What is the reason that convinces you to persevere?

Because if you want to enter the high-quality circle, you must have the best to match, don't be a courtesan, you have to be a powerful faction, and you can have that day if you persist. ‍‍

Filial piety without the support of the economic foundation is powerless, you have to be a warm-hearted little padded jacket, you must be independent to support the elderly, I am reluctant to see the disappointed eyes in the eyes of my parents, so I can only keep going. ‍‍

My ambition always feels that I can't come to the world in vain, I have nothing, I just die, I am really unwilling, I must be the best version of myself.

Say to yourself, still alive, it's okay, nothing is more important than being alive, since I'm alive, let's keep going, what is more terrible than dying?

My husband has been silently supporting me, I can't let him down, I can.

My parents, sometimes I really want to give up, but when I think of my parents who raised me, I haven't honored them properly, and I can't just admit defeat. I have to work hard for them so that I can take better care of them.

My parents are in their 50s and are still working outside the home, so if I don't fight, when will they take a break?

Because you are poor, you have no money, and if you don't persevere, you will starve to death, so why don't you persevere?

My little daughter, she is very cute, when I think of her, I will be able to overcome any difficulties, and I can persevere in anything.

I have worked hard and persevered, so that one day when I stand beside the person I love, whether he is rich or nothing, I can open my hands and embrace him calmly, he is rich I don't have to feel that I am high, he is poor and we will not be down. ‍‍

For a long-term career, for a pair of hard-working parents, for a pure relationship, and for a better self, we must always persevere. ‍

Look at the person next to me, I immediately feel motivated, it's a person I have to give everything for. ‍‍

The most helpless thing for me is that I can't balance my family and career, I have a pair of children, and I can only do my duty at work so that I can support my family.

Everyone has a time when they have more than enough heart but not enough power, after all, life is beyond our control, and in the face of the fact that we can't change it, even if we try our best, we can only accept it. I am a sensitive and suspicious girl, and once I encounter something in my life that I can't help with, I will become pessimistic and misanthropic.

First, for a married woman, it is always difficult to balance family and career.

Since I got married, I have been more family-oriented, but my husband's income is not high, so in order to support the family, I can only miss the growth of my children and leave them in the care of my in-laws. Because of the distance between work and home, I can only go home once a month, and every time I think about my children, I feel sad.

Second, I am wholeheartedly devoted to my mother-in-law, and she always picks bones in eggs, which makes me feel helpless.

My mother-in-law has a rather snarky personality, and she has been living with us since I got married, always interfering in my private life with my husband. Especially when it comes to educating children, my mother-in-law's thinking is traditional and backward, and my outlook on education is diametrically opposed to mine, and we often quarrel. I would give my mother-in-law 1,000 yuan of pocket money every month, but she didn't appreciate it, thinking that it was as it should be, and her greedy and selfish appearance made me very helpless.

Thirdly, I used to have dreams, but the cruel life gradually smoothed my edges and corners, and now I can only accept the status quo.

I used to hate those vulgar people the most, thinking that they were the scum of life, like the walking dead without dreams. Now that I have become like this, I have come to understand that life often backfires, everyone is trying their best to live, and no one should laugh at anyone.

Life is always full of all kinds of helplessness, and we still have to have hope, like sunflowers, born to the sun, only in this way can we meet the storms in life and have a happy future.

When my child reaches the age of elementary school and I see the high housing prices in the school district, I feel that I am not enough.

His family was bullied by his elders, but he couldn't contradict and question the elders' practices.

Maybe in the years after graduation, when I interviewed for dozens of jobs every day, and in the end there was no result. At that time, I began to gradually realize how difficult it is for people to survive and gain a foothold in society, and the speed at which we grow up can never keep up with the speed at which our parents are aging.

When you have something you want to buy, and you are shy in your pocket, you will feel very powerless in this situation.

Mo Zheng: I think life is everywhere, and the pressure of the clan hole. We do have a difficult life, we have to endure all kinds of external pressures, but also have to face our own inner confusion, in the struggle, if someone casts an understanding gaze at you, you will feel a kind of warmth of life, maybe only a brief glimpse, enough to make us excited. As Zhou Libo said, "Life is like a pressure cooker, when the pressure is too great, you will be cooked."

Learn to decompress yourself. Learn to relax yourself, and when appropriate, find someone you can trust to talk to; If you want to rest, you can rest; If you want to be entertained, you can be entertained, and when you really don't want to do something, you can put it down for a while; Excellence can be pursued, but perfection is not required.

The pressure doesn't seem obvious to me. Xu is stable at work, happy at home, obedient to children, and has his own preferences, so he is very happy and happy in his busy life all day long. So it's not like some people have a sense of heaviness and oppression when they look at it, which makes you feel that he is very tired of living.

Although the origin of stress is multifaceted, it is nothing more than oneself and others. Self-pressure is that self-requirements are too high, and one's own ability cannot match the rules. Therefore, it is inconspicuous in the unit, it can only be the treatment of a small soldier, I want to be promoted, I want to let myself have more opportunities for development, Chi Shan put forward a lot of miraculous requirements for himself, and he is naturally unbearable and stressful.

And spending uncontrollably, not planning, remembering that one is one out, making me nervous every month, and not knowing how to manage financial investment. I also put a lot of pressure on the material side. External pressure is often caused by strong vanity and psychology.

Seeing that others are doing well, I am not convinced, and I always feel that I am no worse than others. Therefore, mentally I also put pressure on myself, so I want to change the status quo, want to get ahead, and live an upper-class life. Sometimes, I have to pretend, hide, hide, and let myself sometimes become a pretender, so I feel tired and stressed.

When he was young, because he grew up in the countryside and lived a very hard life, he was determined to jump out of the farm, and the only way was to study hard, from a remote rural primary school, he was admitted to the provincial key middle school, and then finally admitted to the normal school through three years of hard work. At that time, the teacher was assigned in a package, so there should be no pressure. However, I studied kindergarten teachers, although I like to sing and dance, but I lack artistic talent, compared with my classmates, it is relatively inferior, so there is a certain pressure on the study of teachers.

After graduating from the teacher training for four years, I don't seem to have any pressure. Later, because of the transfer of family relations, from the county kindergarten to a suburban primary school with a nursery class, the beginning was fine, to the senior title evaluation, because the school is limited, the leader said, people with primary school teaching tasks, to evaluate the score is not the turn, you are still early! In order to fight for this tone, the school just started to open English classes that year, and no one took them, so I felt that my English was good and that it was a piece of cake to take good English classes, so I volunteered to take on this important responsibility.

But since then, I have been talking about diplomas since the second year, and I have graduated from secondary school, and I can't keep up with the situation, everyone is engaged in diplomas, and the most important thing is a junior college. Although I pride myself on my good foundation, no matter how good I am, I am still a junior high school level, and I still have three years of high school in the middle of the college diploma! There was no way, and it took five years of hard work to get a college diploma, and my eyes became myopia.

Now, when I am about to retire, I am no longer at work, but my children have not yet started a family, and I am still more or less stressed!

Maybe it's because you talk about the girlfriend you love deeply and you are in the same university, but unfortunately there is not much time left for each other, facing graduation, facing the test of time and region, and these problems may cause the mouth to break up, and I can't do anything, I can only love her again in the little time left.

Many, many times like this, I'm as fragile as a glass full of water in the refrigerator, which will collapse if I don't pay attention. Now that I'm about to graduate from college, I'm just getting started in my life. Looking back now, I feel that it was just that I was too naïve and regretful, but the feelings of unspoken troubles were real.

Now my biggest stress comes from graduation, work, and parents, but I know that it will pass, and I will be able to eliminate the pressure like countless pressures I have experienced before. A word for everyone, when you feel pressured, don't be too sad to take it, that's when you are growing.

When I was a child, it was always very simple to think about things, but I was always hesitant to do things and think about things later, until now, ......Finally, we can't go to our mothers whenever something happens, like children, because we know that there are some things that even parents can't do! Just like children who are easy to be satisfied with a piece of candy, we are pursuing far more than just a piece of sugar! ‍‍

It took me three years of high school to read it"everything is possible "Later, when I came to university, I thought that my life had changed, and I thought that as long as I was admitted to university, everything would be fine, and I would not have to do exercises day and night! Now it seems like I'm really just overthinking! College is just a crossroads in life, and that's all Dan Qin is.

God code

It is still 7 days away from the art exam, and I get up early and go to bed late every day, just for my dreams, the bottleneck period is long ago and I can't carry it for a long time, and I won't insist on it. I never knew what the result was, just to keep no regrets for myself.

When we meet someone we don't want to meet, we still lack excitement to smile and say hello; When a few bushes meet something they don't want to meet, I still have to get through the cherry blossoms; Even if you can't win the luxury, you will usher in a picturesque atmosphere!