What do you think of men who are willing to skip work and stay at home with children?

It's good, there is always someone who has to sacrifice something for the family, either a wife or a husband. Male compatriots have strong hands-on ability, are proficient in water, electricity and heating, and basically undertake maintenance work.

Maybe it shouldn't be regarded as the male protagonist and the female protagonist, but the main outside and the main inside the master. For example, the wife's income is higher than that of the husband in the couple, and even the wife becomes the main ** of the family income, and the husband is at home with the children and housework, which is also good.

This kind of man is relatively weak in character and lacks some men's responsibilities. There was a survey in the United States that showed that the more virtuous and independent a woman is, the weaker her man will be. Most men will choose to work hard, and most of the men who work as cooks at home are too easily satisfied, and even have a strong sense of happiness.

I'm a girl, and when I look for a husband, I will subconsciously use my father as a reference. My father's family is in the Lord, and the family is harmonious, and I think this kind of husband is very good.

Personally, I think that most of the people who hold this statement have not done housework frequently or taken care of children, overestimating their patience and ability, and in a word, they are evading responsibility.

If the husband and wife have already discussed it, it doesn't matter what outsiders think. Live your own life and let others say it.

I have always felt that the children brought out by men will be more unique and independent. I would also like to take the children in the future.

Even though it is common for women to work, it is still not a common situation for men to stay at home with children. Because men are competitive by nature, and women's motherhood is still more willing and suitable for them to stay at home with children. Because women are more capable, let the man take care of the children at home, if it is not for the fact that the man does not have the nature of being a man, and the woman is also open-minded and not imprisoned by the concept of "men are responsible for supporting the family", and both parties live in an environment where the people around them do not influence them, it is possible to live a happy life.

This is okay at least to bring, not only does the baby not only not bring but also the people raised at home.

I'm planning to quit my job and take two babies at home! Who told us to be fit for such a job? The baby brought by a man is really no worse than a woman, and most people understand, is there a dad who communicates with me!

I think some men don't like to have children, maybe it's just machismo. In their minds, women are supposed to be at home taking care of the children, doing laundry and cooking. The fact that men take care of their children makes them feel very shameless, and they also find it more annoying to take care of children.

Because many men think that taking care of children is a mother's business. And they are generally impatient. Taking care of children is actually a more tedious thing, so they generally don't like to bring it.

Most boys don't do housework since they were young, and their minds are not as delicate as girls, and most men make money to support their families, and they are already very tired, and women also feel sorry for men and don't let them take care of their children, causing many men to not like to take care of children.

Because the boy's personality will be more aggressive. It takes a lot of patience to take care of children, and it takes careful observation and attention to some of the daily arrangements of the little ones, so they would rather go to work than take care of children.

The reason why I don't like to take care of children is, firstly, the child's mood swings are large, and the expression is not very smooth, I don't know what he needs, and secondly, the child cries easily, and the crying is endless, and many gay men lack patience and naturally cannot take care of the child smoothly.

It is because men are impatient and not careful enough, it is not easy to take care of children, and always pay attention to the children's every move, especially young children.

Because of the nature of men, and the pressure of work is relatively high, so when I go home, I want to rest and don't want to take a baby.

Summary. If you really want the other party to give up his job, then you have to have a stable enough family economic income, a family's monthly economic expenditure may be 3000 yuan to 5000 yuan, then your own economic income must reach at least 6000 yuan and above, otherwise your own economic ability can not support the family, what do you use to convince your other half to give up his job, after the problem of economic ability is solved, it is a problem of communication mentality with the other party, because a woman does not want to give up work, that is, he does not want to leave the circle he is in, because he knows that it will be difficult to integrate into the circle again after two or three years as a housewife.

If you really want the other party to give up his job, then you have to have a stable enough family economic income, a family's monthly economic support pants may be 3000 to 5000 yuan, then your own economic income must reach at least 6000 yuan and above, otherwise your own economic ability can not support the family, what do you use to convince your other half to give up his job, after the problem of economic ability is solved, it is a problem of communication mentality with the other party, Because a woman doesn't want to give up her job, that is, she doesn't want to leave the circle she is in, because he knows that it will be difficult to reintegrate into the circle after two or three years as a housewife.

There is also a compromise method, on the bridge is to let the other party appropriately reduce the working time, take more care of the family and children, this is negotiable, and most women can appropriately back down, because after all, the child is biological, and every loss of the mother is willing to take care of the child, but also like the child, his unwillingness to give up the job does not prove that he does not love the child, so it is the most feasible to use this compromise method with him, and it is also the least difficult to tax. For example, he used to work 9 hours a day, but now you can talk to him about whether he can work an hour less and get home early.

Because in this way, my wife can not be tired.

One party is already married, and the other party is single and unmarried.

But no matter who you are, work is always a very important part of life, because this is the foundation of life.

1.How to balance family and career.

For the plot in the TV series, in fact, one of the most obvious problems with the search brigade is about the estrangement between Sun Heping and his daughter.

In his own opinion, his efforts are actually to be able to give his children a better material foundation.

However, when he gave all his time, and even on the premise that he barely accompanied the children to grow up, in fact, he did not get what he wanted, and even let his daughter look so rusty when standing in front of him.

That's why he regretted it: he had done his best, but the result was always unsatisfactory and he didn't reach his goal.

Of course, for us, perhaps, we can't experience Sun Heping's feelings, because we are just facing a job.

This job can provide a minimum daily consumption for a family and can meet the daily needs of the family.

However, it is true that this job also consumes a lot of time with our family and occupies a very important part of our lives.

Therefore, how to balance and coordinate the balance between family daily life and workplace work has become a problem that many people also need to face.

2.At home and abroad, it's all giving.

Excluding some single men and women who are not yet married, couples who have entered the marriage hall are faced with nothing more than two problems:

First, there is the sharing of family problems. Second, it is the balance and care of various material needs of the family.

Especially for those dual-income families, the daily contradiction is nothing more than the disproportionality between the pay and the gain.

In the eyes of many husbands, they have been fighting for this family all day, and when they return home, they should get enough rest.

In the same way, the wife also worked a day. She was reluctant to go home and face all the chores, so an argument ensued.

But in fact, the question is never who does how much, but how the other party perceives the other party's contribution.

When anyone tries to do something, he doesn't want to be happy, and they just enjoy the results and ignore their own efforts.

In other words, the out-of-home out-of-home is a contribution to the family, and the care of the home is also a kind of contribution, both of which should not be ignored.

3.You have to know what you want.

For many strong women, the most important problem they need to face is not knowing how to balance the relationship between family and career.

They are accustomed to putting some of the rules of the workplace in their own family business, which is actually impersonal in itself.

Whether it is the male protagonist outside the female protagonist, or the female protagonist outside the male protagonist, in essence, everyone hopes that your home can become better.

1.Divergent perceptions.

There is an essential difference between men and women in terms of parenting concepts. First, the mother gave birth to a baby in October, and the baby's feelings and perception of their own status are naturally different from their father's, plus the more knowledge they know during pregnancy, the easier it is to walk on thin ice, and the men's own lines are not so thin, perhaps in the eyes of Hu Juen, the baby is not as fragile as a porcelain doll, which is the first "difference" of the pants.

2: Raising children is a very important thing in itself, and couples may also have conflicts due to inconsistent views on educating children.

4: Parenthood. Raising a child is not only time-consuming, energy-consuming, but also stressful.

In the old days, couples didn't move far after they got married. Parents on both sides will rush over to help with their children. Today's couples rarely enjoy such blessings.

Because of their work, people are often separated from their parents and relatives. So all the hard work has to be borne by yourself. This will undoubtedly affect the relationship between husband and wife as well.

5: Sometimes the disagreement is that the child has made a mistake, how to punish it, quarrel for the child, there are various reasons, maybe before the child is born, your relationship between husband and wife is not very stable; Or maybe after having children, life changes dramatically and you have a hard time adapting. The key to solving the above problems is how the husband and wife can unite and share responsibilities.

There are four types of men who are reluctant to have children.

One is the interest type, it all depends on the mood, the interest comes and the child is happy, and you can send a circle of friends at this time. But in no more than half an hour, he will lose patience, and the child will not deal with the father's disturbance. In the end, the soldiers met each other, and the fish died and the net was broken.

It's a lot like a scene in the animal world, a lion pack is lazily basking in the sun on the African savannah, the lionesses are returning from hunting with their booty zebras, and the male lions are feasting on them, and after a full meal, they are still basking in the sun. The lion cubs were playing, and the male lions occasionally walked around to teach them to hunt, but as soon as the picture turned, the male lions roared at the young lions, as if to establish their authority, and as if they did not want them to disturb the male lion's nap.

The second is the machismo type, "changing the child's diaper, is this what a man does, I still have work to do" This situation generally appears in two kinds of families, one is that the man is a career type, and he does focus on work, 996 is the norm, and he works hard for the year-end bonus. But my wife also thinks it's okay to do this, after all, it's a reasonable match for the male protagonist and the female protagonist, fish and bear paws, or bear paws with higher value. The second is the male type of mother.

Even if my husband is out in the office for a day, just playing with the computer, typing, and when I come back, I will receive my mother's care, tired son, rest for a while, wait for dinner, and your daughter-in-law can watch it. I don't know if it's my husband's luck or my wife's helplessness when I encounter this kind of mother.

The third is, I am still a baby, how to take care of the baby. This kind of man is only a man when he has a need. I'd rather stay up late looking at my phone than turn over to look at my baby.

In fact, it is an act of avoidance. I don't want to accept myself to grow up, and I don't want to give up my time. The above is only the easiest to see, in fact, digging deeper accounts for the majority.

At the age of thirty, my career was unsatisfactory, and I was secretly determined that I wanted to work hard and that my studies could be improved, under the guise of Li Luqin, I pushed the child to my wife, and when the time came, I habitually wandered and fell asleep with my mobile phone.

Fourth, he is a smart person, not unwilling to take care of children, but after taking care of children seriously, he found that motherhood is really a great and difficult profession. I am ashamed of myself, so I can only give up silently. I'll do other trivial work, be a good beacon, be a good dependent.

As for the children, it is still left to the capable wife to dedicate. After all, Spider-Man said that with great power comes great responsibility. If you meet such a husband, it is actually a kind of happiness, because he is timid about taking care of children, which highlights the greatness of his wife.

Often such a man loves his wife more. Of course, if it is said that hurting his wife is to share the hardship, then it is another matter.

These four types, please mothers, don't sit in the right seat, it's just that men really can't take care of this family 100% like you. But a man who loves his wife can love you and his children in another way.