Is it necessary to keep a record of your past with your partner before getting married?

Everyone should have their own privacy, but not everything is rooted in the same mind, because you have to consider his ability to bear, his personality you should be able to understand, don't open which pot is not opened, and generally speaking, don't talk about things that are taboo.

I wanted to know about my husband-to-be before, but he always didn't say much, I wanted to know, and I was afraid to know, because the more I knew, the more sad I might be, and I didn't dare to ask more, for fear that he would be annoyed. Oh, it's a contradiction.

In fact, every time he inadvertently said something, before and who, who, how and how, I listened carefully.

In fact, there is no need to investigate too much about the past, and thinking about the future is the main thing.

Adjust your mentality, don't ask or explain anything, and don't hide anything, the natural is the best.

You're right, but why did you have this idea, why didn't you say it before, did you think that you had such an idea when you thought of getting married, or what's going on, I think if it's something that the other party cares about very much, you should say it, if it's an inconsequential thing, then it's okay to say it or not. If you're embarrassed, you can let him say it first, and then you can talk about it when he's done. That way you know what to say and what not to say.

If it's about the things that were the same in the past, I feel that even if you walk together, you don't care about the previous things, and after you get along, you haven't done anything to be sorry for each other is more important than anything you say. You say not? I wish you happiness.

Yes, the past is the past, the present is the present, you can put it all in the computer and hide it, and it's normal for a person to have a little privacy.

No, I think I should have privacy, if the other party wants to say it myself, I think it's a small measure, not loving yourself, I think, since you love yourself, you should love all of yourself, if the other person doesn't love her past, then I think her love is only a momentary excitement.

If it's normal, then say it, don't tell her that kind of thing, normal minor injuries, serious ones are death...

Occasionally you can say it, but if you don't feel like there's anything special, you can leave it alone.

Personally, I mind this, but I can't kill everyone with a stick.

Therefore, not all men mind the past of their other half, but most people should be more concerned.

You must mind, unless you lack an eye.

It's just that there is someone who loves you and is willing to tolerate you.

Some people are stingy and worry about you.

I don't mind, who hasn't passed this year, he has a past.

It's all in the past, and there's nothing to worry about.

It's not that men are different for everyone.

Personally, I think it's correct, because you can see a lot of things when traveling, such as values, worldview, etc., and you can see whether you are suitable or not. After all, getting married is a big deal, and it is still necessary to get to know each other better and not let yourself regret it.

Personally, I think that before getting married, it is more suitable for me to travel

Yes, traveling two people to a strange place can best reflect a person's literacy.

Traveling with a person is the best way to see the personality, and I think it is very good to travel together before marriage, and have an opportunity to deal with problems together and see whether two people are suitable or not.

Before getting married, it is not suitable to travel together.

It's best to travel alone or with your family.

It's better to spend more time with your parents and family.

In the future, there will be less and less time with your parents.

"Don't think that you are a place and you are very mindful, you are not qualified to mind" This sentence is more interesting, if you can't mind the other half of your place, then are those who have been to a lot of women qualified to mind? It shows that you have no logic to speak of.

Everywhere is very important, if you can do anything, then why do you want to get married? How easy and comfortable is it for everyone to live together? Don't be responsible.

It's even more nonsense to scold LZ for being unproductive, and it's wrong to be serious and innocent about feelings?

I said you're not qualified to be angry, not qualified to close the problem, and not qualified to fart here!

Yes, it depends on how much you like her, if you think she is not bad in nature, she is a single-minded person, and she will not be stupid enough to be deceived in the future, just give her a chance. In any case, the years to come will be longer, and the broken love will be used to make up for it later, so it can only be like this.

Caring means that you have him in your heart, and since you love him, you must tolerate his cut, including his strengths and weaknesses. Pretend that nothing happened, and things will end well. Treat it calmly. Follow!

Everyone has a past, you may not be unable to stand his past, just because you don't have that kind of past that can make you mentally balanced, if you offend, please forgive me.

Since it is in the past, it means that you did not know each other at that time, did you not go over? Now as long as there is none.

I'm not you, I can't give you the answer you want, but I think to accept this person is to accept everything about him, past, present, and future, good, evil, beautiful and ugly.

She cares more than you love her. Then don't be together, even if you are together, you won't have a good time.

Then don't be together, being together is also painful, it's right to be separated.

If you care, why do you need to be together, it can only show that you don't love enough.

If you find another one, you must be happy? I still cherish the present. So ......

If you care about his past, you just don't love him, and if you don't love him, don't be together.

cares about the past, because you don't love him, so you can't tolerate it.

If you really love them, you won't care about that.

No. Because I don't have property, only deposits.

He had no savings, only an old house left to him by his father.

We know each other well, our relationship is stable, and we trust each other.

There is no need to notarize the property.

I didn't do property justice when I got married, and now I regret it. I think that property justice should be carried out, so that it is good for both parties and there are no unnecessary quarrels.

There is no justice, because neither of us had property before we got married.

This type of prenuptial agreement is important if one or both of you had a lot of assets before the marriage.

For example, before Liu Qiangdong and Milk Tea got married, he signed a "prenuptial agreement", stipulating that Milk Tea Zhang Zetian could not own Liu Qiangdong's property before marriage.

Some may be more detailed, including how the property should be distributed if the divorce is made, so as to prevent the other party from marrying for money.

Generally speaking, people who are willing to sign a prenuptial agreement have a more mature mindset about marriage.

Feelings must be able to talk about money, dare not talk about money, don't want to talk about money, are all taking feelings as child's play.

If these can be thoroughly communicated and agreed upon before marriage, then the marriage is really worth closing, these are not discussed before marriage, but until something goes wrong, this is not marriage, but hooliganism.

I think that paying attention to the relationship does not distinguish whether it is before or after marriage, but during the relationship, because the other party is not the other half you have, you want to have him (her) as your wife or husband for the rest of your life, you must pay strong love and sincere action, so that he (she) feels that you are a person who can be entrusted for life. When you become husband and wife, you and him (her) must also pay attention to the emotional life after marriage, in addition to making each other feel that there is also the sweetness of love, but also to jointly transform part of each other's love into love for children, and turn the previously separated life into a harmonious married life.

Pay attention to your career first, when you have a career, your relationship will be much easier to find, and it will be much smoother.

This still depends on the person, and the life you want to live. I think, like me, because I like big family-style family life, so I pay more attention to family affection, and the direction of love is also the development of family affection, so love is also included It's not that I don't yearn for a career, because I haven't stepped into society, so I don't know how my work ability will be, but I feel, I feel that I'm more suitable for family life, so my focus is on feelings.

Yes, if you don't have feelings, you can't get married, no blame, when you get married, it's too late to find out, and the world doesn't sell regret medicine, I personally think that before getting married, you should keep your eyes open, and you should turn a blind eye when you get married, so that you can last forever.

That's how it should be, feelings are the bond of happiness, and there is no happiness without feelings. Feelings are also mutual between the two, one party has feelings, but the other party does not, that is not real love.

At all times, you have to pay attention to feelings, will you be happy if you get married without feelings, only if you value feelings will you get the love of a girl.

Not necessarily, you can use your relationship as your strong fortress, or you can focus on your career and cultivate it slowly after marriage.

Feelings should be emphasized. Regardless of whether you are married or not.

How to say it!! Sometimes family affection is more important than affection. Hehe.. It depends.

If you love her, you should pay attention to feelings.

Maintain your career and your relationship well, I think so.

Career first, with a career, feelings will follow.

Relationship and career, double harvest is better.