What do your friends in your circle of friends often post?

A friend, both of them know each other, what does a woman say all day long that she can't be without a conscience, what is worthy of the person who pulls you in difficult times, what kind of emotional person is worth befriending, etc., etc., the point is that we owe us 50,000 yuan for three or four years, and every time I want to say that I have no money, I am speechless.

There are two people who used to post often, both of whom I hated more, and both of them are humble and hypocritical in real life, and they are one set of people in front of them and one behind them.

Most of them sell shoes, clothes, and by the way, some of them show their brand-name bags and shoes.

That kind of chicken soup text, just look at it and get goosebumps....There are more people who post this kind of chicken soup in the circle of friends, either at the level of aunts and uncles, or single leftover women and men who are not very happy and lonely and boring.

It can be roughly divided into four categories!

Advertise clothes, shoes, and cosmetics for yourself;

put all kinds of pretentious literary and artistic emotional texts;

Share all kinds of weird, gimmicky news headlines.

My dad friend is dozens of years old, complaining about the ** country like a young man all day long, looking annoying, complaining about other countries when he goes abroad, complaining about his own country at home, cynical, he is dozens of years old, and he still doesn't know what is called happiness in the country!

There is a life of exposure, **ah, mood and the like, many have complaints, negative emotions and positive emotions account for half each.

Now there are many people who still love to post a circle of friends, because in the circle of friends you can share your own life status, I think it is meaningful, sharing it to the circle of friends, it can also bring some happiness to others, especially for relatives and friends who care about themselves, it is also a good way to increase mutual understanding.

First of all, posting on Moments is also a way to communicate with the outside world. I'm a person who likes to post on social media, because I don't usually like to socialize, and I don't have a lot of contact with friends, but I like to share. For example, when I travel during the May Day holiday, I will share some information about tourist attractions with you, so that everyone can understand my whereabouts and share my happiness.

Secondly, some people are using the circle of friends to advertise, which is only a minority, and it will not weaken everyone's enthusiasm for the circle of friends. Because some people are micro-businesses, they sell their products through the circle of friends. For those who advertise in the Moments, you can set not to look at his Moments, so that they will not be affected by this information.

Third, posting moments is also to record the bits and pieces of life. Because now everyone has a mobile phone, you can make full use of the shooting and video function of the mobile phone, record the meaningful daily life of your life, and then send it out in the circle of friends.

As far as my colleagues and friends are concerned, everyone is still very keen to post on Moments, and every time we see a good share, we will comment and like, which also enhances the emotional exchange between each other and shortens the distance between friends, so I think the form of Moments is still very worth keeping.

Yes, I rarely post on Moments. I know why I don't post on Moments, mainly because I am afraid that the attack will disturb the lives of my friends. Another is that life is too busy, and I don't have time to appreciate the current life, and I don't have time to post on Moments.

Sometimes, we don't know what we're up to, as if it's all about life, for the simplest of things. Sometimes, inadvertently, we will exude some fragrance like a flower, infecting others, which we cannot predict and do not need to deliberately pursue. That fragrance may remain in someone else's heart forever or nothing, so we don't have to be happy or sad about something.

Casual is the best, this is the true color of life. The pressure is not that someone is more energetic than you, but that someone who is several times stronger than you is still working harder than you!

A simple life makes people feel refreshed, and simple desires make people peaceful and serene. Because of simplicity, we can deeply appreciate the lightness of life, as light as flying flowers, as light as the sunset, and as light as rain; Because of simplicity, we can understand the tranquility of the soul, as quiet as the night sky, as quiet as a valley, and as quiet as a stream. The simplicity of all things contains the true meaning of indifference and tranquility.

Life is so simple, family affection, love, and friendship are intertwined to form a picture of happiness.

Be aware that every day is important, live every day as if it were an important day, and create a virtuous circle of interpersonal communication.

Give yourself a little space every day to make this time simple, free, and pure, and recharge yourself regularly to recharge and rejuvenate.

Clean up your belongings often, keep your space tidy and don't get disturbed by cluttered spaces.

Every Changkuan's personal life experience is different, and the so-called sharing of your daily life in the circle of friends is not necessarily what the insiders like, and there is no need to compromise yourself for the joy of others.

First, if you don't like some of the behaviors of others in the circle of friends, but you keep posting and pushing yourself to others, it is really a very unpleasant thing.

Never assume that your intentional sharing will bring someone a good mood.

Sometimes it is difficult to communicate our joys and sorrows, maybe you think that others will praise and rejoice, but in fact this is not the case, or others just think you are too noisy.

Second, not all friends in the circle of friends are real friends.

However, not everyone appreciates her kindness, and often people say that she knows a lot, and more that she is too good at pretending, and always disguises herself as if she knows everything.

In the past, her friend was young and vigorous, and she often fought with others until her face was red, but slowly she realized that you could never empathize with more people, and everyone was not frequent and lacked empathy, so slowly she stopped posting on Moments.

Because people who really understand can sit together at any time, and those who don't understand will only look at you with different eyes. And why bother yourself?

Third, people who are really capable are thinking silently and are not willing to be the focus of attention of others.

There are many friends around me who have long been away from the circle of friends and have begun to think seriously about their lives, they have made long-term plans for themselves, and they have begun to implement them step by step.

They understand that growth is their own thing, and the greatest joy of being alone is to be able to reflect well, find their own strengths and weaknesses, and obtain more space for their own development.

People who are really capable do not need to show their strength and life in the circle of friends, they understand the meaning of life better, compared to exposing their every move to the circle of friends, they choose to live more hard.

Because they don't need to be grandstanding, nor do they need the praise and pursuit of others, but they straighten out their lives in silence and live the life they want.

Fourth, the record of the circle of friends is a display of a person's state and personality.

I remember hearing a friend say that in the recruitment of a certain company, the other party needs to look at the content of the Moments posted by the hired person in the past year, so as to determine the results of the recruitment.

Many people quickly record the moments of life in the circle of friends, thus reflecting whether a person is positive about life or passive and lazy.

Personality has an inevitable impact on life, so it is not difficult to understand why the content of the circle of friends is used as the subject of the survey.

Although the circle of friends is a very private place, it shows the public after all, and even often adds some people who are not familiar and understood for work and social needs, which easily exposes their real lives.

So my friend said that after hearing about the recruitment, he didn't like to post on Moments very much. After all, with the growth and gradual expansion of the social circle, it is too easy for the circle of friends to expose their shortcomings and provoke right and wrong.

There are also people around me who never post on Moments, and they are very low-key individuals. These friends usually prefer to keep their privacy and are reluctant to make their lives public. They have their own reasons and characteristics, which made me think a little about their choice.

First of all, I found that these people who don't post on Moments pay more attention to real interpersonal interactions. They are more inclined to communicate face-to-face and develop deep emotional bonds with friends and loved ones. They spend more time communicating with the people around them and sharing each other's moods and experiences, rather than maintaining relationships through superficial interactions through social **.

This makes them more authentic and honest in their relationships.

Second, these people may be more concerned about personal privacy and security. In today's digital age, the widespread use of social networking also comes with some privacy and security risks. People who don't post on Moments may be more cautious and don't want their personal information and details of their lives exposed to the public.

They prefer to maintain a certain sense of distance and protect their privacy.

In addition to this judgment, people who do not post on Moments may be more focused on personal growth and inner world peace. They may prefer to think alone, read books, and pursue the enjoyment of art and culture. They put more time and energy into self-improvement and development, rather than being involved in the hustle and bustle of social **.

Finally, these people may also hold different values about the culture of social vanity and show-off. They don't want to be swayed by the superficial glamour on social **, and pay more attention to the inner quality and the true meaning of life. They may feel that it is not necessary to record every moment of their life and show it to others, but they prefer to quietly cherish those important moments in their hearts.

In short, the people around me who never post on Moments are low-key and unique individuals. They are more focused on authentic interpersonal interactions, more than personal privacy and security, focused on personal growth and the inner world, and have an independent view of the values of socialization. Even though they have less interaction with social **, their choices also give me inspiration.

Yes, share it occasionally, while you are happy, let your friends see your happiness.

I'm a person who doesn't like to post on Moments, if there are those things in life that interest me and are particularly meaningful, I will post Moments to share my happiness with everyone, if there are no things that interest me, I will never post Moments.

I have sent the most circle of friends in a year are related to my grandson, this child has been born for more than a year, all say that the next generation is pro, this is true, see him grow up little by little, see her learn a lot of things, I can't help but send a circle of friends, put some interesting bits and pieces of his life in the circle of friends, one is to play a role in reservations, but also a happy sharing.

And I rarely post on Moments recently, because I haven't seen my child for several months, because we live in different provinces and different cities, and because of well-known reasons, we don't have time and can't go to his city, so naturally there is a lot less information about children.

And other things can't arouse my special interest, so I simply don't post on Moments. When I saw my grandson, a happy thing, I will continue to post on Moments and share it with you.

Yes, I don't post very much on Moments now. I think that sometimes the content shared in the circle of friends will also attract others to not understand or malicious speculation, obviously just want to simply share today's food, but others say that it is to show off, and have never seen the world. In this way, initially a happy circle of friends, but attracts a lot of negative emotions and makes a person tired.

So, after many times of anticipation and disappointment, people let go of the desire to share. If there is no kind response, it is better to be self-appreciative.

Sending moments is a social act of interacting with friends, because moments attract a lot of praise and comments from a lot of people, which increases the stickiness between people. But the question is, are these interactions in the circle of friends really necessary or meaningful? Do the people who like and comment on you really have a good relationship with you?

Not necessarily most of the time, everyone is joking around with each other.

In life, many people will often pay attention to other people's likes and replies after sending a circle of friends. If they don't respond after sending a feed, they'll be disappointed.

I happily shared my happy feelings, but what awaited me was disappointment and incomprehension. So don't share it in the circle of friends at all, who knows I'm a close person, who I'll send to, don't waste time on people who don't understand me. The thinking, level, and level of thinking are different among people.

If they don't communicate at the same level, they're tired.