Tangled, can I continue to associate with people I don t like? It s annoying every day.

Frankly, you're all immature, especially the gentleman.

As a daughter, you have to think about the feelings of your parents, and as an independent person, you have to plan for yourself, out of politeness, you have to take into account the feelings of the person, and you have to be very difficult to add between the three parties. But such delays, which have no precise plan, no basis for goodwill, or even no goal, are harmful to all three parties.

I don't know much about the detailed situation, I can only talk about the ideas, and you can flexibly respond to the specific solution.

For this issue, the important thing is your parents at the moment, and the important thing in the future is your life, and the second thing is the object.

Motivationally, they are all thinking about your good, and your blunt opposition or negative perfunctory behavior will make them feel bad, and you can only convince them.

First of all, you must consider what kind of personality your parents have, such as some are reasonable, some are affectionate, and some are profit-oriented.

Doing this step well is to lay the foundation The second step is to strengthen your concept They're used to thinking that you're inexperienced, they're senior, and whatever you say to them, they may feel a little psychologically that you're too young.

This is the first layer of curing the symptoms, and after we are eager to stabilize it, we must carefully address the root cause.

First of all, you need to reflect on whether you still don't have enough fun, whether you like romance more than practical, or whether you have already considered getting married and the reasonableness of your timing in your life plan. If you still feel like you're playful, it's probably slow-maturing, and you can continue to play for a while, but you have to have an emotional plan.

If you decide that it's time for you to get married, then you have to think about the right person in your life, and you have a clear plan and goals, then for your parents, you really have a stone in your heart, and they will no longer support your current person, and then the gentleman will become isolated, and then you can be honest with him, explain the stakes, and make him completely dead, which is also responsible for him. Even if you have to pester, your parents are on your side, and he can't make waves.

How so? If you feel like this about him, then you'd better not get along with him, or it's hard to be separated in the future, don't be influenced by your family, I'm just like you, but I still chose what I liked, you have to know that no matter what happens to the person you like in the future, you will admit it and don't regret it. If you don't like it, you won't be able to stand it if you don't have a good life in the future.

Find one you like, not to mention that you are still very young and have opportunities, don't make a decision too early!

Friends don't like it, why force yourself, find an excuse to refuse it early, it's not a way to entangle it like this, the longer you get there, the more you refuse, it hurts a lot to the boy and his family and even your family, women looking for a husband had better find someone who likes herself, has a sense of security, looks handsome is just the existence of appearance, the heart should be kind and sincere to your parents, handsome is just a decoration can not be eaten, too much attention to appearance is equivalent to torture yourself, of course, it is still your own opinion, I just suggest.

You first have to let go of yourself. I also agree with the advice upstairs to be friends with him first, and you also have to explain to him that you want to be friends first. Slowly, if you find him good, maybe you will like him.

Of course, the opposite result is not ruled out, but since the person is sincere, you should be friends with him first.

Since you are an ordinary friend, you don't have to contact and say something about love for you every day. This must be explained.

Don't mess around just yet!

Since it's annoying, what are you dating, it won't annoy you to have a relationship with me, hehe, I like beauties the most, but even beauties can't look down on me, I wish you happiness soon.

I'm 23 this year, like you, I've had a period like this, almost half a year, I chose to break up, I don't like blind dates, and now I'm better, although materially it's not as good as my ex-boyfriend, but, at least that's what I like! Break up, the more you drag, the worse it is

It's better to find your favorite, and barely get yourself happy.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different. All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

I think the final summary of love mentor Tu Lei is very reasonable, he said that when you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs, because during the love period, you see each other's advantages, and after love, it is the process of accepting each other's shortcomings, which needs to be tolerated.

Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, with the calmness and calmness of the hills and valleys in the chest, and the ability to make trade-offs will balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.

We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person.

If one person no longer likes the other person, then continuing to be together can lead to the unhappiness and dissatisfaction of the two friends. In this case, it may not make sense to continue a relationship because love is based on mutual liking and respect from both parties.

However, whether or not to stay together also depends on the circumstances and decisions of both parties. Sometimes, feelings can have ups and downs, and people's preferences and feelings can change over time. In this case, both parties can try to communicate and solve the problem to see if they can rekindle the spark of love.

However, if a person makes it clear that they no longer like the other person and that there is no sign of change, continuing to be together may only bring more pain and dissatisfaction. In this case, breaking up may be a better option, giving both parties the opportunity to find happiness that is more suitable for them.

Most importantly, regardless of the decision, both parties should respect each other's good feelings and mock decisions, and handle the breakup in a mature and rational manner. This reduces harm and creates a better future for both parties. <>

I obviously like each other very much, but because I am afraid of losing, I choose not to pursue not to be together, and I ask what kind of psychology is this? This phenomenon is indeed uncommon in real life, and I often hear those friends around me who have been single for too long say that they like it, but they are still single, so as not to lose it, and they have to adapt to being single again.

In fact, we all know that such a state of mind is not conducive to satisfying our own needs, and it will also affect our own intimate relationships with others.

Well, in psychology, there is a definition of such a state of mind. That is, "intimacy phobia" or "intimacy disorder", the so-called intimacy phobia or intimacy disorder, is not a disease, it is mainly manifested in the process of interpersonal communication deliberately keep a distance, will refuse to be too close to a certain person, and will be difficult to integrate into a certain circle. And people with this situation, they don't mean not to like intimacy, and even they will crave intimacy with others, but many times they will be afraid that their feelings will not be responded to or hurt, which leads to their own anxiety, so in real life, they will slowly avoid intimacy.

There are many possible reasons why a person has "intimacy phobia" or "intimacy disorder".

1.Growing up in a family environment that makes you feel uneasy, such as in childhood, you are often afraid of being abandoned because of quarrels between your parents, or your parents are not around for many years, so after growing up, you do not develop a good sense of security, and you slowly reduce your attachment needs. As a result, it is also difficult to form intimate relationships with others in adulthood;

2.A previous intimacy that made you feel hurt. For example, in the previous intimate relationship, one's feelings were sincere, but in the end, they were betrayed and left by the intimate object, so they had a bad shadow of intimacy in their hearts, so it was difficult to get out of this shadow and go to another intimate relationship.

3.Influenced by the reality around you or the scenes of the movie, you don't have enough sense of security about intimate relationships.

4.Lack of interpersonal skills, so they don't know how to get along with others, and how to build and maintain a good relationship, so they prefer to stay in good moments rather than dwell too much.

All in all, we all believe that every intimate relationship is built beautifully, and maintenance is what both parties must do in order to develop better. And blindly avoiding and withdrawing often fails to eat good fruits.

You are a typical emotional phobia. If you like each other, you should be together, so that you can take care of each other. You can't just not want to be together because you're afraid of losing. We need to understand each other, tolerate each other, and learn from each other, so that we don't always quarrel.

In fact, I don't think we need to, because we are afraid of losing and not together, people will always encounter some setbacks and tribulations in this life, only sincere mutual understanding can go to the end.

In fact, I think it is not easy for people to meet a person they really like in this life, and it is even more difficult to find a person who is happy with each other, don't be together because you are afraid of losing. I think it is inevitable that there will be quarrels between couples, and as long as you put yourself in each other's shoes and think about the problem, things will be much easier.

It's best to calm down yourself, ask your heart if the other party likes you, and if you like it, then don't give up easily. I don't know if you love him or not, if you love him, you have to give, you have to tolerate. Then there won't be a quarrel over trivial matters.

Since we like each other, we should understand each other. You can't hurt your feelings because of some trivial things, and you should let go of what should be humble. Don't hurt your feelings because of some small things.

Summary. Hello, dear. The meaning of the other party's sentence is actually to say that if he and you have been together for a long time, he will be bored with you, and he feels that his feelings have faded, and he doesn't like you later, what should I do?

What if you get tired of living together for a long time and don't like it anymore.

Hello, dear. The meaning of the other party's friend is actually to say that if he and you are in the first Ming Nuclear Bureau for a long time, you will be bored with you, and you feel that your relationship has faded, and you don't like you later, what should you do?

But in fact, this sentence is quite irresponsible, and when you ask this sentence, you already have doubts about the relationship between you.

In fact, in general, the other party means that he is not confident in this relationship, and he is a little suspicious and insecure, so if you can be responsible for him or give him a sense of security, then it's okay.

What should I do with her.

So are you worried about the existence of such a problem? Are you worried that the relationship between the two of you will not be good after a long time?

If not, you tell him not to worry that I won't let this happen.

You have to be genuinely good to me, and I will associate with you.

Then the other person's consciousness is saying that if you treat him sincerely, he will be with you.

Then you have to reply to him and say if you are sincere with him.

You reply that I mean something to her.

I don't know how to get along with you, but I'm genuine to you. Time will tell.

This sentence is for your reference.