Men, what would you do if your girlfriend s family didn t approve of you?

Updated on society 2024-06-06
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The women elevate themselves until they are satisfied.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm bored, forget it!! This shows that her family is a very unreasonable person, even if you are with her, her family will give you a lot of anger in the future, this kind of family is very unreasonable, it's not interesting to leave early friends, look for your future!! Believe it, you're not without those on TV, even if the woman is nothing, but the family will be in trouble, and when the time comes, you will want your life haha, and it is obvious that something happened to this woman will definitely help her family, whether it is your fault or her family's fault, they will be greatly dissatisfied with you, forget it, friends leave her, don't fall to death on a tree, their family is obviously snobbish, in a word, as long as there is money, his family will agree to the kind, big brain!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    became a wealthy family and used money to crush the parents of the daughter.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm going to make a big business and let his parents see it, hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are many reasons for disapproval, such as:

    1. Character, think that he is not a person who can be relied on, do not refer to slippery and trustworthy, do not know how to respect others, and have low emotional intelligence;

    2. Ability, thinking that the ability to do things is not good, cannot support a family, and will not give you happiness;

    3. Family, poor family conditions may become a burden and add trouble to your future life;

    4. Education, low diploma, future work and income is a hidden danger, and there is only competition;

    5. If you don't work hard, you have no future;

    6. If the physical fitness is not good, Tangerine Zen can affect the quality of life in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1.Cultural differences and traditional beliefs.

    In some families with more conservative cultural traditions and concepts, parents may disapprove of their love partners due to cultural differences, religious beliefs, premarital sex, etc., which will affect their children's romantic relationships.

    2.Family conflicts and conflicts.

    In some families, there may be conflicts and contradictions between the parents' love relationship with their children and the interests of the family, family relations, etc. For example, parents may want their children to choose a specific love partner for the sake of family interests and inheritance, while children may prefer to choose someone they like. In this case, the parent's disapproval may have an impact on the child's romantic relationship.

    3.Parents' perceptions and expectations.

    Parents have their own concepts and expectations for their children's love partners, such as hoping that their children will find someone with the same background, education, wealth and other aspects. If the child's love partner does not match the parents' expectations, it may trigger parental disapproval.

    4.Parental concerns and protections.

    In some cases, parents do not approve of their children's romantic relationships, perhaps out of concern and protection for their children. Parents may think that the romantic partner is not mature and stable enough to be in a romantic relationship with their children, or that the romantic partner has bad habits and behaviors that will have a negative impact on the child's life and health.

    5.For people who are affected by these outrageous reasons for breaking up, they should strive to be confident and positive about their new relationship. You can find supporters to vent your emotions, adjust your mentality and way of thinking, gradually regain your self-confidence and courage, and start a new love life.

    We can find that many people in Xu Min's manuscript will regard whether the other party meets their expectations as an important factor in whether to choose to break up. Getting the other person to accept their own shortcomings and uniqueness is an important factor in maintaining a healthy and rewarding relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your family doesn't agree with your girlfriend, it's your girlfriend who should give up, not you! In this case, your girlfriend may not insist on continuing with you, what are you struggling with? You should be stable that it is your girlfriend, not that you are entangled in whether your family recognizes your girlfriend or not.

    Marriages that are not favored by their families are generally not happy, especially girlfriends who are not approved by the man's family, who are also guilty of marrying, not to mention that they have a bad life, and they have lived as the legend of Zhen Huan. Girls will give up such a man and choose someone else.

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter between two families, and there are quite a lot of relationships involved in the middle. There are family factors, as well as personal factors.

    <> the respondent gives the subject the following suggestions.

    1. If your parents are dissatisfied with the woman's appearance, you should let your parents see her good character and tell her advantages and stories in front of your parents.

    2 If it is because of the other party's parents, this is very difficult to do, and both sides need to coordinate the relationship.

    3. If it is because of dissatisfaction with the woman's personality and temperament, both parties need to adapt and change in this regard.

    4. If it is because of family background, then the woman needs to pay more time and energy to prove herself.

    The person you love loves yourself, you don't need to be swayed by others, because you live with the people you love, not with others, and you don't need to let people agree, just live your own life!

    Ask yourself the answer in your heart, in the long run, now your love may be dead and alive just because of the freshness, you are immersed in the sweetness of love. But love does not allow you to be fed and clothed, living together depends on the tacit understanding between two people, whether the three views are the same, parents are from the past, they may see the problem further, and your choice is not wrong. So you can get along with each other and think about it, there must be a reason why your family disagrees, and if you want to accept this reason, it is likely to be a long and painful process.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In life, you should constantly knock on the side, see the stitches and mention your girlfriend to your family, on the one hand, it will not be too abrupt to cause disgust to your family, and on the other hand, you will show your girlfriend's excellent points to your family and express your feelings for your girlfriend on the side.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    See why your girlfriend isn't recognized by your family. If it's something that can be changed, try to change it. Marriage will be happier if you can get the blessing of your family. If it's the reason you can't change, it's up to you to try to convince your parents to accept it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As long as you are convinced, supporting your girlfriend everywhere and protecting your girlfriend from being hurt by her family is the greatest help.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you should communicate well with your parents, and then you have to be firm in your position, and you have to stand with this girl, and most parents will agree with it in the end.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you love her, try for it!

    If your family thinks she doesn't agree with your relationship without a mother, you can do more ideological work as a parent! The family will understand!

    Your mother should love her as much as her own daughter!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, there are only two ways to say it, break up or stick together. Actually, I suggest that you ask your family why they don't agree with your girlfriend. It depends on whether their reasons are correct, normal, or deliberately nitpicking.

    As far as I think, if they refuse because your girlfriend has a foreign household registration or has a bad family condition, and you are with your girlfriend, I think this is the most undesirable.

    Although speaking of which, most families in China pay attention to the right person. But this is not an obstacle that modern young men and women need to break through together. I don't think that's the right thing to do.

    I think this kind of value can be changed, and it is up to you to convince your father and mother. Tell them that the times are different now, and now there is no need for matchmakers to get married, and the orders of their parents.

    If that's the case, if there is nothing wrong with that girl in essence, I still think you can still be happy together, and your parents can also be convinced, it's just a matter of time. If your family doesn't agree with your girlfriend, it's because your girlfriend has an unstable job and wears bells and whistles, these are very unreliable behaviors in the eyes of normal people anyway. If she has both, then you can really think about it.

    The reason why your parents don't agree is actually correct.

    So, the main thing is to look at the state of your life with your girlfriend, as well as the state of your relationship. If he is also a good person, but because of the discrimination of your parents, he does not let you be together, you can completely ignore it and be happy together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Now it is not like the feudal past, in the past, it was arranged by parents, and such customs have also created many marital tragedies. Many couples have lived their lives without feelings for each other. Nowadays, they all advocate free love, although it is much better than in the past, but if marriage is mentioned, it is still necessary for each other to be recognized by both parents.

    If your girlfriend is not recognized by her family, then the relationship is in a crisis. So how to solve the situation that your family doesn't agree with your girlfriend? First of all, it is necessary to appease your girlfriend, because since you have decided to take her to meet her parents, it proves that you have sincere feelings for her.

    In such a situation, your girlfriend must feel aggrieved. Reassure her well and tell her that you have firm thoughts, which is the first priority.

    Secondly, find an opportunity to talk to your parents and family. They don't agree with their girlfriend and always have a reason for disagreeing. According to their ideas, communicate well with the family members and resolve their misunderstandings about their girlfriends.

    At the same time, you must also make your position clear, since you have decided to walk the road together with each other, you must strengthen your confidence, and the original intention of your family is to hope that you can live happily and well.

    No matter how much your family is against it, they will eventually follow your own wishes, because your girlfriend will be your wife in the future and you will live together for the rest of your life. As long as you communicate well with your family and show each other's thoughts, things will be much easier.

    After communicating with your family, you should also talk to your girlfriend, you can understand each other, and let your girlfriend try to avoid conflicts in front of your family, so that your family can gradually recognize your girlfriend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This question should not be asked to others, and asking other people's words shows that you still care about other people's eyes. First of all, you must be 100% sure of your girlfriend in your heart, and secondly, you must use your sincerity to tell everyone that you must be with her, so that your girlfriend will dare to fight with you to the end. In the final analysis, your family is thinking about you, and a short girl is likely to affect the next generation, and some places will also feel that a short girl is not very face-saving.

    However, no one knows perfection, let a girl use her virtues to influence your family, neither of you should hold a grudge against your family because of this. You two must live well, time will tell! Wishing you all happiness!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's really too short, you should seriously consider it!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    See if you really love her, after all, it's your wife who has been with you all your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like it, your family will agree to it one day.

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