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Don't be careful, that is, sometimes you have conflicts with others because of small things, don't care about it, and forgive each other if others do something wrong.
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Counting is to describe a little bit and every bit (derogatory).
It is to tell people not to be overly concerned about personal gains and losses in this way.
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Hello! Many things such as doing business can't be too careful, and there will be no friends in the future, of course, the business will get bigger and bigger. Also, don't feel unfair or have a heavy task when doing things in the family.
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Socrates believes that if a man often quarrels with his wife, and in the end two people go their separate ways, it is not a man's ability. Writer Yang Daxia's message that you will lose more in your calculations.
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Just don't hold on to a small thing, which leads to contradictions, if we look at the small things ourselves, sometimes it's a blessing to suffer.
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Don't worry about it means: don't take it seriously with others because of some small things in life, don't care about the trivial things in life, measure a little bigger, be broad-minded, and be tolerant.
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It means to be generous, not to be careful. Some things should be generous, atmospheric, and not neat.
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is to be generous. Don't make a fuss about unnecessary things, be an open-minded person.
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People live for a lifetime, and they always have to deal with people. It has been said that all troubles come from relationships. Sometimes your troubles don't matter who is right or wrong, but your state of mind.
It is often said that the pattern should be big. This pattern is bigger, you can always look at the problem in the long run, you can always stand at a higher angle, and your mind will naturally be broader. And in life, we hate those who are calculating and pinching the ruler the most.
Sometimes it's a kind of selfishness, sometimes it's a kind of narrow-mindedness, and sometimes it's a kind of self-inflicted trouble.
Some people are unwilling to suffer losses at work, pay attention to absolute fairness in everything, and blow their beards and stare at the leaders to complain if their interests are slightly hurt; Someone can't see that others are good, others are better than him, and he is uncomfortable and deliberately makes you angry; Some people are particularly sensitive and suspicious, and always treat the heart of a villain with the belly of a gentleman: you don't see him snub his greeting on the road, he gets angry and thinks you are deliberate, you reject his good intentions because of something, but she thinks that you don't give her face and feels uncomfortable......So, if you are calculating or others are calculating, it will bring us a lot of trivial troubles, so don't be a calculating person.
People who are scheming are often more selfish, because they only think about their own feelings in everything, and cannot put themselves in the other person's shoes to consider or understand the difficulties of others. They are always self-centered, put their own interests first, and have no room for a grain of sand in their eyes.
People who are calculating tend to be narrow-minded. Their selfish nature determines their pattern and height, their vision and understanding, their heart and bearing, and their cultivation and demeanor. They only see the immediate interests, and do not care about the overall situation; They only care about the immediate gains and losses, and do not look at the future changes.
They sometimes have very low emotional intelligence, do not know how to be flexible and flexible, and just blindly focus on momentary feelings and frustrations.
People who are scheming cannot achieve rapid development, and can only live in their own world and be a frog at the bottom of the well.
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The most taboo thing about being a man is to be careful, and a person who is careful will fight for everything, but he can't grasp anything.
Life must have a good attitude, mentality is very important, people should live without joy or loss. In this way, we can deal with the impermanence of life.
Never complain that others don't help you, helping you is a kind of affection, and it is people's duty not to help. It's normal to help or not to help.
Life is truly inseparable, and the only one who can help you without regrets is yourself. You are your own master, and you are meticulous about your own talents.
Those wicked people, as long as they don't hurt you excessively, are normal, after all, human nature is selfish.
Life is a journey, come and go in a hurry, go and stay at will, and what should come will always come and go, and it will not be able to stay.
Facing it calmly is the best relief.
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Summary. Hello, classmates! The meaning of the pound and the pound: that is, seriously, the scale is the fairest, if the person is the one who should be careful, should not be careful, should be treated calmly, this scale must be grasped well, in order to find the most right!
Just take care of it.
Hello, classmates! The meaning of the pound and the pound: that is, seriously, the scale is the fairest, if the person is the one who should be careful, should not be careful, should be treated calmly, this scale must be grasped well, in order to find the most right!
Pound and pound: Pound and pound meaning: clear and subtle; By extension, trivial.
Think about the little things. Now it is a metaphor for overthinking the trivial or trivial. Idiom source:
The Book of Poetry Zhou Song Zhijing": "Since he has become healthy, there are four directions, and he is bright." ”
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Be a little more careful, but don't be too careful.
There are too many trivialities, contradictions and problems in life, if you are too careful, you must be tired in the end, you must be tired in the end, on the surface, it seems that you have made a profit for the time being, and it seems that you have not suffered a loss for the time being, but in the end you still suffer a loss.
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When people get along with each other, not only can't be too careful, even if they are not too careful, they can't, that is, they can't be too careful.
If people get along with each other, they will lose all their friends over time. When times are in trouble, no one will lend a helping hand.
People live in a social environment, and if they leave the society, or are abandoned by the society, their lives will be very difficult.
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But do good deeds, don't ask about the future. "Zengguang Xianwen".
Urgency is a noble sentiment, and not asking for anything in return is a rational attitude. If you worry about it less, you will be more comfortable. Writer Yang Daxia said, thinking about it is too long.
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If you look small, your field of vision will be narrow.
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The more people who care about the gains and losses, their horizons are too narrow, they have no long-term pursuit, and being with such a person is simply a chicken and a duck, not on the same channel at all, so if the level is high, they will naturally stay away from such people. Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that too much thinking will hinder you.
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Caring about catties means that you have to be careful about everything, and you must be too careful about inconsequential things.
A person who cares about everything is a person who plans for his own interests in everything, a person who never suffers a loss, works without him, does dirty work and takes a detour, and rushes to be the first when he encounters good things.
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Jin Jin calculated: is an idiom, which means Jin Jin: to describe the clear observation, see very carefully and clearly, and by extension, trivial.
Refers to being overly concerned about things that don't matter.
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Describe the discernment, see it very carefully and clearly, and by extension, trivial, refers to being overly concerned about inconsequential things, which is called calculating.
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Today's care is a person who doesn't suffer no matter what he does? The math is clear for you. Small things should also be taken care of by others. In short, this kind of person can only take advantage of it, and cannot suffer losses.
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Nothing matters.
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