I m very unhappy all day long, I like to do small things, I m very depressed, is it sick?

It's not sick. A person has a person's personality, and depression is also a personality type, and sometimes it is quite pleasing to girls, but it is not conducive to personal social interaction, so it will hinder the development of society. Therefore, you should learn to overcome it, because survival is a very realistic thing.

But I envy the melancholy character, because these people are always quiet, have more time to think about life and ideals, and live a more rational and fulfilling life. Therefore, the best choice is to be cheerful in your relationship and melancholy in your private life, so that your life will be full and wonderful, may you be so!

Relatively speaking, you may be a bit autistic, not very social, less exposed to new things, and less self-motivated positive letters. It can lead to anger, depression, unhappiness, loss of interest in all kinds of things in life... You just have to try in the opposite direction of what I said above and you should be fine.

It's not that I'm sick, it's just that I'm too autistic because of something. Have some fun with yourself. It's all temporary!

It shouldn't be a disease, so make more friends.

You have something depressed in your heart, and you can't seem to find anyone to talk to. It is recommended to communicate well with people, relatives, friends, and find a girlfriend.

That's not good. Be positive about life.

99% of people's troubles come from worrying about their future lives. It's normal to have troubles, but you're too worried, and you may not be sick in your heart, but the lack of illness that you think about all day long also makes you want to be sick. Sometimes if you change your mindset to your troubles, the results will be different.

You can plan for yourself what you should do each day and work on it. You can go to volunteer or go to the countryside to see those left-behind children, feel the lives of others, and look back at your troubles, which may be nothing. Adjust your mindset and give it a try, it might help you.

I have also encountered such a problem in this way, the pressure of studying, the pressure of life, and the friends around me feel a little detached from themselves, but then a person calms down, thinks a lot, and thinks, people, just like this, can be perceived all their lives, why do you have to live so tired, why can't you live for yourself? What kind of life do I want in the future, so how should I achieve it, in fact, I can see my life as a real movie, I can play what kind of person I want to play, how to do my best, since I am in the play, I have to play the role I play, if I am unhappy, I will watch a sad movie, and it will be good to cry, at least I know that I am still conscious!

I feel the same way, if you think of something interesting to do, you will find that the world is also beautiful.

There must be something in your heart that you can't solve, solve the problem first, and you won't be annoyed.

Find an object, everything is solved.

It's okay mentally, it's okay physically.

It's just a fire, drink some herbal tea.

Go to nature and rely on yourself.

Hello, it has been said: "Character is destiny." "That's true.

Personality is the psychological characteristics of a person's personality that are manifested in a person's stable attitude towards reality and habitual behavior. Honesty or hypocrisy, courage or cowardice, diligence or laziness, decisiveness or indecision, and so on are all considered character traits. Personality can be good or bad, and of course, it can be changed.

Personality is made up of many components or traits, and usually its structure can be divided into 4 aspects:

1 Attitude towards reality. These include attitudes towards society, the collective, and others, such as caring or not caring about society, being sincere or hypocritical to others, being sociable or withdrawn, etc.; Attitudes towards labor and work, such as diligence or laziness, carefulness or carelessness, etc.; Attitudes towards oneself, such as humility or pride, self-confidence or low self-esteem.

2 Volitional traits of character. It is manifested as regulation and control of one's own behavior, including self-awareness, such as clear purpose or blind impulsiveness; decisiveness, if decisive or indecisive; perseverance, such as perseverance or stagnation; Self-control, such as calmness or willfulness, etc.

3 Emotional traits of character. including emotional intensity, such as elevated emotions or tranquil apathy; Emotional stability, such as emotional stability or agitation; Emotional persistence, such as the same sad event, some people have a long duration of sadness, some are short; Dominant mood, some people are often happy and happy, and some people are often depressed and depressed.

4 The intellectual character of emotions. This is the difference in people's attitudes and ways of understanding things, including perception, some people are active and some people are passive; In terms of thinking, it is profound or superficial, independent or antagonistic; In terms of imagination, active or passive, narrow or expansive, creative or reinventive. Personality structure is a systematic organization with the characteristics of integrity, stability, plasticity, etc.

Personality is hard to change, but it is not impossible to change. Positive change can still happen with hard work. The change in personality is conditioned by the following factors:

First of all, there is the age constraint. The plasticity of the personality is inversely proportional to age. The older you get, the harder it is to change.

According to psychoanalysis, the upper age limit for personality change is probably 42-47 years old.

However, this is not absolute, and a very small number of people in their 70s can still make some personality adjustments. The second constraint on personality change is whether the initial personality has the potential to change.

There are three indicators to measure the potential for personality change:

1. Whether there is criticism and rejection of one's own character flaws—that is, whether it is "self-dissonant";

2. Whether you have enough spiritual energy to change your personality - that is, whether you have enough "Libiduo";

3. Tolerance for personality changes - that is, whether it has a certain intensity of self-functioning.