I m about to get married, but the first love I ve been thinking about, am I normal?

People have feelings, and it is normal to be worried. Don't blame yourself! But in your heart, you have to prioritize.

Love your current husband well. As for your first love, take it as a fond memory. In the years that we have walked together, you have made each other happy and truly loved.

Why forget it. But it's gone. I want to, you can, but don't be cold to the current husband.

Normal, but don't forget that worrying is worrying, don't affect your normal life, the key is to master the degree. First love is beautiful and the most unforgettable. It should be regarded as a beautiful scenery on the road of life, but no matter how beautiful it is, it will come to its own end, if it is not the train you should take, then enjoy the perfect view, hurry up and get on the train and rush to the destination!

The first love is the most unforgettable! I think that's normal. As long as it doesn't affect your husband's and wife's life in the future, I think you can never forget it. It's best if the husband and wife can tell these secrets, so that everyone doesn't have to suspect in the future!

What do you think?

Normal, first love is the most memorable stage of life and the most beautiful, bury this first love in your heart, it's good to recall it when no one botheres, first love doesn't have to be forgotten.

Understand. I feel the same way as you now, and I want to forget him, but I'm not the one to get married, but I really don't know how to forget everything in the past, and I really hope that there will be a forgetful water, and if there is, I will definitely drink him.

It's okay. It's been n years since my first love.

My girlfriend has also changed.

But sometimes I still miss her.

And I love my current girlfriend too

It shows that her first love is really good, if she has been thinking about that man, it can only show that that man is really worthy of her nostalgia. Feelings can not be forced, but feelings can be fought for, in my experience, there is only one way to make your wife no longer miss her first love, that is, you love your wife to the extent that you exceed her first love, and in dealing with people to surpass her first love, only if you become better than her first love and more worthy of her affection, can you relieve her demons.

For example, if they were separated because of lack of finance, but the relationship and years were deep, for a long time, then you have to make a great effort financially, and at the same time be sincere to your wife emotionally; If they are separated because you are young, ignorant, noisy, and do not cherish feelings, then you have to be more mature and tolerant emotionally, and at the same time financially superior.

Maybe my suggestion is a bit idealistic, but also because you would ask such a question on the Internet to show that you love your wife and care about her feelings. I hope you are getting happier and happier!

I think you should spend more time with her, help her share the housework more, divert her attention, and cultivate common interests and hobbies with her, so that there is a common language, and slowly she will forget her first love.

I think as long as the other party doesn't do something very out of the ordinary, even if your wife thinks about her first love boyfriend, you have to give her a certain amount of freedom, and people will slowly let go of it eventually.

You should have a good talk with your wife and ask your wife what she thinks, maybe this is something that most people will experience, and you should understand.

For the person in our hearts, although we have regrets, but after all, it is over, and we can't go back. So let him stay in the memory, and then silently bless him, wish him happiness, and wish himself a promising future.

After getting married, it is best to forget your first love, cherish what you get, don't think about messy things, and only let yourself completely forget your first love can you enter the current relationship.

You can think more about the advantages of your lover and cultivate more feelings with your lover, so that you will slowly forget your first love.

You should tell yourself to learn to forget your first love. Try to live your current life. In this way, you can adjust your heart.

This requires us to learn to forget the past, not to dwell on the past all the time, and not to dwell on the past things anymore, so that we can adjust our hearts.