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First of all, the network is disconnected, and it is recommended to cut the network cable directly.
Playing on the computer at home is also slightly different from playing in an Internet café. At least the latter has to go out of the house, and the Internet bill.
Let his family pay less living expenses and starve to death.
If you're in a hurry, you'll naturally find a way.
To put it bluntly, this kind of person has no blood. Don't dare to steal or rob, covet comfort, and work hard. Only he can save himself and let him hone in society. He understands that the hardships of life and laziness make him poor, and poverty makes him experience the disparity of inferiority.
Many waste people and ordinary people just get by all day long because they haven't seen the real cruelty, and they don't want to make progress.
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It is better not to force a person to change and go with the flow, otherwise when he meets his face like an enemy, society will change his (food, clothing, housing, transportation) and change him.
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Take him out to play and relax. Look at the outside world more, get in touch with big and small new things, let him regain his enthusiasm for life, good weather and good mood, chat with him more, and gradually let him open his heart.
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Communicate more so that he can see who he is and come back to reality.
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Go see a psychiatrist, really.
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Introverts are born to not like to express themselves, always hide their emotions, and don't want to be concerned Introverts are right, but it's not good to be timid and afraid of things, you need to maintain a normal social circle to understand yourself more, it is recommended to do the MBTI psychological test, you will gain something.
If you don't know what an introvert is thinking, it's because you didn't ask him, if you don't know what an extrovert is thinking, it's because you didn't listen... Introverts have a lot of advantages, but don't take them? Introversion is an excuse, in fact, many people misunderstand the meaning of introversion, introversion is a natural attitude tendency. Here's a model for you to compare introverts and extroverts, and you can understand it yourself.
Introverts have the advantage of being introverts, more than half of them are introverts, many experts, senior consultants... All are introverts. Don't just look at the charisma of the extroverted activists on stage, I'll admit that the lecturers do look charismatic, but the depth and calmness of the introverts are also out of reach. Many introverts say that they are too introverted and want to change into extroverts, and even go to find a sales job to do, hoping to change their introverted personality... Introversion has nothing to do with communicative skills and is difficult to change.
If you don't have communicative skills, you can practice, observe, think, learn other people's communication skills, it is recommended to learn a little basic psychology knowledge, know your own personality, understand other people's personalities, and you will become very powerful... Recommended book: Please understand me (upgraded version) translated by Wang Tiantian.
In our society, we always seem to favor extroverts, so many introverts always want to be more extroverted, and secretly hate why they can't deal with extroverts in public like extroverts. However, extroverts have the advantages of being an extrovert, and introverts have the advantages of being an introvert. An introvert does not mean that he is not expressive or shy, while an extrovert does not mean that he is expressive or talkative.
Introverts focus their attention on the inner world, while extroverts focus their energy on the outer world. Introverts think twice before acting, extroverts do it later. But that doesn't mean extroverts are more capable of acting than introverts.
If extroverts are good sprinters, introverts are good long-distance runners, and each has its own merits.
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Children used to run all over the streets, but now it's empty! The Internet pits people!
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What I said upstairs, although it is short but not unreasonable, in fact, this is the questioner is too sensitive, introverts are also people, extroverts are also people, they can be treated in the same way, don't think too much, you go to cater to others every day, that's not exhausting, there are not only introverts and extroverts in the world, you just need to treat everything with your own attitude, see the response is making small changes, you will definitely get twice the result with half the effort.
Introverts don't like to talk, I feel like they're the kind of shy people who are shy when talking to strangers, they should be the so-called inner people, hehe.
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