I broke up with my boyfriend, I want to disconnect, do I need to reply to a message in the middle?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you want to break up with your boyfriend and you want to disconnect from him, then you should not reply to any messages he sends you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you want to break up with your boyfriend from the bottom of your heart, then cut it off completely, there is no need to reply to his messages, so as not to give him reverie, even if you reply, you must dispel his thoughts with righteous words, don't break the connection, not only hurt him but also hurt yourself. Blocking him completely is the best choice, think clearly and not let yourself regret it, no matter how you do it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I broke up with my boyfriend, you want to cut off the relationship with him, you don't have to reply to his message, if you are replying to the message, the other party thinks that there is still a possibility of getting back together, but you must think about this relationship yourself, whether it is a personality incompatibility or because of a misunderstanding, so you have to break up, don't regret it when the time comes.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, he just wants to be real with you, not just talking, this kind of man is already convinced, he won't change easily, you don't want to continue to waste time, so as not to waste emotions.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think if there is a strong will, I want you to delete him. Just want to cut off the relationship with you, just break up with such a person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, this move proves that the boyfriend really wants to break up, not a joke, and doesn't want to contact again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This should be because you broke up and broke his heart, maybe your boyfriend was also angry, so he didn't think about keeping you. Since he took the initiative to send you a message, it means that he has you in his heart, and you can reply to him when he sends another message. But when your boyfriend asks him to break up, he may be very angry, so he says that if you want to break up, he will never dwell on it.

    But when they calm down, they still feel that they can't let you go. Don't use the breakup to test the feelings of two people, because everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, when he loves you, he really loves you, but he feels that he can't give you what you want, or when he feels that you no longer love him, he will turn around completely, life is like this, living together, if there is no emotion, no one will believe it, but there is a point, if you are hurt more than feelings, it will naturally produce hatred, so it is normal not to contact, After breaking up, you should always think about your own problems, so that in the future life, learn from experience and lessons, and never reduce the mistakes that do not occur in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I want to ask you, what happened between you that caused you to break up with him? What did he keep texting you about?

    He said that if you want to break it, he will never dwell on it, and you can break it at any time. It should be just a momentary anger, he has been sending you messages, and he should also want to keep you.

    It is inevitable that two people quarrel together, but if you propose to break up if you are not calm, it shouldn't be, it's easy to get into the horns when people are angry, you have calmed down now, and then go back and look at the scene where all this happened that day, and think seriously about what you would do if you were calm now.

    If you still choose to break up now that you are calm, then it means that he must have done something irreparable at that time, and then he really broke up.

    If you are calm now and find that the way you did it at that time was a little naïve, and you regret the handling at that time, then it means that you were really just dizzy or joking at that time, and then you think about it from his point of view, whether his reply was just angry.

    So you still need to calm down and think about this matter yourself, and then make later considerations.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sometimes, we often regard love as a kind of bondage, as long as one party is a little careless, the other party will always complain that he (she) is not, and even sometimes try to leave each other, but when it comes to the day of leaving, I don't feel the relief in hope, but fall into deep thoughts. It wasn't until the end that you found out that you still loved him (her), and you also said: "Sometimes I think the other person is very clingy, but how many times in my life will there be such a clingy person to you?"

    Now that you know this, why break up with your significant other? Since I love it, I love it with all my heart, and halfway through, I suddenly let go! What is this???

    The path of love is not wide. It's a single-plank bridge, a single-plank bridge that can only accommodate two people, and if you turn around and walk away, you will inevitably touch the other person, and he or she will fall off the bridge and bruise all over his or her body! I think you'll understand why I'm saying that, right?

    No one can deny that you haven't loved and hated. However, you let go first, as for what the other party thinks, only you know! You said you regretted it, I said you were late!

    Even if you have the ability to redeem it, then what you get back is only a patchwork and incomplete love. "How can a broken mirror be restored? "This is my reminder to you.

    I had a love affair that was much the same as yours, and I just took into account the other person's shortcomings. But the day we separated, I suddenly found that I could no longer find the happiness I had when I was with him, and I was missing the boy who called me, sent me home, bought me water, and cared about whether I was sick. You can only blame yourself!

    Remember, even if it is redeemed, that love is broken. If we all knew that we loved each other, there would be no tragedy in the world! What to do if you regret a breakup:

    If you really love your other half, don't go back, it will only hurt the other person more deeply. What can you do with regret, after all, the fault is not in others, you bear that love, you endure that pain, this is the best punishment and antidote to our impulsiveness and regret!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You break up with your boyfriend This is a more stabbing self-esteem and hurtful thing for a man Even if he is reluctant He will not beg you You look down on a man's self-esteem too much and look too highly on the position of women Not all men will beg her to keep her when they lose a woman Even if he loves her, he will put bitterness in his heart and will not show it Your boyfriend should be this kind of character Make a temper tantrum in front of him But you can't use the breakup to test his feelings for you Once you say it, no matter how good your feelings are, they will be hurt heavily In his eyes Can you ruthlessly abandon your feelings, so ruthlessly, and expect him to keep you? That's impossible, how do girls play, don't just say break up, just give up, because if you plant well, the relationship is not what it used to be, and then friends, remember Don't say anything about breaking up when you're not completely ready to separate Satisfied, please adopt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The landlord broke up with his boyfriend, but he felt sad, which was indeed a manifestation of his lingering feelings and broken ties. And he has been sending you messages, indicating that he can't forget you either. You're obviously doing this just to gamble, so why bother?

    If you do this, you can only be hurt by love and regret for life. The landlord must think twice about this matter.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Life is short, and decades have passed. If you think about it, childhood is gone in the blink of an eye, graduation in the blink of an eye, marriage and baby in the blink of an eye with peers, and running around in the blink of an eye ......

    Now that there is so much pressure on life, study, body, family, and raising children, who still has the heart to care about those little things.

    Women have to learn to love themselves, they don't love themselves, some people love us, and after all, we all rely on ourselves to complete everything in this world, such as exams, such as work, such as taking care of ourselves, such as having children, such as filial piety to our parents.

    Don't think that everything will be fine if you marry a man who loves you, there are still many things that have to be done on your own, the man who loves you also has to work to make money, and it is impossible to always consider taking care of you, he also has his own original family, circle of friends, work pressure, physical problems, all are not perfect, not to mention the man who does not love you.

    Facing a man who doesn't love you can't bring happiness, only an abyss that you can't imagine.

    In the face of a man who is about to be you, a lot of care and love cannot be given to you.

    In the face of a man who loves you, it is impossible to take care of him from time to time.

    Women, throughout their lives, should be kind to themselves, others have a heart and are powerless, let alone those who have no heart.

    Women are already aging fast, and they are easy to be emotional, they value feelings, their hearts are softer than men, and men don't understand the price after giving birth. If you don't feel sorry for yourself, you can't think about it, and no one can open it for you.

    So, women, lovely girls, you are all angels worthy of love, there are so many interesting things in life, and so many beautiful things in life have not been experienced, it is better to dress yourself beautifully, cook all kinds of food, communicate with all kinds of thinking and interesting souls, grow a lot of knowledge, and save a lot of money. Think about it, what is a man, if you love me, you will be sincere, if you don't love me, you will definitely leave.

    Loving yourself is the only way to happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Breaking up with my boyfriend tonight, he said that I want to break up, he will never entangle, and he can break it at any time. After all the time sending me messages, I ignored him, and I was also very sad? Maybe we're tired of each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In order not to create pressure on the woman when I was in love, so that she was willing to try to contact me, I often said to her in the process of falling in love: "If you don't want to continue with me, you must tell me, I will understand, never entangled", I think this heart-to-heart treatment of her, we were in such a good relationship at that time, there will never be a day of breakup.

    But everything is my own wishful thinking, one day she found an excuse that I couldn't do, and I proposed to break up, I was very sad, I fulfilled my promise, I didn't pester her that day, I didn't sleep all night, but I couldn't help but miss her in the next few days and sent her a lot of messages, I didn't expect her to even have such a resolute attitude, I didn't want to meet, chatting back a few words, I broke the promise of breaking up again and again, she resolutely refused again and again, making me feel more and more humble in this relationship, Let me get hurt again and again, even if I don't want to, but I know I can only let go!

    I think if both parties have not committed unforgivable mistakes, the relationship should continue, don't always want to be a winning general in the relationship, don't be unforgiving, bow your head when you should bow your head, forgive when you should forgive, don't hurt a person who likes you, the other party doesn't care if you don't let the other party say it out of your mouth, you should find the answer in your usual contact.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Actually, your boyfriend has self-esteem.

    He doesn't want to break up with you, but if you want to break up, he also respects your opinion, and he won't stalk you, and then won't let you break up with him, you should understand his character.

    If you still have him in your heart, then he sends you a message, you should reply, don't miss a good boy because of willfulness, it will be too late to regret it in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't be entangled, the more you pester him, the more annoying you are, don't let others look down on you, live your own life, or, you can live better, and then turn back to him and say to him, thank you for leaving me in the first place, I live better without you! Or, leave him completely, live your own life, and forget about him!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Men's emotional world is generally more simple, love if you love, and don't love if you don't love.

    So, your boyfriend's attitude is:

    If you choose to continue the relationship, then he accepts the relationship;

    If you choose to leave, he won't bother your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why did he send you a message if he didn't pester you?

    He didn't send a message to keep you, so what did he send?

    Bless you, or blame you.

    In fact, no matter what he does, it is determined by his personality and perception of feelings.

    You've been with him for a long time, right?

    You can guess he's going to do it.

    Anyway, after all, they once fell in love.

    If you really want to break up, wouldn't it be nice to leave a good memory for each other?

    If you don't want to break up, then think about whether the conflict between you is unbearable for you, and if not, it should be tolerable.

    By the way, when my girlfriend and I broke up, I didn't keep it, because I believe that she was carefully considered, not because she didn't love her, but really wanted her to live better.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Good evening, dear! I'm happy to answer your questions, if you still like it, just reply to the message, if you don't like it, you don't have to reply, when it's broken, don't break the thread.

    Half a month after the breakup, the man sent a message or not.

    Hello, I am asking the cooperative emotion teacher Mao Mao, good at marriage and family, love, psychology, people tease and other aspects of the problem analysis, I am happy to serve you, please wait patiently for 5 minutes, is sorting, typing takes time, but also refers to the calendar, please wait a moment, please do not end the consultation.

    Hello. Good evening, dear! I'm glad to answer your questions, dear, if you still have feelings for him, and everyone hasn't really let go of each other, just reply to his message!

    Good night pro bad hole! Very high virtual and boring to answer your questions, if you still like Hongqiao, just reply to the message, if you don't like it, don't reply, when broken, don't break the thread.

    It depends on what the information is. If you have something serious, you can go back, if you don't have something serious and harass, you don't have to go back. If you break the contact and guess, then simply point to avoid continuing to entangle!

    If you still have thoughts in your heart, it depends on your own attitude, and what is the purpose of the man in the group contacting you, if you really feel that this person is not suitable for you, you should not reply. There's no need to trouble yourself anymore.

    In fact, whether you go back to the blind chain or not depends on you covering yourself. If you still have feelings for him and want to save your feelings, you must go back. If not, then there is no need to reply, just end with him!

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