Why good things are always followed by bad things

I think love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.

Because, life is not perfect, so, brother, you can't slack yourself on the road of life Every time something good comes, you have to hide in the dark and wait for something bad to happen, and when he appears, you kick him away with a handsome kick, hahaha, it's called a pleasure at that time. Life is like this, come on.

That shows that God is fair.

There is no causal relationship between the two, it is just a coincidence, even if you don't do anything, what doesn't go well should happen, it still has to happen, how can everything go smoothly in life.

It's because after doing a good deed, your mental expectations increase, and you subconsciously hope that something good or better will happen to you. And then the reality is not necessarily like this, on the contrary, doing one more thing (whether it is good or bad) will produce one more outcome, and the outcome of the event is normally distributed, with good and bad. Coupled with your mental expectations, you will have the thought that "doing good deeds will cause things to go wrong".

Encourage more good deeds without expecting anything, but seek inner comfort. If something doesn't go well, it's a training experience. The heart of helping others is always there, and good deeds are always there

Festinger's Law.

There's a law in psychology called Festinger's Law, which is that the 10 in life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90 is determined by how you react to what happens. To use our actual example, when we get up early in the morning and encounter an unlucky thing, our mentality will deteriorate, and the whole person's words and deeds will become very negative, which will affect the work and life of the day, causing us to keep making mistakes, constantly encountering troubles, and starting to be unlucky one after another, and even ruining our fortunes.

1. Newton was hit by an apple and used his brain to discover gravity.

2. British bacteriologist Fleming, in the process of a bacterial culture, his experimental samples were forgotten for a period of time due to carelessness, when he remembered that the experimental samples had grown mold, through observation found that mold has the ability to destroy germs, and penicillin was invented through a series of later studies.

3. There is a person who is good at speculating on good luck and evil and mastering the number of techniques, living near the side of the plug. Once, his horse ran to the Hu people's residence for no reason. People came to comfort him for this.

But the old man said, "How is this not a blessing?" "After a few months, the lost horse returned with many of the good horses of the Hu people.

The positive and negative sides of a thing together are comprehensive, pessimism and optimism together are the view, when pessimistic should be optimistic, when optimistic should be pessimistic.

Pessimistic people will tremble and walk on thin ice when the living environment is good; Optimistic people, whether they are dormant or bowed their heads when they are miserable, are always full of vitality and tenacious.

"Good" and "bad" really depend on what level we stand on. The same thing, or any thing, when viewed at another time and from a different angle, presents the possibility of another side of the value judgment that we see in the world.

So, any thing that you look at in reverse will cause you to have the opposite feeling, like happiness and sadness. We used to always say that good things are hidden in bad things, and bad things are hidden in good things, but this is actually looking at bad things from the perspective of good things, and looking at good things from the perspective of bad things, in fact, good things and bad things exist at the same time.

The world is your projection, and you are also the projection of the world, and this process of projecting each other, that is, the angle from which we see the world and each other, will change at any time.