How should mothers do a good job of lubricating between dad and child?

For the role of the mother, it is actually very important, because in many cases, the mother is a loving mother in front of the child, and the father is a strict father, so when educating their children, they need the mother to be the lubricant between the child and the father, so as to be conducive to the harmony of the whole family.

Therefore, I have the following suggestions:

1. Communication

When the child and the father have some quarrels, it is best for us not to directly express our attitude, but more to stand in the middle, not only to say that the father is wrong, but also to let the child reflect on their mistakes, so as to facilitate the reconciliation of the relationship between the two people, so the communication skills are very important, we must pay attention to our own language, remember not to hurt their children's hearts because of their own language.

2. Correct position

For mothers, when we have not yet understood the real situation, we should first tell our children not to talk back to their parents, and then understand the specific situation, and give our children some comfort, so that when we really understand the situation, we can better deal with such a contradiction, and we will not seem to be favoring anyone.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when parents educate their children, they can have a person in the middle to reconcile, so that we can solve the problem efficiently, and for the growth of children, it also plays a vital role, I hope everyone can pay attention to it, and such a situation, and then go to the specific implementation, to see what the effect is, and then to make corresponding adjustments.

If there is a conflict between the child and the father, the mother should tell the child about the father's good intentions in private, and should also tell the father about the child's preferences and temperament alone.

The father's temper is generally bigger, and the child is more stubborn, when the two sides quarrel, they should be pulled away in time, and the two sides should persuade each other.

If the child's mistakes are very serious, the mother still has to stand on the same side as the father, but the mother should also control the father's temper to avoid causing more serious conflicts.

Fathers and children should be allowed to get along more together, so that the two people can understand each other to get better and better, and their friendship will become deeper and deeper, and the family will be very harmonious.