Tell me why you re single

Single boys don't like it, and there is no shortage of girlfriends who like it, and I feel that good men are dominated, so I can only be single.

I like waves so much, every time I have a partner, I want to break up, and I've always been single.

Because I can't support myself now, my classmates persuade me to find a partner, and I usually reply to them like this, "I can't support myself and find a partner?" Do you eat dirt together? ”

Because I'm more introverted, I don't like to communicate with other people, so I know fewer girls and I'm always single.

It's so ugly that girls are scared away when they see me, and they only want to be friends with me, but they don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with me.

After graduating from college, I joined the work, busy with work, 8 to 5 in the morning every day, sometimes working overtime to communicate with customers, and there is no spare time to think about finding friends.

The family is poor and ugly, 1.49 meters, primary school education, rural hukou.

I don't have the strength now, I can't bring happiness, I'm working hard.

It's more comfortable to live alone, no one cares about you, you eat what you want, and you want to go wherever you want.

Probably because of the rural living environment, I am very kind and conservative. So much so that every time I meet a girl I like, and someone who likes me, I first think about whether I can marry her and then live together for the rest of my life. I always think too much, and I'm really afraid of hurting others.

Take the results too seriously. So I missed a lot. At the same time, it also left a lot of regrets.

Even so, I inevitably hurt a few girls who liked me. I'm really sorry for this, I'm really grateful that they can like me, some of my own emotional experience makes me refuse girls I don't like without hesitation, I think it's better for each other, at least it won't delay her to find her own happiness. ‍

Because my heart is very insecure, I am not strong enough, I don't want to rely on others, make trouble for others, once I fall in love, I will only end up only the person I like, subtly change to the same appearance as myself, and, sometimes, I think that with a girl who has a good impression of herself and a girl who has a good impression of herself, it is also good to care about each other, if the relationship between the relationship is determined, everything feels like it should be, and the friction between two people will be more and more, on the contrary, it will break each other's image in each other's hearts, so if I don't think I'm good enough, I won't really fall in love. ‍‍

Although he is an adult, he has no opinion about his various behavioral norms, a good baby in the eyes of his mother, a cowardice in the eyes of outsiders, a mother's style in life, what his mother says is what, and his mother has the final say on his relationship. ‍‍

If a man does not have a little responsibility, he must have no opinions in marriage. A man who has no opinions will always be like an unweaned child, and after marriage, a woman needs to be a strong woman, and a strong woman who is against his mother is not filial no matter how perfect she is. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more difficult to get along with. ‍‍

Maybe the previous relationship experience is not very smooth, meet a good person, we can quickly get acquainted, get to know each other, and become good friends, but I rarely say: "Let's be together".

The love I hope to meet is the kind of confession that doesn't need to be bothered, and it doesn't need to be tested by each other little by little, it is a matter of course after two people get to know each other well, and they only need a hug to be sure that they have met the right person. ‍‍

<> "This is probably the reason why you choose to be single.

1.Probably because I'm not good enough, it's better to be ambitious.

There is no skin of love at first sight, and there is no patience for long-term love.

3.I don't feel like I've met someone I like.

4.Envy the sweetness of two people and yearn for freedom.

5.Because I haven't learned to love myself better, I don't know how to love others.

6.I don't like my emotions because of him.

7.I know what kind of virtue I have, so I don't want to harm others.

8.said that he didn't want to fall in love, but he was actually afraid of hurting the other party and himself.

9.The person who likes it does not appear, and the person who appears does not like it.

10.Taste to the ability and money are not enough.

11.Sensitive and inferior.

12.I envy the tiredness of two people and hate the run-in of two people.

13.I don't even understand how I can force others.

14.It's not that I chose to be single, but to be single, and to choose me at a loss.

15.No one loves myself more than I do.

16.Can't control your emotions and your expectations are always too high.

17.I can't melt sand in my eyes, and I love to be jealous.

18.A person lives like a team.

19.There is a kind of singleness called that others always think that you are not single.

20.Addicted to all kinds of games, there is no way to extricate yourself.

The vast majority of people will choose to get married. ......But there are also people who like to live a single life and think "it's good to be single". These people think this way because they don't feel like they have to take on family responsibilities when they're single, they don't have to do more housework when they're single, and they don't have to worry about marital fights.

After getting married, there is a lot of housework, and I have to do housework after work, which is very hard. ......In a single life, there is not much housework, and as long as you are satisfied, you can skip housework, which will obviously make you feel more relaxed, and then produce a feeling of "it's good to be single".

2. Single life does not have to worry about husband and wife quarrels.

After getting married, although the husband and wife can support each other and face life together, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and even quarrels because of the differences between them. It's annoying to yourself. ......But single living effectively avoids this problem.

In the single state, living alone, not having to worry about the quarrel between the husband and wife, and being happy every day, such a state of life will make you feel more comfortable and satisfied.

3. Living single does not have to take on family responsibilities.

When you get married, you have to take on family responsibilities, which is a burden for yourself. ......If you are single, you don't have a family, so you don't have to take on family responsibilities. ......Because there are no burdens in life, you will feel more relaxed and happy, so you will feel "It's good to be single".

It is precisely because of the above situations that some people feel more comfortable living alone. But after all, there are many inconveniences in living alone, so for the vast majority of people, they will eventually choose to get married.

The advantage of being single is that you are not jealous, you don't care, you don't shed tears, you are not afraid of losing, you are not afraid of leaving, you are not afraid of being deceived and betrayed, and you are not afraid of being amorous, so it is good to be alone.

It's really good to be a person, but sometimes it's ......Occasionally a little lonely.

You can sleep until you wake up naturally, just be alone around yourself every day, and never have to worry about missing the festival and arguing with others. And you can save a lot of money.

The accumulation of wealth does not require half to be given to others, nor is it necessary to invite to dinner, nor does it need to go on a date. Because there is no object to please, you can save money on makeup, clothing, etc.;

The arrangement of holidays can be completely autonomous, and there is no need to be arranged by others;

Some habits that are not too healthy, but very comfortable, can be maintained without being monitored;

It's very free, and I don't care about what I want.

Okay, you can improve yourself.

1. The benefits of being single.

1. You can always go on a trip.

If you wake up in the morning with the urge to travel abroad, hike through the mountains to Iceland or take a boat trip to the tropics, how do you think your romantic partner would react? If you don't include them in your plans, they're going to be unhappy. However, single people can travel freely, and if in your mind, you consider yourself a wanderer, then a single life may be suitable for you.

2. You can flirt with others without fear.

Let's face this phenomenon: whether you are single or not, sometimes, people are flirtatious. In essence, this flirting is usually unconscious, if a single person ends up in a relationship with a family man, but this can still lead to an awkward situation.

The sudden appearance of a spoiler between partners will lead to an awkward situation that can quickly turn into a terrible conflict. So, if you like to flirt, then single life might be for you.

3. You can work independently.

When having a partner, it's easy to get complacent. A survey conducted by researchers in the United Kingdom found that 62% of respondents gained 14 pounds or more after people started a relationship. This weight gain appears to be a direct consequence of typical date night activities.

When asked about the main event of their date, 30% of respondents would choose to watch TV and 20% would choose to eat food together. If you want to focus on improving your body and mind, then a single life might be for you.

4. You can save a lot of time.

Sending or receiving affectionate messages is a lot of fun, but can you imagine how much precious time couples spend on their phones? Without timely communication with their partner, most people become anxious. As a result, most people spend hours a day texting and calling**.

Of course, you can choose a partner who is independent, but you can find that finding such a partner is not easy to find. If you want to devote more time to a more effective aspect, then single living may be for you.

5. You can have a quiet and sweet sleep.

Confession: I really, really want to be hugged. I've been single for a long time, and I like to be single in many ways, but the lack of physical contact drives me crazy (maybe I should find a buddy to cuddle with).

This brings us to the point that even though it's nice to snuggle up, it makes me feel uncomfortable sleeping with someone else (especially if they snore) and if you know that feeling, then you're fit for a single life.