What to do if your belly is seen as weak and cowardly by others

Sometimes the belly is the belly, and the weak cowardice is the weak cowardice. There are no absolutes. You think you're looking for affection, and you're doing it for your friends.

Then you are willing. Why bother with the question of weakness and cowardice? There's a saying that says?

Let others talk about your own way, right? (a little old) but, anyway, the right amount of belly is a must. Instead of blindly tolerating, if you are unhappy, it will affect your initiative, and you will also show dissatisfaction in a certain aspect, and then some people will seem to be hypocritical, or even weak.

However, I believe that the boat will naturally go straight to the bridgehead, and there is nothing that cannot be passed. The one who says you're weak and cowardly, if it's your friend, you can explain it. If not, use your actions to show others that you are not cowardly.

I have always been reluctant to hurt and be angry. Of course, there's really no need to upset yourself too much. I don't know how to explain your question, I hope it will be of some help to you.

However, if you can give some examples, it will be easier to get the right treatment.

Actually, I think it's good to be cowardly, which means that you still won't get angry with others. People tend to like to be around weak people, and they don't like to be around aggressive, strong people, I think cowardice is in other words kind and weak, and needs to be protected, isn't it? Don't dwell on it, you're good, really.

Amiable to tell him to be respectful or to tear his face with him immediately, that's what I did.

A large measure does not mean being bullied, their victory results can be protected through legal means, and people with a large measure have more friends, a better mentality, and a happier life than a person with a small belly, maybe they can also prolong their lives.

I don't think there's anything wrong with being tolerant of others, but being too tolerant will only make others think that you are cowardly, and everyone will dare to bully you. Tolerance should be appropriate, it should be able to protect one's own interests, and it is necessary to learn to weigh interests.

Good people have good retribution, your mother must have good retribution, and a big belly must be good!

Amount....You seem to have been bullied a little too much, you have to resist! Actually, it's not that you don't have a temper, you just don't want to have a seizure, you don't want to cause trouble, I understand very well, I used to be like this, I was always joking, but I didn't want to be angry, and the jokes made by others got bigger and bigger, but when I was a sophomore in high school, others made fun of me, and I really couldn't help but say a big sentence, and the whole class was quiet, and afterwards my classmates said that they were scared by me at the time, and no one has made big jokes with me since then, but we are still good friends, I just want to say to you, you should fight back, send a return fire in the class, People who don't lose their temper will be remembered.,It's also very scary.,The total ninja is really not a thing.,It's going to make people bully you more and more.,You're not a big belly at all.,Others say that you're just a plain statement.,Saying that you have a big belly is actually saying that you're bullying and not fighting back.,Of course! That's my opinion, but you really have to resist once, it's a lie for a good man not to fight with a woman, and I'm talking about what kind of girl is such a girl....

Well, your belly is average, not small, but not too big, and belongs to one of the vast number of normal people. People with small stomachs are very scary, a wrong word will remember you for a lifetime, find you awkward everywhere, don't mess with them, don't mess with ......them

Your table is described as a love to lift the bar, and many people also have this problem, cough, I used to love to lift the bar. It's a bit tiring to get along with such people, but if you exercise for a long time, learn to be tolerant, understand others, learn to reserve opinions, and seek common ground while reserving differences, then you will become a person with a big belly, hehe.

Having a belly for those who hurt you, instead of calculating it, instead of hurting them as well, is the wisdom of the belly, and the belly dissolves all kinds of evils, which is the contribution of people with a belly to society.

This has nothing to do with the amount of belly, if your own rights and interests are damaged, and you don't defend yourself, then you deserve to be damaged.

People are different. If it's all the same, can it still be called a high-level animal? A man with a large measure represents that he is open-minded, or has self-confidence. A man with a small measure means that he cares about you or is selfish. Everyone's understanding is different.

Men are all the same guts, in some cases you think that a cowardly man is very brave, and in some couples you think that a very brave man will be very cowardly.

I'm a big belly, so it's good to take things lightly.

A person with a big belly is because he knows how to take a step back and open the sky. A person with a small belly is because he is not mature enough.

The size of the belly is determined by character.

It's up to the big belly to be stingy.

Whoever does not speak of people, who bai does not be spoken.

Du You always care about this, how tired you are.

You are not afraid of shadows, you don't care what they say to you, smart people will not waste time on gossip.

When someone says how you are, you smile and continue to do what you have to do, which not only reflects your bearing. Isn't it great that it can also reflect your self-cultivation? People live for themselves, and always remember that "do not do evil for a small thing, and do not do something small for good".

In this case, justifying on the spot will make you look very ungraceful, and you should use the method that a smart person should use. Forbearance may not be able to tolerate calm for a while.,The problem can't be solved by forbearance.。。。

I've been in situations like this a lot, I'm not going to explain it, I'm just using people who gossip about me as clowns, and slapping them with their behavior, which is really useful, and then they know that it won't anger me, and it will only make them look like a villain, so they won't do it. In addition, you can consciously or unconsciously emphasize that "the person who speaks ill of others has a problem with his own character, and what he says is not credible" to win back a city for himself, so that the credibility of what he says will be reduced... Generally, the people who say bad things about me are embarrassed when they see me later, and the person who has a bad reputation is definitely the other party...

Go your own way and let others die in the corner!! Don't pay attention to other people's tongue chewing, that's pure envy, jealousy and hatred!! I've been laughed at before, I'm just laughing, as long as you don't pay attention to it, it will stop after a while.

If it were me, I wouldn't be too lazy to talk nonsense with him. What else to say with such people. Of course, silence, the so-called silence is golden.

Be yourself, no matter what others say.

First of all, it has a lot to do with people's personalities. It's hard to change. But it can be changed.

The country is easy to change, and the temperament is difficult to change. Just because it's hard to move doesn't mean it can't be moved. Therefore, you must first recognize how much harm you can bring to yourself in this area.

Give yourself a sense of crisis. Then you can gradually change it. The first thing to measure is to understand others.

If you can't understand what others are saying, you can't measure. And then there's patience. Endure.

Analyse. Method. to solve the problem.

Learn to laugh. Equalize your position with others. Don't always think you're on top of everything and know everything.

Even if you read some books, it's good for you. For example, books about salespeople. Sales-related books can help you change your mindset completely.

But the process takes time. You have to take your time. Participate in social activities.

Even if it's a drinking party. That's what it means. It's all up to you.

This is a long-term problem, there is a saying that people change with the environment, it is not easy to change their innate character, like you already know the problem, then you must first deepen the imprint of this problem in your heart, every time you want to care about the shortcomings of others, there will be a warning to remind you to restraint, then your emotions will be terminated, or tend to be flat, and the inertia of your character will be formed after a long time; The second is to start from the opposite side, get in touch with macro things, let yourself understand that the world is big, there are no wonders, and anything that exists has a certain objectivity, watch more movies or books with a story theme of tolerance, all in all, these are to cultivate your own sentiments, participate in more group activities when you are idle, have more contact with people, understand that different people have different personality characteristics, and slowly your sensitivity to other people's shortcomings will weaken, and change your perception of problems. Sticking to the above should help you, as you grow older and have your experience in society, such problems can be completely overcome, and finally I sincerely wish you a happy life!

See the virtuous and think together, see the unvirtuous, and introspect introspectively.

I don't think the measurement can get bigger in a day or two, but the fact of offending people is there, although it is said that a slap in the face does not make a sound, and the conflict between two people certainly cannot be said to be your problem alone, but this cannot be a reason not to introspect.

I've always been a little measured, and I like to ask others with my own requirements, and I also recognize this mistake, and I want to change it like you, but it's really not a problem that can be solved overnight, so when I encounter such a situation, I apologize to the other party for my mistakes, and ask for the other party's forgiveness, although it may not be all your mistakes, but you have corrected your mistakes in the process is already a progress, selfish, you have a conflict with the other party But you corrected it (although I apologized at the time, I really felt that I couldn't pull my face), but after the incident, I felt that my mistake had been corrected relative to the person with whom you had a dispute, and I had gone further than the other party, and this sense of accomplishment is also the motivation for self-reflection next time I encounter the same thing! I believe that in the long run, the measurement will become bigger!

I'm still a student, not a person in society, and I don't know whether the relationship between people in society can be used in the way I said, so you can ignore the places that don't fit your immediate reality (such as the second and third paragraphs), but Confucius's sentence is really right, and my problems are similar to yours, but recently after reading some Confucian and Taoist thoughts, I feel very taught, such as some principles such as pushing oneself and others, I believe it will be useful for your self-cultivation!

I want to establish people, and I want to reach people.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

All in all, it's right to do a lot of introspection, and it's already the beginning of your introspection to ask questions here, and I wish you to achieve your goals soon.

Usually smile and smile at people, when you find other people's shortcomings or angry with others, pay attention not to rush to speak first, count first, haha, so calm down before talking, then you will find that your thoughts are different, stick to it, you will change a lot. Try it , I used to be frizzy too, now it's much better.

Read more books, all kinds of types can be, increase the experience of life, you will gradually realize that life is actually like this, no one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, when your own shortcomings are unbearable others will treat you.

When you get angry, you don't have a seizure, and after you calm down, you think about whether it's necessary, and you find that there's really nothing.

It's not that complicated. You just have to keep that in mind. When you can't tolerate or blame other people's shortcomings, you think, "If I were like this, what would people do to me?"

If you want to have a belly, you need to be more patient.

Learn how to peel eggs first (or do something you think you can practice patience) and then relax. Tell yourself that today is your last day.

Hehe. It's a matter of connotation and grace.

Some people are more lenient with themselves and strict with others. The point is to compare your heart to your heart and put your mind at ease. Anyone can be at fault.

In fact, to put it bluntly, this is also a matter of quality. If you improve your level, you will naturally have a different mentality. It's not the same when you do things.

It is not wrong to be tolerant and relaxed, to solve the shortcomings of others in a tactful way, and to correct the mistakes of others. Don't be too careful, who doesn't make mistakes, and reflect on yourself from time to time. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

1. Employing people's strengths and accommodating people's shortcomings.

2. Reading more books on Buddhism should enlighten you!

3. Participate in more cultural and sports activities, especially sports activities will be helpful to people's body and mind and the whole person's mind.

4. It's best to introduce you to the Romance of the Three Kingdoms and Sun Tzu's Art of War, I believe it will be a great inspiration to you after reading it.

At all times, you have to keep a smile on your face, see the shortcomings of others, and give tactful corrections. Don't care, you should understand the truth that the mind is calm and naturally cool!

Patience is a very simple word.

It's hard to do ...

Hey, this is a matter of self-cultivation, isn't it something that can be explained clearly in half a sentence, understand?

That is, you should be strict with yourself and others, be more strict with yourself, tolerate others if you can, don't blame things that don't violate morality, or remind them in a humorous way.

Mainly... Relax...

I used to be like you, but then I came up with a solution: no matter how humiliating it was, I endured it and didn't have a seizure.

In fact, it's just a joke when you think about it later, not to mention that boys are easy to make excessive jokes. It's not worth it to turn your face with your friends for this.

And exercise joy, anger, sorrow and sorrow are not easy to express, and the psychology understands what a joke is, who is the real hateful person, and be deep.