Is this friendship important? Abandon? Or is it redemption?

Human beings are selfish in nature. By its feelings, this plaything. You don't look at you now as a student.

It is necessary to focus on academics. The three years of junior high school were a turning point in my life. Take advantage of it.

Don't get carried away by external factors. As for the friendship you are talking about. I don't think it's necessary.

Her approach speaks for itself. When you have experienced more things, you will understand what the world is cold.

Friendship should be pure and immaculate, you give up a lot for a friend, and she is not grateful at all, this is not called friendship at all. It's not easy to meet lifelong friends, but it also depends on whether this person is the person you need who can really give you something. If not, then be brave enough to give up, because she is not worth your sacrifice for her.

Pursue your true love, a kind girl like you will definitely meet a lot of friends who are willing to pay for you! ~

There are too many things like this, you don't have to have too much heart, just be yourself, you don't have to take the initiative to talk to her, you don't have to hide from her, you can do whatever you want, because she has now been carried away by a bad heart, so you don't have to care too much, no matter what feelings are reluctant, friendship is even more so, because it is the most sincere sometimes!!

You are normal.

So don't pretend to be Jesus.

If you like it, you will love, you will miss a lot in this life, but at least you can grasp it, friendship, do you really think that the friendship in junior high school will last forever?

Look out and see far.

Speaking of you, you're still too young to have enough life experience.

Little girls like to watch Korean dramas, although they are full of soap, but they do increase their emotional intelligence, yes.

Or look for some romance animations, Nana is good and can learn a lot.

I don't think there's anything wrong with either of you.

It's not up to you to choose who you like.

In fact, the best solution is to ask Yu who he likes.

Because you both like him a lot.

Then let Yu make the decision.

I believe that if Yu chooses you, Xiaoyuan will bless you.

In the same way, if Yu chooses Xiaoyuan, you will also bless them, and hope that you and Xiaoyuan can be like before!

Just a little bit.

I think if Xiaoyuan really treats you as a good friend.

Then she probably won't tell you to give Yu to her.

Because it's going to make you very embarrassed and you're going to be sad.

I guess she knows that.

But the final decision is yours to make.

I don't think there's anything wrong with doing what you want to do, as long as you feel right, why bother what others say! We're all living for ourselves, aren't we? Do what you want to do ...

You should fight for it yourself, if you feel happy ... Feelings are inherently complicated...

She doesn't have self-confidence herself, so she always thinks that the person you like is better.

Do you choose this girlfriend or boyfriend or decide for yourself. But in any case, it's time to start developing a new girlfriend.

This kind of girl is too selfish and only thinks about herself, and feels a little bit of a nature that takes advantage of you.

And what about yourself?

is willing to continue to bear this grievance.

Or be tough, cut off your friendship with her, and no longer let your troubles haunt you.

Huh Admire your stubbornness I actually asked so many times Be happy, let go You are only in your first year of junior high school, and you will meet all kinds of people in the future, and you will make better friends Believe, fate

I met this girl. Whoever likes it is unlucky.

I'll top you. Give up the friendship. This kind of person is not suitable to be friends with her!

Children, think a lot, study hard.

Alas, parents know how sad it is.

Oh my God, how many did you post?? 、

It's actually a common thing for best friends to have new best friends, but when you say that she has abandoned you, do you think she doesn't see you as a good friend anymore, or does she really ignore you anymore? These two situations are different, if abandoning you is just your own subjective assumption, then your friendship has not reached the point of no return, you have to go through the threshold in your own heart and continue to get back together. If she is really very indifferent to you and says that she will break up with you, then you don't need to redeem it.

First of all, if your best friend ignores you because he has a new friend and is very indifferent to you, then there is no need for you to redeem it. Friends are not in conflict with each other, she will abandon you when she has new friends, it can be seen that you are dispensable to her, and even make friends with you just for the sake of making friends, not based on appreciation and love for you. We don't need to redeem such a friend, because she didn't treat you sincerely from the beginning, and if she really treats you as a friend, she won't dislike you and abandon you because she has a new friend.

Second, if your best friend has a new best friend and you are disgusted, and then you make a fuss and think she has abandoned you, then you should calm your mind. We can't completely possess a person, everyone is independent, in love, in friendship. Best friends will also meet good friends who can talk to, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't treat you as a good friend, so in the face of such a situation, you should adjust your mentality and allow your best friend to have other good friends, so that is the right way to get along with friends.

If there is some unpleasantness because of your awkwardness, then you should take the initiative to apologize to your good friend and say what you think.

All in all, a true good friend is worth cherishing, and the temporary contradiction is not terrible, and it would be good if it was resolved. And we don't need to care too much about those false friends, since they have never been interested in you and can easily abandon friendship, then it is not worth your recovery.

You should redeem this friendship, because the friendship between the two of you is very rare, and it is not easy to last for so many years, and you can't dissolve this relationship at will.

I think you can try to redeem it, but if the other party doesn't cherish the relationship, I think you can choose to let go, after all, this kind of unequal friendship is unfair to you, and you won't be happy.

Don't get it back. If he abandons you for another friend, then even if you get back, he will still leave you again because of someone else. Such a person is not a true friend, and a true friend is one who will not leave you no matter what you do.

Personally, I think that if this happens, then you don't need to save the friendship, because your best friend may not see you as a true confidant.

I think you should redeem this friendship because a good friend is very important to you, and you can't just give up because he gave up on you.

You shouldn't redeem this friendship, because he doesn't treat you as a best friend at all, and you will only make the other person feel very humble.

In fact, you can try to redeem it, and if you can't redeem it, forget it.

We should give up the friendship of friends who are not familiar with each other, who say sad things to you, who are impatient with you, who evade responsibility, and who complain for no reason.

1. Neither of them is particularly familiar with each other

There is a kind of friendship that has been with us for a long time, and they don't have a particularly good relationship, and if we have some friction, they will complain to each other. If we don't have anything to do, if we don't know anything specially, if we have been with them for a long time, we haven't been able to see them as best friends, and we can't really be friends. The relationship between the two of them will become weaker and weaker, and if we can't become true friends, we will have to leave in time.

2. Say something sad to you

We all know that the friendship between people will become deeper and deeper with the passage of time, so when we say something to make us sad, we should withdraw from our friendship in time, because sometimes we can easily become very sad when we say something that makes us sad.

3. I'm very impatient with you

When he always gives people a feeling of impatience when dealing with someone, you should take the initiative to leave. Because this kind of behavior of his will make a person feel that his attitude is not good, and it is also a manifestation of disrespect for him.

4. Evade responsibility

When he does something wrong, he will always find all kinds of excuses to avoid what he has done wrong. He always thinks that that person may be you, so he will find all kinds of excuses to avoid responsibility, so that others will quickly lose trust in him, and it is easy to cause two people to lose affection, and your friendship will become very fragile.

5. Complain about others

There will always be some people around us who always complain about others for no reason, and there is no result, because they always complain about others, so at this time we should get rid of them as soon as possible.