How would you feel if you sat next to a table with someone better than you

If there is a better table mate than me, it will definitely be a little uncomfortable, but it is also a challenge, a chance to beat yourself.

Personally, I think that mental quality is stronger than ability, and how to adjust one's heart is the most important;

During the period of studying, it is better to have the motivation to learn, but sometimes you have to admit that some people are very good at reading, you do your best, chase hard, and at the same time accept it with a broad mind.

Liu Bang said: Strategizing, winning thousands of miles, I am not as good as the ovary; Town the country, care for the people, give feeding, and endless food, I am not as good as Xiao He; Conquer and win, I am not as good as Han Xin.

But it was Liu Bang who became emperor in the end.

With an inclusive mindset to accept that others are better than you, and if your mindset is good, you can dominate yourself and your life. What people need to pursue is their own pursuit, not comparison.

The handling of the problem, if considered in normal thinking, is usually very fast. This may be an advantage for you at the table. If you think about the same question from other perspectives, and don't think in a normal way, you might get a better answer.

Then gradually develop such abilities yourself, and you will benefit a lot in your future work and study. This is Tang Jun's theory of difference.

It's okay... You just need to be clear about the gap between yourself and him, and then slowly try to surpass him, learn from his strengths, and make up for his weaknesses. I think that's the key to that.

Secretly observe his weaknesses, learn his good learning methods, and try to surpass him.

"You at the Same Table" is a song sung by the old wolf, this is a classic old song, which has a far-reaching impact in the middle of the post-80s and post-90s, and is a must-order track for everyone to KTV, representing the memories of a generation and pure sentimentality. From this song canI feel the feelings of many authors.

The first is the emotion of the past. This song is written after a long period of time after leaving the campus, when I am bored, I flip through the photo album and reminisce about my watery years. But those days full of youthful vitality are far away from the author, and even his tablemate only remembered her face after seeing **, which stirred up a circle of ripples of memory, recalling those times spent together.

It's a pity that the teenage years are gone.

You can also feel the indifference to the arrangement of life after people mature. After experiencing a lot of things, although there are still feelings for life, but have to be busy for reality, the more a person grows up, the more helpless he will be, the long river of years carries what kind of age we come to, what kind of things we have to do, even if I see a lot of crazy things when I was young, I can only smile faintly, recalling the bits and pieces of youth, but still have to go their own way. I'll still marry and have children, but I'll just laugh it off.

I'll show her pictures of my table mates and tell her about you at the same table, but that's in the past. The original emotions have changed, I will imagine who met the sentimental you, who comforted the crying you, but I also seem to be able to feel that you are no longer the original you, maybe you are no longer sentimental, you may no longer love to cry. The person who will take care of you in the days to come will tie up your long hair and dress you in a beautiful wedding dress, and the past is gone.

In my opinion, what you at the table express is nostalgia and reminiscence of the past on the one hand, and acceptance and indifference to real life on the other hand. This can represent the mood of almost all people, while reminiscing about the past, reminiscing about the beauty of the past, while riding the wings of time to move forward, too late, unable to regret and return to the past.

It's no different from not saying anything.

It's so happy to have such a tablemate, I know you very well in everything, as long as he understands what you mean with a look, he has a very tacit understanding together, and it is also very happy to have such a partner in life.

For having a tablemate who knows me very well, sometimes my feelings are wonderful, sometimes I hate it, but the hate is also the kind of hate that likes too much, in high school, I have a tablemate who knows me very well, I know him very well, our personalities are very same, the people who like me are the same, the people who hate are the same, the reasons for being angry are the same, the reasons for liking are the same, we are sometimes like two doppelgangers of a person, I know his thoughts, he knows me very well, he knows that I hate him for doing those thingsHe also knows what I like to eat, he knows the meaning of one of my eyes, he knows why I suddenly laugh, he knows what the reasons I cry, he knows my schedule, he knows almost everything I do, but when I want it, I hate that people know me very well, and that makes me very insecure, and then for a while I will hide it, and I will keep my distance from him, and he doesn't know what the reason for my stay away from him is at first, and then I told him after his long questioning. <>

I hate him for being stupid with me, but I know that's one of the ways he spoils people, but there's nothing I don't understand about this person, I hate it is hate, no matter what his relationship with me is, I didn't say it at first, I kept it in my heart, I thought he would do it once or twice, but I didn't say it, he thought I didn't mind him doing these things, but after a long time I couldn't help it, and I was a little angry. He knew that I was angry and had a specific action of biting my lip, and when he saw me biting my mouth, he asked me why I was angry, and I said I don't like you to do those stupid actions, I was very unhappy to see it, and he said that if you don't like it, you should just say it, don't hide it in your heart, I said uh-huh. We went through three ups and downs in high school, and we still have the same tacit understanding as before.

I feel envious, although the ending is more tragic.

I thought of my first love, and found that I was so innocent and ignorant at that time.

First love is beautiful and worth remembering for a lifetime. Falling in love doesn't have to be married, and getting married doesn't have necessarily falling in love.

There is a saying in the movie: love is not necessarily possession.

I fell in love with it, and I was a beautiful woman at the same table.

A girl waited for ten years, but after all, she didn't wait for the boy's growth. Boys may be cowardly than girls in the face of major rights and wrongs.

The last point is a bit similar to a movie, hee-hee is all imagination, and the result is different.

Dreams are defeated by reality I thought about it for a long time after watching it.

Rotten, super rotten, not as good as others say they are.

Yes Because my table is the wall.

I treat my table mates as brothers, but what about them??? You even treat me like a girlfriend!? I'm angry.

I like it, I've been like it for seven years, but what he likes has never been me.

I'm a girl, and I basically have a feeling for my table mates hahahahaha.

There have been, and every time I have the feeling of wanting to touch him inexplicably.

It was a meaningful feeling ......When I was in junior high school, I sat at the same table for half a year, and I chatted very much, so everyone around me coaxed, but the two felt no waves in their hearts, and then in the middle of the winter vacation, I suddenly missed each other for some reason, and I chatted on QQ if I had nothing to do, and I changed my seat after school, very sad, he tried his best to change to be with me, but when he confessed, I hesitated, so I became the most ordinary friend. . .

emmmm realized that I had fallen under a spell, and in the three years of junior high school, most of the boys who had been at the same table as me liked me, and I knew it from other people, so I pretended not to know, and they shouldn't be serious anyway.

What does it feel like...?? I had the feeling of rolling my eyes....

See you every day, it's been a long time, and you have a feeling when you look at a dog (y).

There is no ......Because we are of the same sex