Is it OK to fall in love in the first year of high school?

Here's my absolute originality, not plagiarism: I often hear people talking about puppy love, and I'd like to talk about my opinion on puppy love as a 19-year-old: I'm against puppy love, but I want everyone to have puppy love once.

Oh, don't understand? Rationale: People who are in puppy love simply can't understand the following questions:

Why is puppy love bad Why puppy love always fails What's wrong with puppy love, we have fate! My response to this is: People in early love, their minds are not mature enough, and they can't look far, they only know that the two are very happy together now, and there is no contradiction, so I firmly believe that they are a natural pair.

Over time, they will slowly discover that there are many subjective and objective loopholes in the feelings they see each other. For example, one party is short-tempered and the other is just very impatient.

This is rarely found in love, and even if it is discovered, it may not be taken seriously, because people in love rarely give up ruthlessly because they realize that they can't do it. Therefore, people who are in love are confident that their love is perfect......Speaking of which, looking back, why do I want everyone to fall in love again? Rationale:

As I said, there are some things that people will never understand if they don't experience them. Just like parents attach great importance to their children's learning, especially down-and-out parents, who are now suffering losses and downfalls, only to realize that they should really study hard in the first place. In the same way, who believes how bad it is to say that early love is for the majority of teenagers?

So, let each of them go through it once, and just once it will be possible for him to become mature. I just woke up from a so-called "broken love" and became mature overnight. There are some things that people really can't understand without going through them.

But who knows ......It's good to fail once, be mature, and be sensible. But can some people learn the lessons of failure? Some people ......If you fail once, you will never get up again.

Like those who are impulsive and short-sighted......Puppy love ......If you've already started and can't help yourself, my advice is to take a last-ditch measure, or perhaps a more national one: keep your distance. Keep your distance:

It's good to keep this relationship at a distance that is a little closer than your friends, and don't deepen it. The benefits of keeping this distance are: it won't have much of an impact on life, and there won't be much of a problem with relationships in general.

The most important thing is that once you fail in the end, you won't fall badly. Because you're glad you didn't give that much affection. Some people don't grasp the distance well, give their feelings desperately, and finally fail and fall badly.

Even if you succeed, will you fail because you don't give all your affection? Therefore, grasping the distance is a way to prevent falling too badly and have no impact on success, the best of both worlds. In early love, I can't extricate myself, and under the fact that I have a success rate in early love.

Advice to classmates in early love - keep that distance. It not only satisfies your psychological needs, but also leaves a way out for yourself. ~

As long as you don't delay learning, you can talk about it, and it must be distracting to talk, but sometimes talking can also help you learn, for example, you like him very much, he is also very sensible, he said that for him you have to study hard, then you will think of him when you don't want to learn, when you are tired of learning, and then continue to learn, then it will become a good thing.

Personally, I think you should focus on studying, or you will definitely regret it in the future, it's okay to make a good friend, but don't go beyond the meaning of a friend! When you go to college, it's never too late to date!