My wife sleeps with my tutor and what should I do in front of my children

Updated on society 2024-06-12
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, in front of children, it is not supposed to be in front of many times. Because your wife has done such a thing, giving others the feeling that this one wife should not stay by her side.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your wife is sleeping with your tutor, and it is still in front of the children, you can sue them directly, and then divorce your wife.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You, you should educate your wife well, your wife is too much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think well, you should make it clear to Lao He, no matter what? You should not do this kind of thing in front of your child, it will affect the child himself in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If this tutor is male, then what your wife is doing must be wrong, and if it is a woman, it is nothing for them to sleep together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I saw that the tutor slept in the classroom, the man was a woman, and we didn't know if I lived with a woman, so if we slept together, it would be no problem to say that sleeping with a man was not a general problem.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just left. Get all your possessions.

    Look for it again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How so? My wife still sleeps with a tutor, how old is this tutor? You should have a good talk with him, it's too unpleasant, right? This affects the child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Can such a wife stay? I think you should divorce him, it's also an insult to you to teach a bad boy like this, he's just going too far, let him get out of the house.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The wife slept with the tutor and in front of the children. First of all, you should dismiss the tutor, and then talk to your wife about what you plan to do. If you can get by, if you can't, you can get a divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In this case, it is serious, immoral, and will also leave a parasitic negative effect on the child, and it should be criticized.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Is the tutor male? You can call the police. Amitabha.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Landlord, your wife tutors this child, and the waste of time is the same as the meat bun beating the dog, there is no return, and the owner of such a child is on the stall, I guess it will be difficult to get the remuneration back. Parents ask their children for tutors, they must hope that their children's grades will rise, but this naughty child is the same as the pig's intestine that can't be lifted, even if your wife prepares for class well, and then patiently tutors the child, the child can't recognize the importance of reading, loves to play, and no one can do anything about him, so remember, remember in the future, and then tutor other children, you must see if the child's plasticity is strong, if it is the kind of Adou who can't be supported, then I'd rather not waste my time and experience than earn that broken money.

    Let's get back to the point, when your wife took this order, did she sign any agreement with her parents, as far as I know, now some college students, graduate students are tutoring their children outside, you can sign a contract, of course, acquaintances can be exceptional, if your wife signs an agreement with someone, then this should be more than the money should be able to come back, if not, you can convince people with reason, speak with facts, and use morality as a catalyst, I don't believe that the child's parents still don't give money, but if the parents finally resolutely don't give money, You can go to the local neighborhood office, there should be a mediation organization, and ask for their opinions; If this parent beats to death and doesn't give money, then you are only unlucky, and there is nothing to talk about with this kind of person, it is precisely because of this kind of unreasonable parents that there will be such a playful child, and it is understandable that the grades are so poor, so you don't have the same knowledge as others. But I personally think that if you pay for your labor, you should get what you deserve, a gentleman loves money, and he takes it in a good way, and even if it is one hundred and two hundred, it is also the income of his own labor, and he must pay for the child's parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the amount of money is within the range you can give up, forget it, just buy a lesson. If this happens again in the future, it can be prevented and the money will be returned. If there is a lot of money, and the family insists on not giving it, it will be appropriately reduced, so to speak:

    The money you cut makes up for your child's score that didn't go up. "If you want it all, bring a bucket tomorrow, you two go to the door, what microphone is there, it's okay if it's not loud, knock on the door." Someone kept knocking, and when the neighbor came, he immediately said his shameless behavior, and I think the neighbors knew that their children were playful.

    If there is no one at home, keep knocking. Wait until the neighbors come and spread the word about those acts. The main purpose is that if you don't take money, I will promote your actions.

    Anyway, I can't recognize those people, but those people are your neighbors, and when the time comes, the neighbors don't talk about it well, so it's no wonder you

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What agreements did they have in the first place? This is the crux of the matter.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You don't have to coax anymore, there's no hope. Since you don't.

    Want to divorce, why you.

    Get involved with the tutor in one.

    When you get up, you don't.

    Think about your wife's feelings.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to take responsibility for the mistakes you make.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you make a mistake, you will suffer the consequences.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Seriously, although your daughter-in-law does need help if she is free, but she really can't stand it, many old people will always be the same, men can't do housework at home, even simple washing dishes, and all this must be done by women, this is in line with social relations, it is really too much, women are busy, tired and tired, and they don't even think of calling a man for help.

    And then this unhealthy psychology of oneself has to be imposed on other women, and they have to be like her to be called a normal woman.

    So I said, "In that case, why don't you hire a babysitter, because the babysitter is so good at making money."

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A lot of it is like this, it's right that you feel sorry for your son, but he can't help it if he wants to. Young people, more inclusive, only children are pampered is the norm. If you think she is so bad, you can say it well, I don't know if you have said in front of her that she is not educated?

    Don't say this kind of thing no matter how much you think about it, especially to her personally, this is not only about her personally, but also about her parents, no one likes others to say bad things about their parents. It hurts my pride.

    Young people don't have an overall situation in doing things, as long as they can get by, it is common to be a moonlight clan, although they should estimate some now that they have a family, but to be honest, they are all children, and they will definitely have their temperament.

    Children, you bear with me, even if you are dissatisfied with her, try not to involve others, otherwise it is your son who is really arguing and embarrassed, isn't it?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    So don't say there's too much age difference. Think about your son being 20 years old, and people may only be 10 years old, you can't use the same standards to demand from others. Your standard is actually easy for women born in the 80s to do, but small is small, and it is impossible to grow up 10 years old just because of marriage, which is not fair.

    You have been a wife for more than 30 years, but she has only been a wife for a few years, and you can't use the standard of more than 30 years to ask people who have just become a wife.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You go to everyone for a critique.

    I'm talking about your own daughter-in-law.

    Pulled all the post-90s girls up.

    That's not kind.

    Not all post-90s generations are your daughters-in-law.

    It's not all like you said, there is no tutor.

    You didn't rush to marry a virtuous and virtuous girl when you first went home, don't blame her for being the leader inside and out.

    It's also a little baby held in the palm of someone else's hand.

    You eat the rice, too.

    You can do it too....

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It looks like you're counting on your daughter-in-law to take care of your son.

    The current post-90s generation is indeed inferior to the post-80s.

    But it can't be said that this is true for everything.

    Your son is willing to take care of his daughter-in-law, but there is no way.

    If he doesn't want to, he won't spoil it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The post-90s generation should be encountering the country's implementation of family planning, and most of them should be only children!

    Since childhood, it has been a treasure in the hearts of the family!

    There are also overspoils, you can't be too demanding at once, and growth needs to be filled with experience!

    When the responsibility really falls on the head, and the tempering of time falls on the body, it will mature!

    So if the two of them get along well is the first priority, they must be living their lives, and your excessive interference may be exchanged for your son's hatred!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I really don't know this aunt, do you want the little couple to have a good time? Still what do you think! Everyone has their own living space, and you don't always measure others by your standards.

    Isn't that nice? Do you have anything to do with her? It really doesn't matter, at best, it's her husband's mother.

    It is said that respect, respect is mutual, have you ever respected her? I'm afraid you've been looking at her with tinted glasses! It's clear from your offensive gunpowder text that you don't respect her.

    Don't say words about respecting the old and loving the young. The first thing you have to do is to review your problems, don't say you don't have problems, your problems are big. Since you can't get used to it, then don't watch it, isn't it good to live your own life?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A cultured person will not say to his face that people have no family education, you are blaming your in-laws, if your daughter-in-law is not educated, she will fight with you in person, she is not appropriate, don't ask others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As an adult, you first speak out of proportion, no matter what, you can't say that, this doesn't hit you to push the fire and roast yourself! Don't be stupid or deaf, don't be a writer!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Respect is mutual, your rhetoric is a little problematic, you say that she doesn't have a tutor, it's a disguised point at her parents, you can do it another way, do you treat your daughter-in-law as your own daughter?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't always look at the bad side of others, communicate calmly. The force is mutual.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, what you said is not right to me, whether there is a tutor or not, and it can't come out of your mouth. What about you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You care about her! I'm worried about her, so she's angry with you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Will my son accept it? After all, it's your son who is with her?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, what do you care about so much

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Could it be that you are too sensitive, if your wife is a high school teacher, then that student is too young and not logical.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't think about it, she just wants to be fresh, and after a long time, she will get tired.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    How did you find out, don't think about it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Probably not, did you see that?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Could it be that you misunderstood?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    For the sake of your children, it's better to give up, if the matter is revealed, the impact on the whole family and the doll will be too great, coveting temporary pleasure and gambling on the happiness of a family, which is not worth it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's okay to make an appointment! If you don't want people to know, you can't do it unless you do. Greedy for a momentary enjoyment may bring harmony to the whole family!

    The wife's anger after learning about it, the bad influence of the children after learning about it, as well as the parents, relatives and friends, etc., it's better to think about it, others lower their bodies and decide to go up, and it's a big deal!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you don't make an appointment, you won't be discovered. Don't ruin your own family and others.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You just have to think about the consequences to make a decision, after all, you are an adult. The consequence is that your wife may divorce you with her children and divide the family property into two, or your wife may be ruthless and let you leave the house, will that female college student marry you? Do you think it's worth it?

    Think about your injured wife and children, do you still have so much courage to date this female college student? Is this college girl worth it for you to abandon her family and children? Knowing that you have a family and still dating you, it seems that the character of this female college student is not very good.

    She can date you and other men, isn't the point because of the money? When your wife is separated and your financial strength is greatly reduced, can she still be by your side consistently? Give up your down-to-earth family happiness for an illusory result, as long as you want, you can make an appointment to your heart's content!

    Why be afraid of your wife finding out.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You are not tired, if you are tired, take a rest.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let's communicate well, the warmth touches people's hearts. It's not easy to deal with the posture of the mother-in-law.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    To put it well, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and as a daughter-in-law, I want a good mother-in-law.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    How do you know now? Why did you go in the first place?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Harmony is precious, some things can make a step, the sea and the sky.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Don't go head-on with your daughter-in-law. Since it happened, it's nothing, just leave them alone in the future.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Today's young people are the same, having a good time is the right solution, too lazy to care, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    The situation is just like mine, speechless.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    This is their business, the old man doesn't have to participate, as long as the son likes it. You're participating, it's a son making trouble, just don't care about anything.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Why don't you put yourself in their shoes?

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