Is there a high standard for finding a husband like this? Finding a husband requires standards

From a woman's point of view, I don't think you're too demanding, a little lower. From a man's point of view, it's higher.

24 years old, 164,100 pounds, a little dark, generally beautiful but not alluring, graduated from the Department of Foreign Languages with a bachelor's degree, a stable job, and a salary of more than 1,000.

What are you doing, college student?

I don't have a lot of houses that sell slowly, the salary of a worker without money is 7000 a month, people are not young at 18 years old, people are not high at 185, people are not handsome like Zheng Yuanchang, the workmanship is unstable in reading, and the character is not good, a lot of people stick to me, and if I don't send money randomly, I will send 6000 a month

Graduated from the Department of Foreign Languages with a bachelor's degree and only more than 1,000 ah, which city.

If you set the standard for finding a husband, it will limit your mental state of mind to find a boyfriend to a certain extent.

It's best to determine his character first, and then get along with him and then understand his conditions

occupies a single place, but the salary of the undergraduate foreign language department is only more than 1,000, which is indeed very little

I think that's a bit low.

Some time ago, the girls of the post-00s were urged to get married, and I watched my girlfriends get married one by one, and the Chinese New Year is also the peak period for weddings, I thought to myself if I should get married soon, otherwise I will be looked down upon by my girlfriends, so what kind of husband should I have (or what standards should I have for finding a husband?) I think this should be a possible problem for girls, but I will give you a few criteria for finding a husband, and girls who are going to find a husband to marry can make a reference:

First: have a good temper and high emotional intelligence; (In China, 75% of such men can't do it, and if they can, then there is no such thing as divorce in China).

Second: filial piety to parents, respect for teachers, respect for the wife, take care of younger siblings, and love children (this is also 70% of men can't do).

Third, be in good health, have a wide range of hobbies, be knowledgeable, know etiquette, and respect the law. (I estimate that 65% of this is incomplete).

Fourth, a legitimate job, having a career, having more money and less money, making a living, everything is easy to say (the number of people who meet the standard is 85%)

Fifth, housework is half a package, cooking will take care of children, respect the elderly (most men in China do very little housework).

Sixth, beautiful women outside, just appreciate it, don't get into trouble, get into trouble, and bear the ...... yourself(This is rarely done by most men).

First, the other party must have a certain economic foundation.

The economic base determines family harmony. Everyone knows that poor couples mourn everything, and only after falling into firewood, rice, oil and salt every day do they know that many contradictions are intensified because of lack of money.

Second, love is to be wanted, but you can't indulge in it, love can't be kept fresh for a lifetime, and the other party's character is very important.

When marrying a person, you also have to examine the other party's character, and don't give yourself to the other party without reservation just because the other party is good to you and the other party is handsome. Marriage is a lifelong thing, the other party's character is not good, being good to you is just an appearance, and there will be hardships in the future.

Third, it is very important to have a certain financial ability.

Your financial ability determines your family status at home, as well as your voice at home. Don't think that you will sacrifice your career for the sake of taking care of children, one day, the other party will use this excuse to dislike you.

Fourth, before marriage, go to each other's homes several times and observe the other party's parents' personality, occupation, way of speaking, and education level.

Everyone understands the popularity of the word family of origin, and they all know the impact of family of origin on a person's growth. A family of origin with positive values has a positive meaning for life after marriage.

Fifth, a partner with the same three views will make the happiness after marriage stronger.

If he wants to travel, he thinks you can see a lot of scenery by watching TV at home. You say you're going to eat a romantic Western meal, and he thinks you have money and nowhere to spend it. This kind of life, it is estimated that you will not be able to stand it for a year and a half.

6. In addition to appreciating each other's strengths, we must also accept each other's shortcomings.

The longevity of the marriage is not because of the many advantages of each other, but because both parties can tolerate each other, understand each other, and endure each other.

7. Have another child after one or two years of marriage. However, it is better for girls to complete it before the age of 30.

8. Evaluate the marriage, this assessment includes many aspects, such as whether the solutions to the problems faced by the two parties are the same, such as when the two people quarrel, what kind of way will the two parties handle, whether the difference is very big, and whether they can understand the other party's thoughts.