in life, you have to experience it yourself, grasp it, don't be too sad if you lose, it's not one person's fault, if it's good enough, what reason will there be to be sad. Also, I hope that when I get along with people in the future, I will have fewer lies, even if it is a white lie, it will hurt others.

OK. But you should take the initiative to apologize and care more about him.

It's all in people's hearts, don't think about her, even if you think about it, you will be treated as an ordinary friend, it's nothing, the question is whether you want to let go of it, if you let it go, then you will recover.

It's better to do these happy things to divert your attention, like games, singing, running.

Just bring a rattan and beat him worse than you do.

Hurry up and find someone who cares about and loves you.

When your current boyfriend has been hurt by an ex, he may doubt and distrust everything you did because of past trauma. At this time, you need to communicate with him patiently and express your understanding and support. Let him know that you won't betray him like the man who hurt him.

At the same time, respect his feelings and let him decide for himself when he is ready to open his heart.

In addition to communication, you can also try to win back his heart through actions. For example, give him space to think and process his emotions, and then give him support and help when he really needs you. You can pay attention to small details, such as cooking his favorite food and arranging a relaxing activity for him.

These small gestures may seem insignificant, but they can make him feel loved and cared for.

Most importantly, you need to maintain a positive and optimistic mindset. Don't get angry or give up because of his coldness and depression, instead, you need to be firm in your belief that your relationship is worth saving and that you will go through this difficult time together. Believing in your own strength, your dedication and sincere performance will be rewarded by Him, making your relationship stronger and better.

When you meet your ex after a breakup, you may feel embarrassed, excited, nervous, excited, anticipated, and much more, depending on the personal circumstances and the reason for the breakup. Here's what I think, I hope it helps.

1.Keep yourself calm and respectful. When meeting an ex, don't over-interpret the other person's emotions and don't let the other person's reaction feel abnormal.

Even if you break up, you are still separate individuals with your own feelings and thoughts. So, it is very important to keep yourself calm and respectful.

2.Understand your ex's needs and interests. If the ex wishes to get involved again, then it is necessary to understand their needs and interests, such as what kind of **, movies, books, etc., they like.

3.Establish healthy ways of communicating. When reuniting with your ex, don't over-read the other person's emotions.

Instead, try to establish a healthy way of communicating and sharing your thoughts and feelings with the other person. Communicating honestly and openly leads to better relationships and a better understanding of each other.

4.Respect each other's decisions. If the ex wants to start dating again, then it is necessary to respect their decision, but at the same time it is necessary to express their thoughts and feelings. Respecting each other's decisions allows you to build a better relationship.

5.Focus on rebuilding trust. Building trust can be one of the most important things in a relationship after a breakup. Rebuilding trust can help you build a better relationship, while also helping you avoid unnecessary arguments and conflicts.

Meeting an ex can be exciting or awkward, but it also depends on the circumstances of the individual and the reason for the breakup. The most important thing is to be calm and respectful, and to establish a healthy way of communicating. At the same time, respecting each other's decisions and focusing on rebuilding and building trust can help you build a better relationship.