How do you think about love before the age of twenty? How much did first love affect you?

There is nothing wrong with trying to fall in love, and most people should be in college before the age of twenty, and the love in college is actually the purest exchange of feelings, without the addition of financial interests, this kind of love is what everyone hopes to get, and after entering the society, there may be no more, generally looking for someone to marry, or find someone to play, to vent their inner desires.

My psychology teacher once told us that we must fall in love in college, and college love is very beautiful and pure, even if you don't think about getting married, but at least you won't have any regrets. College life without love, without a boyfriend is a regret in life. I also think that college is actually used to make friends and fall in love, and college is the transition stage from the period of ignorance to entering the society, and it is also the transition stage from the age of 18 to the age of 20.

Before the age of twenty, I was still in school, and I didn't have to think about my future marriage, nor did I have to think about what kind of person I would marry in the future, at this time, I would only look at the present, and I would be with whoever I was happy with, there would be no conflict of interest, and there would be no family quarrels, and two people would be together just because of the feelings of two people, not two families.

Take many people who have been in love for many years now, why do they divorce after getting married, because they are not suitable for life, only for love. Falling in love is not the same as getting married, and the same love before the age of twenty is not the same as love after entering society. So for love before the age of twenty, I think it is the purest period of love in a person's life.

Falling in love during this time is just the love of two people, just the feelings of two people, and just the happiness of two people. It's beautiful and happy. Therefore, before the age of twenty, each of us should try the taste of love, after all, there may be no chance in the future, don't leave yourself with regrets.

Pure love is really beautiful, even if you can't go to the end, at least you have experienced an unforgettable, happy and happy love.

As for the impact of my first love on me, I think it will be very embarrassing to see him, after all, we have been together, we used to be friends, so I will feel very good, I can play with everything, I can say anything, but now I can't, I can't treat him as the brother who was good to me before. Every time I meet a friend, there is his presence, so much so that I have no way to treat him as air, and there is no way to forget a little bit of him, as if engraved in my heart, even though we no longer like each other.

And his emotional impact on me is that I never want to fall in love with someone I've known for a long time, the most important thing is that I can't play well with my girlfriend, not only can I delete the contact, but there is no way not to see him, so I will definitely find a stranger when looking for a boyfriend in the future, and then get to know each other, and then decide whether to be together.

I think my first love really affected me a lot, so big that she hurt me, and I still remember her well.

Just call her A. I remember the first time I held hands with A was in class, and my left hand was holding her left hand. That's right, it's the left hand (because her right hand has to do her homework, and she's shy by hand), now that I think about it, it was really naïve, but I really liked the naivety at that time, I had two relationships with A, the first time was that I was very stupid and naïve at that time, thinking that as long as we were together, I wouldn't be separated again, until one day she said to me "Can you always be so naïve" I realized that it was useless to only like her, she had to like me too, only then could we go on.

That dump really made me very sad, after all, it was my first love, after all, I knew what it was like to like someone for the first time. But it also made me grow and learned some <>

Later, we both had girlfriends, but I still couldn't let go of her in my heart, I don't know if I still liked her, or because I was unwilling, until I looked at her again in the crowd, and I found that I still liked her. So I went back to her, we were together again, I learned the lesson of last time, no longer going around her every day, no longer going to her every day, because I think this will show that I am a little more mature, and I think what "plain is true", because I heard her say that she doesn't like such fancy things, until she broke up with me again, until she said to me "you are so naïve, do you think that we will be happy if we are together for an hour every day", I was dumped again, and I was still very sad and even angry,,, but I still chose to forgive her because I felt that she was right.

Now I have a good relationship with A, and I am especially grateful to her, because she has made me more mature and how to deal with the relationship between couples, so that I have found a good girlfriend, a girlfriend who loves me, a girlfriend that I love.

How do you think about the impact of your first love before the age of 20? Before the age of 20, the mind is still not too mature, and the feelings belong to the ignorant time, although the current boys and girls are mature very early, but still deal with hygiene. Therefore, in a state of ignorance about love, the imagination is particularly beautiful.

The love before the age of 20 was a relatively rich experience, and it was also an indispensable memory in life, and then it didn't have much impact on me.

Falling in love before the age of twenty is considered early love, and it is not favored by others. My first love met a very good and gentle boy, he treated me very well, so that after the breakup, every time I look for a partner, I want to find someone who is comparable to him, and I meet a person who feels inferior to him, and regards him as my boyfriend's standard.

In fact, when people are young, they are invincible in youth, so they are brave enough to deal with feelings.

Therefore, first love is also the best unforgettable moment in life, cherish this memory, you can always remember.

Love before the age of 20, I think it is a very innocent feeling, young people's feelings are not mixed with anything, and first love is the best.

Love before the age of 20 may not be too mature and generally not easy to succeed, so most of the first love is before the age of 20, but it has a great impact on life and is unforgettable for a lifetime.

Everyone will have their first love, that is a special love experience, maybe now some people and their first love have been married and have children, maybe with their first love has been separated, but the first love can make us grow.

I think love before the age of 20 is simple and beautiful, some people may not be able to call him together, but it is also beautiful, and the unforgettable emotional impact may be for a lifetime.

How do you think about falling in love before the age of 20, and how much does first love affect you? The impact of first love on is very large, no matter in the future, he is engaged in the object, he must be compared with his first love.

In love before the age of 20, I was young at that time, so I may not cherish it when I was young, and I may lose it.

I don't think the impact is too big, because people grow.

Summary. Good noon honey can be seen through your description, on average, this situation can be said to be very rare, only when you meet a special favorite object, there will be a feeling of heartbeat, then if after the end of the first love there is no heart-rending pain in the love will feel the heartbeat, this is a normal phenomenon. 

After the first love in his teens ended, he fell in love again at the age of twenty-one, and he saw his heartbeat, how much did he like like it.

Good noon honey can be seen through your description, on average, this situation can be said to be very rare, only when you meet a special favorite object, there will be a feeling of heartbeat, then if after the end of the first love there is no heart-rending pain in the love will feel the heartbeat, this is a normal phenomenon. 

It was sad after the first love ended.

So how long has it been so far? Now you have a new crush, so you can't control your inner emotions, right?

I was so excited that I didn't sleep well all night.

Can you tell your teacher about what kind of person you met? How are the two of you getting along at the moment, let the teacher help you analyze each other's inner situation and help you promote the progress of this relationship.

"I stood at the crossroads of my first love, waiting for the person who would accompany me for the rest of my life. And she will bring her first love to the appointment. ”

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Because of the relationship between each other's parents, they met three years ago. At the time, he was a sophomore and she was a freshman. In the following three years, they were like ordinary friends, occasionally in touch on QQ, and of course, they also went to each other's homes to play. It's just that everything is as an ordinary friend.

Few people would believe that a college graduate has never been in a relationship, let alone even experienced their first love. Therefore, the female colleagues around him were even more unconvinced. Although he insisted that it was true, they seemed to think he was joking.

Believe it or not, he has long been accustomed to it, these people just want to hear the answer in their own heart, not the real answer. The one-year experience made him a little numb, and he slowly calmed down. Instead of fighting with those big sisters and little sisters, it's better to read more books, clean.

Fate sometimes caught people off guard, and when everything went according to his plan, the appearance of a girl made him panic. How does it feel to be a person who has never been in a relationship and is suddenly pursued by a girl? Flattered?

Hate to see each other late? A godsend? Unfortunately, he didn't believe in love at first sight, even though the girl was also charming.

He is now more realistic and thinks more realistically. I won't be tempted by the little girl's little effort. Therefore, although this girl who is five years younger than him is diligent, careful and considerate about him, and even sticks to him with all kinds of jerky ambiguity of a little girl, it can't make him really tempted.

Because he thinks that if he can say that he likes you after knowing you for less than a month, it is just the feeling of liking being with you, not the kind of near-perfect love that he is pursuing. So, when he wrote the rejection letter to the little girl, he seriously considered what kind of love he wanted. And the answer is that I met her three years ago.

When he showed her the rejection letter, everything was laid out. Because, he mentions her in it. She was the first girl he held hands. He still remembers vividly that it was in a forest park. And all of this happened as a matter of course.

The Buddha said: All laws are born, and all are fate. Chance encounters, suddenly looking back, destined each other's lives.

From three years ago to now, they have long been destined to be not passers-by. The moment he learned that he "liked", he knew that he would not die or be reconciled. He will find his faith back, he will still firmly believe in her, and he will continue to believe that she is that person, the person who took his first love and walked towards the marriage hall together.

The first love in his twenties, before he had time to enjoy the sweetness of love, had to face the powerful obstacle of "reality", a little confused, a little uneasy, but he could only move forward bravely, for this almost ideal fate, but also for the dream ...... in that dream

In fact, everyone sees this problem too seriously and too extremely. It's normal that you haven't been in love in your twenties, and people will have their own choices. I don't have an answer to this question, I'm 20 years old this year, I haven't met the right person yet, and love has been put aside for the time being, but just a pair of incredible expressions with all their friends, which makes me very embarrassed.

Usually you are yourself and your girlfriend or playing, want to travel and are afraid that it is inconvenient to be alone, or see a meal, you only have one stomach and still feel very lonely and want to find a boyfriend, but through these moments, still reluctant to find someone, and now it has developed to the point that a person eats a nine-inch pizza with a huge appetite, and without the help of a boyfriend to eat endless food together.

Actually, many of us have been busy with work, using this as an excuse to comfort ourselves and numb ourselves. I'm fine, I'm good, I don't need anyone else to take care of me yet. The worst part is that maybe one day I can try to face reality and start dating, and then I have dinner and watch a movie to give his life to another person I don't know.

But until now, there is hope for love, and when I first saw a passage, I think I would remember it.

Actually, I think fate is a thing, and one day he will come to you. Don't be in a hurry. In case you meet someone who is not suitable and hurts yourself, it will be bad, right.

No one will return to a lonely life, lonely people will meet, there will always be someone who will hate to see you, and the wonderful love that you have fantasized about many times will get from the beautiful you. "Hope you meet the right person.