Others told me not to be too honest when looking for a husband, why?

In fact, this kind of thinking is quite harmful, and you can be happy if you find an honest person? It's just too much to think about. So I'll tell you why I can't find an honest man.

"Good to me" is not the most important criterion for choosing a mate.

What kind of people are they who want to find an honest person to marry? Those who are tired of playing, those who have been hurt by scumbags, those who are dead in love, and those who have to find an honest ...... from the beginning

Whether you have been injured or have taken honesty as one of the criteria for finding a male ticket from the beginning, you want to find someone who is honest and good to yourself to live a down-to-earth life.

That is to say, if you find an honest person to marry, you must not only find an honest person, but also someone who is good to yourself. In other words, you have a fancy for honest people who can be good to you wholeheartedly.

But why do you think that an honest person can only be good to you for the rest of his life, and why do you think that this person is an honest person? If you are humble enough to expect someone to be good to you, whether you are looking for an honest person or not, you will be very unhappy for the rest of your life.

The risk of finding someone who likes you is this: when he doesn't like you, you're nothing, and he can be with someone else just like he was with you.

Husband and wife are honest with each other, what's wrong with honest people, you just think it's appropriate. It's okay to give you a sense of security. Too good at talking, beware of lying to you not blinking.

My husband is very honest, in fact, there is no honest person in the world, but that person can bear it!

It's good to feel good!

It doesn't matter what other people say.

It's true that you think it's good.

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

Not every man can give a woman a princess-like life, so if you just want to find someone to rely on, then just leave it, don't say that we men are honest and useless.

If you really want to leave, these are not reasons, but because you haven't figured it out yourself, these are not reasons, but because you haven't figured it out yourself, whether I want to leave or not, you have no one to help you, I just want to tell you that long pain is better than short pain, be happy.

People who are too honest do have a very boring life; If it is only for the sake of the children, such a marriage is also very painful, and it may not be a good thing to try to choose to come out; Children can be raised together.

He's the husband you chose, right? Someone else didn't force you to marry, right? How do you know that if you leave him, you will definitely marry a man with the ability? Take back your fantasies and dislikes, he's honest and useless, you can be useful, you can be a capable woman, can't you?

There is no 100% marriage in life, no matter who you marry, there will always be one party who will pay more in marriage, pay more attention to each other's shining points, and it is more meaningful than entangled in each other's badness, but this is also to let you grieve the marriage, if you feel that marriage is really a torture for you, then divorce is also a relief! Let yourself have a way out, and also give the other party a chance.

Sometimes life is satisfying, sometimes it is not satisfactory. Honest again, it's already good, it's not bad. It's useless, I don't know how long you have been married until now, no one is perfect, and no gold is barefoot!

Cherish, can you change each other, not suspicious, but understand that often encouraged, life is unsatisfactory, sometimes there is, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, slowly taste, take your time, have a good attitude, I love you very much! Use your words and deeds, little by little, to be afraid of smart men and disloyalty! Treasure!

Wishing you all happiness! Personal note!

Marrying an honest husband, aren't you happy anymore? Then you marry a husband who is short-tempered and has a tendency to domestic violence and beats you every day, are you willing? You said that your husband is always useless, so some things in your family, then you should come out and handle it.

You lead him to work hard to make money. An honest man has the benefits of an honest man, and he can't help but flamboyate outside without touching flowers and grass. Wholeheartedly devoted to you, although he will not say some sweet words, but he must be wholeheartedly devoted to you and the child.

Don't always look at his shortcomings, he must also have strengths, in addition, you have to think about it, what are your strengths and weaknesses? If you think about using your strengths to make up for your husband's shortcomings, then your family's life will be good if you work together to live well. Husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are broken.

I'm in favor of having a good time with my husband.

What kind of thing is useful, if the man is too good, maybe the marriage will not be so stable. What kind of thing is useful, if the man is too good, maybe the marriage will not be so stable. What kind of thing is useful, if the man is too good, maybe the marriage will not be so stable.

What kind of thing is useful, if the man is too good, maybe the marriage will not be so stable.

The way you guide him little by little, people will have opinions and ideas, but he doesn't dare to say it.

In fact, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, whether it is a capable person or an honest person, it is impossible to be perfect, a capable person has his own outstanding father, but his ability and his talent cover up his shortcomings, everyone focuses on his ability and ignores his shortcomings. But as long as you live and work with him for a while, you will find that he is not as immaculate as you think, and you will feel that he is nothing more than that, nothing great. An honest person, at first he gives the impression of being very average, even a little muna, but through a period of time together, you will find that he has a lot of shining points, which makes people like and respect, and enjoys befriending him.

Therefore, I don't think it's a bad thing to marry an honest husband, let it be, and there is no need for him to deliberately change, maybe it will be very profitable.

You fly away with the child; Go to the happiness you want.

After the divorce, is there a better man who is willing to stay with him? What about life?

Honestly, it's already a good quality.

A man said to a woman that you are too honest, what he means is that this girl has too simple a brain, and she is always too kind, and Zaochai is too kind, and she will definitely be bullied.

Too conservative, too kind, timid, always bullied by others, only promised, so that going out will not get the pity and appreciation of others, nor will it be protected by others, the average person she likes to be generous and lively and cheerful, more attractive, more assertive.

Too introverted, timid and afraid, only a promising person encounters something, does not dare to stand up for himself, is always bullied, men will not have a desire to protect, but will feel that people like this are pitiful, and then will not be with you, if you want to get your own happiness, you must protect yourself well, don't let others bully you.

Is it okay to always find an honest husband? All generations say that honest men are good and worth marrying, because they don't have too many bad intentions and will treat their wives wholeheartedly. But honest people also have a lot of unbearable shortcomings, they talk less, don't like to communicate, hold things in their hearts, and some are not motivated, not responsible, women marry such men, there will not be too many good days, only honest and responsible can make women feel secure.

1. Men are honest and motivated to make women feel safe

There are certain benefits for men to be honest, but honesty can't be eaten, honesty is not motivated, and everything is in vain if you can't earn money to support your family. Only honest and self-motivated men can marry, honest but lazy men, life will not be easy when married, you can be poor, but you must be self-motivated, you can't let your wife and children follow you to suffer, a man who does nothing all his life will make men insecure and not worth relying on.

2. Men are honest but cowardly and unreliable

If a man is honest but relatively cowardly and has no responsibility, a woman must not marry, and if she marries, she will only find hardship for herself. A cowardly man is destined to achieve nothing in real life, not to mention that he has not yet taken responsibility, once something happens at home, he will snub his wife, run faster than a rabbit, and may even leave his children and wives behind, and the family is gone, such a man is unreliable.

3. Most honest people have no opinions and need their wives to call the shots

There are many honest people who lack assertiveness, and people are relatively boring, although they have no special hobbies, and they will not be affected by the outside world, but they usually don't like to talk, their personalities are not cheerful, they dare not speak at the children's parent-teacher meetings, and their wives have to decide everything.

4. Honest people live a down-to-earth life

An honest man is a little bored, he doesn't talk much, and he doesn't create romance, but it's more practical to live with this kind of person, because he won't look for women outside, and women outside don't look down on him like him. In addition to being boring and not motivated enough, but there are no special shortcomings, and there is nothing bad about the dull life.

5. Honest people also have bad tempers

Some honest people have a strange temper that people can't guess, because he doesn't like to talk, doesn't like to communicate, and holds everything in his heart, this kind of person is easy to suddenly explode in a certain day, which makes women unbearable, and over time can only divorce, after all, not many women can stand such treatment from men.

There are several reasons why I want to find a husband.

A person's life takes at least a few decades, and if you spend it alone, it will be so lonely and boring. Especially when you get old, you are afraid of loneliness, if you don't have a partner, then who will take care of you if you are sick.

My husband also got married and came together because of love. Secondly, if you don't have a husband, then you don't have a child of your own, and there is no way to be a mother.

Their children are the continuation and inheritance of their own lives, and they all say why we struggle, because we want to give our children a better life. Without a child, we are at a loss what we want to do after the age of 40.

If you have a husband, you can talk to him about anything you are sad about. The husband plays not only the identity of a partner, but also a friend and a relative.

If you look for a husband, it is also to fulfill the wishes of your parents, who always want to see their children have a happy family, someone to accompany and take care of them, so that they can feel at ease. If you don't have a husband, then your parents will keep urging you to worry about you.

Looking for a husband is still for love, if you lose confidence in love, then you haven't met the right person in the end. It is not easy for one person to make money, but it is much easier for two people to be employed.

After work, there is a person who cooks the meal for you, and the two of them watch a movie together and do housework.

Finding a husband is also manifested in our yearning for love, and it is also a memory after getting older, and the two of them can also go out to travel and see the scenery.

There are really times when two people quarrel together, and they think that their brains are really in water, and they have nothing to find a husband, how free and easy a person is. The days of being single are still very desirable, you can sleep and eat if you want to sleep, you can party if you want to find friends, why find another person to bind yourself?

Isn't there such a saying? The tears that a woman sheds after marriage are all water in her brain before marriage, but what to do? Isn't getting married and having children a necessary process in a woman's life?

People also often say, does a woman have to have the experience of having a child once in her life? The life of a woman who has not given birth to a child is incomplete.

I don't know if it's because my own thinking is too old-fashioned, or if everyone thinks so, anyway, I think this sentence makes more sense, especially after I have had a child myself. I think it's a good feeling, and I don't reject it.

And when you are really lonely, lonely and cold, or when you can't find relatives and friends to accompany you during the New Year's holidays, or when you are old, you still feel very lonely without a companion and a man who can make noise.

After all, there are still many years to live in life, you can't just rely on your parents, relatives and friends to spend these years, you must have a man to support each other, and women are still women after all, when you really encounter things, when you encounter difficulties, or when you want to cry, you still need to have a man's shoulder to rely on.

After all, women are still made of water, you don't think you are so strong, when you are weak, you know that there is a man to rely on, what a beautiful thing.

I remember just a few days ago I just paid my salary, and then I specially looked for my husband to be scared, and sent him a small red envelope, expressing my happy mood, although his salary is handed over every month, occasionally I will leave him a little living expenses, although not much, but he is also very happy, I remember that the living expenses I gave him are almost 500 yuan a month, and I help him charge the mobile phone bill every month, but she does not need money for food and housing, of course, if there is any emergency, I can also transfer money to him at any time, Sometimes I think that looking for a husband is to find a little happiness for myself, the two of them also like to play together, and he is very happy to send him a red envelope occasionally, just like I said in a chat with one of my best friends, the salary is paid and a red envelope is sent to tease him, in fact, many people find it difficult to find a husband, I think most of it is because they don't get along very well, just like my best friend envy the way we get along, relaxed and simple and humorous!

In fact, life is quite boring in addition to work is work, I want to find a husband to make my life less boring, when the two of them get off work, they can go shopping and eat together, and when they are in the mood, they can also go to watch movies together, so that life has a little other color in addition to work, or when you feel tired in the face of the pressure of life, you can also borrow your husband's shoulder to lean on, so that you will suddenly feel that you have the motivation to move forward, I think looking for a husband should be to make my life more exciting, the road of life is a bit difficult, if there is someone to accompany me along the way, I think there will be more laughter and laughter along the way, and it will not be so difficult when walking! There will always be bitterness and joy in life, and I think my husband is the one who should be able to bring happiness to himself!