Looking back suddenly after 3 years, the feeling of first love is really heartbreaking! What am I go

Updated on psychology 2024-06-29
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Oh my God, it turns out that there are some men in the world who are as stupid as me. Let me tell you my results. Three years later, I met him by chance, and he had a girlfriend.

    I felt like a knife, it turned out that the relationship had not been forgotten but deepened in the past three years, so I decided that I could no longer fall in love with anyone else in this life except him, and resolutely broke up with my current boyfriend, went back to him, and let go of all my pride and self-esteem. What is the result, do you know? He laughed at me and told me never to look for him again.

    Remembering what he once said that he would take care of me and love me for the rest of my life, I finally just said dirty words to people for the first time: Were your promises all farting? He said, I was too naïve at the time.

    Ha ha. Landlord, your love only belongs to the past, and the person you love actually never exists. We love only the good impressions of the past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The first love is recalled for a lifetime, it is the simplest happiness, even if it is a quarrel, it will be happy, a sentence can always be remembered, a small object will not be thrown away until it is broken, a memory will remain after the end of the story, crying and saying that I forgot, in fact, I still remember it in my heart, so clear So don't let go of any opportunity, let the remaining fire in your heart burn, burn the whole forest, I wish you happiness

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's okay! What doesn't belong to you doesn't belong to you after all! Your love will come sooner or later!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After all, I once loved, when I look back, I will feel how much emotion, since I have returned to their respective shores, it can only be looking at each other, and the beauty of the past can only be kept as a memorial.

    It would be good if it could be redeemed, but I don't know what the psychology of the other party is.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How do you know your love is dead.

    In a few years, you'll know how ruthless you are.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Uncle. You just can't let it go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First love is bitter and unforgettable, and after many years of first love, I don't think it will come back under normal circumstances, although there are many people who say that they have a first love complex,I still can't forget the opposite sex I have been with before, but I think it has been so many years, everyone has experienced different things, and everyone has a different story.

    So the life experience we have accumulated over the years is not the same at all, in the end we just miss the person we got along with at the beginning, not the person now, so after the number of years of the chain is gone, under normal circumstances, it will not come back, even if we can get along normally at that time, it is also an ordinary friend,It is impossible for two people to resurge like in the TV series, because if you don't love feelings, you don't love, and if you change, you change, don't have any good wishes.

    When we watched TV series before, there were many people who had a lot of requirements for their other half when they were in love, and most of them were looking for the shadow of their first love, I think this kind of thing is completely nonsense, because in today's real society, everyone's life is in a hurry, and it is impossible to be so nostalgic anymore. We can only regard our first love as a good impression in our hearts, and don't have any hope for him, which will only make our lives more difficult later.

    The present days are like this, there are many people who feel that we should be nostalgic, we should have hope for the future, but we also have to have a sense of reverence for the pastBut I think we should take a long-term view, not just limit ourselves to the previous relationship between children and daughters, and stop missing our first love so deeply.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Young man, whoever leaves can live, and can live better, or you try, slowly let go of everything about her, she is not the one you love, you are not the original you, everything has become a memory, as long as you really pay, there is no regret, she does not have the blessing to enjoy the love you give, you have loved, experienced, it's good, people must go through before they know to cherish, will experience the true feelings, there is a person waiting for you, waiting for you to walk towards her, you don't stop, Go ahead! Just like the one who abandoned her, didn't he also have time to let him know that she was his dish, so that the two of them could get married, if it wasn't for time, would you know who was really the right person for you? Let this time pass!

    It's time to sleep, it's time to eat, do more good deeds, be kind, someone will come to you, love her well! Give her all your good, the woman in your life! There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but it is difficult to hold hands without the opposite side!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's that she doesn't cherish you, a man who has abandoned her once won't give her happiness (but that's not what you want to see, because you love her), you just lost someone who doesn't know how to cherish you and doesn't know how to love you, and she has lost a lot, but you who love her very much. Time will let you come out, brother, cheer up,

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It hurts, it really hurts, and the mental damage can't heal for a lifetime. That kind of pain is worse than death, like a walking dead who has lost its soul.

    When we were in early love, our teacher, told us that we would regret it, and we didn't believe it. Outcome.

    When we were in early love, our teacher told us that finding someone who loves you is much happier than finding someone you love. We don't believe it, as a result.

    When we were young, we heard a lot, and we thought we were old enough to stop listening to it, and as a result.

    Now that she is gone, let go decisively when she leaves, whether she is good or not, whether she is happy or not has nothing to do with you anymore. Even if she's not happy, it's not your responsibility. You are already strangers, you have cried enough, you are tired of crying, and your heart will feel better.

    All you can do is look forward and find someone who loves you and who you love. Have you ever thought that she may not have loved you at all, just enjoying the care you give her, that feeling of being pampered?

    Emotional matters are the most inexplicable, brother, believe in yourself, there is a person in this world who has always been waiting for you and waiting for you. But this person is never the one who makes your heart ache.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She will regret it, a person who once abandoned him, and will grieve her with actions again. Since she doesn't know how to cherish it, why should you embarrass yourself? There is always someone who understands you and loves you, look at the point, and wish them all the best until the divorce.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is called fate.

    Ever heard such a story:

    There was an unclothed female corpse on the beach, and the first person passing by took one look at the female corpse and walked away; The second passer-by covered the body of the female corpse with his clothes; A third passerby dug a pit in the beach and buried the woman's body. Later, the female corpse was reincarnated as a woman, she fell in love with the second passerby for more than ten years, and both loved each other very much, but when they finally decided to get married, they broke up. The woman ended up marrying someone she had known for less than a year, and that person was the third passerby.

    I don't know if you read a story.

    In fact, many times we are faced with such a problem.

    Don't worry, let alone regret.

    You love each other for two years, and that's your fate.

    As fate would have it, she wasn't the person in your life, so she left.

    People should look forward and believe that the days ahead will be good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People are like this, they often love her man, the more he doesn't like it, maybe it's rebellious psychology, maybe you spoil her, he's used to it, so he will adapt to finding another person's attitude towards him It's likely that that person scolds him and beats him, and he is happy, which means that you are tired of being with her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Life is like this, I'm different from you in that I was opposed by her parents twice, and this time it's completely over. There's no way to give up, the reality is that I don't have the conditions and the mood to continue waiting!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People only know how to cherish after losing, the more you treat him, the more he has no feelings for you, and they always feel that what they can't get is the best.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Only when a person loses does he know his preciousness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Four words, dead skin and face... That's a man's winning formula!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, it's important to make sure she loves you as much as you love her. If she doesn't love you anymore, let it go! There is no one in this world who is inseparable from whom!

    If he still loves you, think about why she just won't forgive you. Pay more attention to her and be considerate of her. Do something for her that hasn't been done before, she really loves you and she will forgive you!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Believe me, just let it go.

    Even if you two get back together, you won't feel the same way you used to feel.

    I myself am an example, please cherish it in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not that holding hands and shopping is considered love, if you want to chase her, tell you, bold and thin-skinned, surprise and rhetoric, there is no girl who can't chase.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, to be honest, this woman probably wanted to break up with you for a long time, but she just used this reason to divide early, it's better to divide early than later, brother.

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