Do you mind your partner s past?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think I mind my partner's past, because everyone has their own past, and since it's already in the past, don't dwell on it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To be honest, for any person, there may be a little bit of concern about their partner's past, after all, you also want to know about his past life, but you shouldn't pay too much attention to his past, after all, you choose the present and the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I wouldn't, if he had already handled every relationship correctly, I wouldn't mind, because everybody has a bit of a past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't mind my partner's past, but I do mind if he's still nostalgic for the past.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Say don't mind those must be fake! It's all about saying that she doesn't mind, and if she really lets them know her past, she can't stand it in her heart; Besides, many people even care about their own past, how can they not care about other people's past?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, I said I don't mind, there are certainly not many people who will believe most people, and they will be very mindful of what their partner's past is like.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's a question I think is to say don't mind, and certainly not many people will believe most people, and they will really mind what their partner's past is like.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In my opinion, as long as he is sincere to you now, then you should not care about what happened to him, after all, everyone has a past.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think as long as he is sincere to you now, then you shouldn't care about what happened to him, after all, everyone has a past.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone has a past, as long as the past is not a problem, I don't think there is any need to care, the past is the past, and I have a past, will the other party also care?

    When two people are together, the important thing is the present and the future, if the other party has already let go of the past, why should they be obsessed with it and use things that have nothing to do with themselves to affect the present and the future. I think I should look at my own and each other's past objectively.

    First, learn lessons and experiences from the past, and constantly improve yourself, so that the present and future of two people are better.

    Second, don't always mention TA to the other party, so that the other party will also be disgusted, and it is also disrespectful to the other party.

    Third, respect each other's past experiences, cherish the present relationship, and plan for the future.

    In short, two people together, cherish each other, the best management of the crack locust is the most important, the past is over, there is no need to care.

    Since I chose TA, I don't care about his past. No matter what he has done before, it will eventually come down to the past, he is free when he doesn't know me, he has the right to pursue and arrange his own life, he doesn't feel sorry for me, as long as he can turn a new page and live with me seriously, what do I care about? people, who will not have a little past.

    If you keep holding on to other people's past and don't relax, there is no way to live this life.

    Do you mind your partner's past?

    In the beginning, I will care, but if I like it in the future, I will not care, but if the other party has someone from the past in his heart, he will care.

    Everyone has a past, as long as the past is not a problem, I don't think there is any need to care, the past is the past, and I have a past, will the other party also care?

    When two people are together, the important thing is the present and the future, if the other party has already let go of the past, why should they be obsessed with it and use things that have nothing to do with themselves to affect the present and the future.

    I think I should look at my own and each other's past objectively.

    First, learn lessons and experiences from the past, and constantly improve yourself, so that the present and future of two people are better.

    Second, don't always mention the past to the other party, so that the other party will also be disgusted and disrespectful to the other party.

    Third, respect each other's past experiences, cherish the present relationship, and plan for the future.

    In short, two people together, cherish each other, better management is the most important, the past is over, there is no need to care.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I particularly like this person, I don't mind his past, if I don't particularly like it, then I will definitely care about his late passage or departure, maybe some reason in the past will lead to our breakup.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to mind so much that I was single ever since; I don't mind now, but none of them have a limb ruined.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't care about their past, because I think everyone has a history, everyone has a past, and if I am not perfect, how can I ask the other person to be perfect.

    First of all, there will always be this and that mistakes on the road of growth, there will always be this or that stain, it is impossible to say that he will not make mistakes all the way to growth, even if he is a saint, it is impossible for him to keep himself from making mistakes. While caring about the past of others, I will also reflect on myself, after all, I am not a perfect person.

    Secondly, when people come to this world, they need to go through the experience, different people go through different things, go through different periods, in order to make themselves more stable, to make their minds more mature. As long as it is not a big mistake, as long as it is not a crime or a crime, then there is no need to worry about these pasts.

    Third, caring about other people's past is actually a journey with oneself, because there is no way to change the past. In fact, there is a very good saying, people live in the breath, do not care about yesterday, do not look forward to tomorrow, but live today. Because there is no point in caring about yesterday, we have no way to change, we can't go through, and Wang Yuan can either accept or leave the irreversible and unchangeable things.

    I think the most important thing for two people to get along when they get along together is whether they are compatible, whether they are happy at the moment, whether they have plans for the future, and whether they can enter the palace of marriage are the things that they should think about and care about at the moment. So I don't care about his past.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is it necessary to mind the past of the other half.

    Some people mind very much, afraid that the other party's past has no past, afraid that the ex will cry, the current will lose, and the empty oak doesn't care, and if he doesn't participate in the first half of the other party's life, he will try to be the rest of his life.

    In fact, if you care too much about the other party's past, or even linger on it, it will only estranged the current relationship and eat away at each other's trust, and in the end it must be a parting of ways, and it really doesn't make sense to punish the present with the past. The past is in the past, there is no way to erase it, and there is no way to change it, and what we can do is to cherish the present and join hands in the future.

    Is it necessary to mind the past of the other half What do you think about the past of the other half.

    Anyone will have a past experience, and it would be a lie to say that there is no world loss at all and that I don't mind, how to say it If you really care about the other party, you will still let go of the previous things. After all, the present and the future are more important. In fact, everyone has some kind of experience, whether it is good or bad, those unforgettable will still leave traces in their hearts after all.

    Since two people can be together, they should let go of the past. In the face of the present and the future in the future, those past things have passed, we don't have to deliberately forget those memories, it's good to be plain, it's good to be happy.

    How do you feel about your partner's past?

    What many people mind is not whether the object has been in love before, but whether he has really let go of that relationship and lived his current life sincerely.

    The things that went before, the days before are an integral part of a person. Perhaps it is precisely because of his experiences that he has created a different person now, which has made him enter our eyes and hearts among thousands of people, entangled in the past, it is meaningless, the important thing is the present. As long as the new and wholehearted investment in the present relationship is enough.

    Love is an infinite longing for everyone, and being able to join hands with your first love is of course the result that everyone wants.

    Is it necessary to mind the past of the other half What do you think about the past of the other half.

    But there is also a lot of love, which can't go to the end, and has to break up for some reasons.

    Life has to go on, and the wounds of falling out of love will slowly heal over time, so who doesn't have a few romances in their life, these are all normal.

    Who doesn't have the past, but some people don't mind the other half's past, the past is the past, and the most important thing is the present, and some people don't mind the other half of the past very much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't mind my partner's past, but I will cherish the current loving life, which can make love sweeter and sweeter.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The first point is that people are selfish and possessive. Whether it is a series of strong and weak relationships between the head and another person, such as family affection, friendship, or love, they all hope that the other party belongs to them completely, so it is difficult for people to accept the past of another person, that is, they care about each other's past very much.

    The second is because people are afraid of losing. Because he is afraid, he is afraid that his past will make him lose another person.

    Whether you care or not, the past is real! There are good and bad memories of the past! Every today will become the number of the past attacks, no matter what Zen Envy is, the past is actually made by yourself today, so do you mind?

    Actually, I don't think you need to care too much, just a little bit, I hope you can remember the past for self-reflection, in order to be a better self! What do you think?

    If it's your partner's past, it's good to care about it, it means that you love her, but don't raise this to the level of lingering, often this is the easiest way to turn you into her have a past! So what do you think?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think about the ant cavity from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, then you can't love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, more or less stuffy will show some behavior, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you mind those things very much.

    His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Suggestion, suggestion, who doesn't want the other half to be clean?

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