Hope that people with rich life experience will come to me with questions!

I think first of all, you have to understand each other and be considerate of each other's feelings. Everything is not absolute, and you can discuss this with his family. If his family is well-off, it is not impossible to let his family contribute money or part of the money, presumably his family will not be unwilling, and there is no so-called unfilial piety.

If his family background is not good, it is best not to be reluctant, and find a way to solve his own personal affairs, it should be possible to find a suitable solution. I suggest that both of you and your families don't get into the horns and let everything give way to your love!

According to what you said, you and their families are not suitable to live together and need to move out. You can only rent a house to live in - have you communicated this with your boyfriend?

I wonder if you have to buy a house? I don't know how strong your boyfriend is, is he particularly good at making money? If you can, consider a compromise.

I think that the marriage of the first child in the family is more pompous and pompous, and the newlyweds may not pay much attention to how they live, which is difficult to do.

1 If your boyfriend must insist on not buying a house, then rent and pick the best house! Since you can't buy it, do you have to rent it? How many years can you have a good youth, and you don't care about having it, you only care about having it today, right?

2 Since the house is not bought, the wedding must not be too shabby, otherwise it will be too shameless, so communicate with him.

3 Ask his parents for financial support money and make a down payment for buying a house in the future (called start-up** or something). If you get married and go out, you can't ask for the money back.

4 Support your boyfriend to make money.

Haha, it's pretty dark. See you as you go.

You can talk to him about this matter, and his thoughts are not wrong. Parents have had a hard time. It's also good to rely on your own efforts to achieve your dreams. What two people get with all their hard work is also very emotional.

Your boyfriend has exactly the same idea as me, and he is also a real man, at least, I have this kind of thought and belief, with the support of my girlfriend for five years, we are going to get married in a few days, and I have also gone from a waiter when I first met her to the general manager of a company, a man's success is inseparable from the support of a woman, you have to understand that he supports him.

Trick you into your hands first, and then have sex with you, and after you get your body, you just don't want to, you can't do it, stupid, girls are worthless if they have been by others, you know? People have already set you up as fools, believe it or not.

Buying a house is a matter for two people, and it should be treated equally, I think ha, otherwise it would be unfair.

Look at what's the problem.

I floated away silently.

Hello I think that in fact, judging a person's character can start from some details

The details can be found when you communicate or get along with her

I think there are a lot of ways to start

First, you can tell from her usual speech whether there is foul language, if a woman often has foul language, it is indeed not a good omen

Second, you can see what kind of person she is from the friends around her. Near Zhu is red

Third, you can tentatively know whether she is a filial person, and I don't think it's necessary to have a relationship with someone who is not filial

Fourth, you can also learn about her usual habits of smoking, drinking, gambling and preferably otherwise.

Fifth, her work and work attitude, as well as her education level, can be used to judge her overall quality

Sixth, whether your outlook on life, values, and love are the same, if there is a big difference, the friction will be more obvious when getting along

In fact, there are many details that can be observed, but it takes time.

But I don't think anyone is perfect, and some small faults and small shortcomings are inevitable

You need to judge whether you are suitable based on your own actual situation

I'm a guy with a girlfriend myself

I hope my own experience has helped you a little

Finally, I wish you happiness

Look at the details. In fact, just look at a person looking at her friends.

As the saying goes, good things gather by like, and people by groups.

You look at how she thinks about a problem.

Whether there is love or not is important to a woman.

It's also important to be able to concentrate on what you do.

In short, it depends on the performance and expression at the time.

In general, it's up to you to take care of it.

Different words have different meanings in different contexts.

Talk to her about friends, what her friends are like, she is the person in that circle.

It also depends on her attitude and way of looking at problems and dealing with things, whether you like it.

In addition, why do you talk so much, can you just get along with it? It feels right, if her character is not what you like, you will feel uncomfortable everywhere.

Trust your feelings.

Ask her about family relationships. Of course, you can't ask directly, if her home is in a different place, ask her if she comes home often, or how often she contacts her family. Usually a filial girl's character is never so bad.

I asked her how she usually lives, how she works, how she spends her leisure time, what she likes to play, and how she plays with her friends. Do you like to go to KTV and sing? Love to travel?

Do you like to go into the kitchen? What gifts do you give to Mom and Dad on their birthdays, etc., start from the details of life, there is a lot of content to talk about, and you can detect a person.

I feel the most important, why should I test my character? You have a super good character, and it's useless if you don't feel for her. Even if you want to get to know her, I think it's time to see people's hearts. If a girl wants to make a good impression, she will hide herself.

Personal hobbies and habits are a good clue.

What do you like.

What major to study.

Name. The class in which you are in. Hometown.

For the first time, I can't see anything, my girlfriend looks at the details, and after staying for a long time, I know whether it is suitable or not.

You still have to be confident.

What does it feel like to write a love letter?

Maybe you can be friends, not necessarily strangers.

It's like the kind of friend who can gossip a few words when you meet.

This is a naïve question and cannot be mentioned.

It's too embarrassing to see you, so go quickly for fear you'll talk to him.

He probably didn't really like you, and if he did, he wouldn't be like that. He just wants someone to chase after him, and he loves himself without a head.

This kind of person is not worthy of love, so he will pretend, you have to see him clearly, don't fall into it. You are right to stay away from him, and I only support you to leave him.

He's not busy, but he doesn't want to develop further with you, he just treats you as a friend. Because people are very lonely now, they don't want to lose another friend, they want to open a little, sometimes it's easier to be friends than to be a couple, you don't have to worry about losing each other between friends, and you don't have to worry about what will happen in the future. So be friends.

Maybe he thinks that you won't be together, but just treat you as a friend, all of this is normal from a friend's point of view, of course he will pay attention to you when you talk to him, and if you take the initiative to find him, he will be happy and not reply to text messages. It's also normal between friends, you're not a couple, but you look at his behavior with the eyes of a couple.

But what are you asking?

I can't see clearly, can I shoot it clearly?