After every relationship is together, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory because I am too picky?

It's not necessarily that you're picky, there's a lot of reasons for this. It is not unreasonable to say that girls take into account the opinions of those around them when faced with the choice of a partner. Everyone knows that people in love may be blinded by the scene in front of them, or be drawn by momentary feelings, so at this time you need another friend you trust to help you see how the person in front of you is.

It's normal for you to consider or accept your family's opinions.

Don't know how this relationship happened to you? Is it because of a blind date? Or free love?

If it is a blind date, then you may be deliberately arranged or asked for contact, you may consider a lot of issues (responsible for both parties, have a clear concept of love and marriage), and you may be at peace with the encounter (you can see that there is not much consideration for love marriage). Judging by your description, your situation leans more towards the latter.

If it's free love, what are the factors that attract you to the other person? Did these factors disintegrate with the family's opinion? If there is a disintegration, then it means that your inner needs have changed, from the desire to love to a more realistic need, and the opinion of your family only expresses this desire.

If it doesn't collapse, then it should be that you have higher requirements and desires for the other person, hoping that the other person can do it, but facing a situation that the other person may not be able to do, which may make you entangled.

From your description, I feel that you should have a change in your inner needs, but it is not clear how this change came about, and it may be related to what your family wants of you. For example, you are constantly increasing your achievements, but you are rarely fulfilled for the rewards or promises you deserve. As a result, you can only get rewards or requirements if you continue to improve.

It is only a guess, and it should be used as a reference).

However, this incident also illustrates one of your problems, that is, the lack of positioning of your future partner, there is a feeling of "riding a donkey to find a horse" (non-discrimination). The opinions of family members can be used as a reference, but you need to have your own opinions, because the future marriage is your own, not your family's, and you need to be responsible for your own marriage.

It's not that you're too picky, it's because you feel that your relationship should be particularly beautiful and shouldn't have these flaws. This is your yearning for a better life.

No, there will always be many unsatisfactory in life, but you don't blindly complain, but find the leading solution, and use action to solve it, instead of blindly picking on it.

It's not that you're too picky, it's that you feel that your relationship has to be perfect, and that's everyone's pursuit of perfection, and there's nothing wrong with that.

This is a very normal phenomenon, each relationship has different personalities, so there will be disagreements, you have to communicate with your other half in time, but also reflect on yourself from time to time.

Maybe you're picky in part, but every relationship has small flaws, and you can't expect it to be perfect.

No. Feelings fade when they talk about it. When love becomes family affection, it will pick a bone in the egg. It's not as happy as it should be. That's it.

No. Two people together is a process of two sharp stones constantly polishing and colliding to become rounded, but he has not yet met your psychological expectations.

Yes, because no one is perfect, and you have your own shortcomings. Don't be too picky, two people must respect each other and tolerate each other in order to last a long time.

Yes, if you have a lot of dissatisfaction in each paragraph, the reason is often in yourself, and you better reflect on yourself.