Would you rather marry someone you don t love very much, but who is more suitable?

I think I'm willing. In the past, you may have thought that love is a matter of two people, as long as you love each other, you can be together, and you don't need to consider other factors.

But then I slowly found that love is not able to replace all, there are always other reasons that will limit your emotions, and slowly affect your feelings, if two people love each other, but it is not suitable, there will be friction slowly, and it is easy to quarrel after friction, once the quarrel is made, it is the beginning of endlessly.

Now I think suitability is more important than love, I believe in love at first sight, but I also believe in love over time. So I think as long as two suitable people are together, then the emotion can be cultivated slowly, after all, the marriage of two people is not just a matter of two people, it is related to two families. When thinking about getting married, you should not only consider what you and the other person think, but also what the rest of the family thinks.

For example, although I have a good relationship with him and think that the other party is very suitable, but our parents feel that the two families are not suitable, then I will reconsider whether the two of us should get married. Of course, the best relationship is when two people love each other and are very suitable, so that they can enter the palace of marriage without any burden, and there is no need to consider other factors. But there are not many examples of such perfection in life, so since I am considering marriage, I am willing to choose someone who suits me rather than choose one, love me, but not for me.

Marriage should be a stable state for two people to be comfortable, isn't marriage just for the stability of love? So if after getting married, the relationship between two people is very stiff because of some friction, then what's the point? It's better to choose a person who is suitable for you, who can complement each other emotionally and characterly, so that life is suitable for a long stream.

I don't want to, the love I want is pure, I don't love but it's appropriate, I don't want to get married, the wedding is sacred, I'm not rigid, this is a matter of principle, if you don't love, there will be contradictions, and if there is a contradiction, two people will go to the road of separation, why do you want to make do with it if you know that you will be separated. When it comes to love, I don't want to make do.

Although I am not a perfect person, I long for a perfect wedding, not love but suitable, this is not perfect, I want a wedding is not only suitable, but also love each other, without the foundation of love together is unhappy, I can't explain the wedding like this.

The basis of marriage lies in whether the two love each other or not, the recipe for a happy marriage is that the two love each other, do not love each other, do not love even if it is suitable, can not give their own wedding, our marriage should be based on love, no love, how can he take care of each other, not very love, and how to be sure that he is loyal to me, he who does not love me, I would rather not, than do not want to make do with each other, although I can never meet such a suitable marriage partner, I have no regrets.

I'm not afraid of age, geography, education, or even family gaps, I'm just afraid that he doesn't love me enough, I'm lazy, I'm afraid that he doesn't love me anymore, and I can't keep it, and end the marriage that should be happy. I treat him with sincerity, and I hope he will return with sincerity. If he doesn't love enough, then don't talk about weddings, and I will never allow a holy wedding to be regretted for not being loved.

I'm not afraid of not being rich in money, but I'm afraid of not being rich in love.

Well, of course I do, because now I can't even find the object, and someone can't hurry.

Love is a very close and far word, they are very close and far away from you and me, but marriage is all in front of you, love and so on can not wait, only to fight for yourself, but marriage can wait, when the time comes, you have to get married, have to pass on the ancestry.

When the time comes, you can only find a person you don't love very much, but more suitable for marriage, no way, the urging of your parents, the pressure of society, there are various problems in all aspects, you have to get married, everything is helpless There is no way, but everything seems so normal, as if life should be as before.

I definitely won't make this choice, in fact, there is a person, the conditions are very suitable, but if I don't love him very much, I won't choose to marry him.

Because I think marriage is too long, even if you get married with someone who loves you very much, after many years, you will have the feeling that you can't go on, because the two people are familiar, there is no freshness, and the attraction of all sides is very special. And if you marry someone who you don't love very much at all, just because the conditions are suitable, then you can imagine how to deal with it when your marriage is not new, or when your marriage encounters some problems? Will you be able to keep going?

For me, I think that marriage must be based on love before it can be considered, and I feel that marriage is just to find a home for one's love, not to marry for the sake of marriage. If a person does not have decades in his life, why should he suffer for himself? Isn't it too sad to find someone you don't love at all, just because the conditions are right and get married?

If you find someone who is in love with you and get married, two people can live happily together for decades, anyway, I think if you marry someone you don't love very much, you won't love very much after marriage. How can such two people live together together? And there will be so many difficulties in life, with a person you don't love very much, and he doesn't love you very much, how can you get through the difficulties together?

There are many people who love each other in the event of a big disaster, and they fly separately when the disaster comes, not to mention being with someone who is not very loved, do you still point to him to accompany you through thick and thin? If it were me, I would rather be single than marry someone who I don't love very much, but who is more suitable. Marriage is one's own happiness, and you must not marry because of anyone, let alone because of any conditions, only because of love.

I don't think I will. Of course, if there is time to hone in on this relationship, I should be able to accept it. After all, it is more difficult to find someone who is in love and suitable. <>

If this is the case, why rush to get married? Marriage can be postponed! Since it's appropriate, leave plenty of time to get used to it.

Whether two people can truly love each other, and if so, then get married. If you really can't get along, then give up. It may be a person who pursues love.

I also pursue the perfection of a marriage.

I feel that marriage is a lifelong event, and I still have to find someone I love and love me as much as possible, otherwise how uncomfortable it will be for a lifetime. The more two people look at it, the more annoying they become, and then life must be unhappy.

Actually, I don't quite understand what you mean by appropriateness? If it is suitable for some family conditions and some social status, then do not think about marriage. Also, if the personality aspect and some three views or something are more suitable, it is also okay between friends.

Do we have to take into account the level of marriage?

In fact, if you can, you should consider the emotional factor. After all, when you are with the person you like, you will be willing to encounter any difficulties in the future. It's also acceptable.

In fact, there is a vast sea of people. Sometimes it's not easy to meet someone, but sometimes it's easy. So don't worry, you will meet someone you love and the right person to marry you.

Maybe this idea is too unrealistic, but you still have to hold on to good hopes. After all, there are some things that cannot be compromised.

May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married. I also wish everyone who is single can find the right person and love it.

Frankly, I'm no. There's no way I want to spend the rest of my life living with someone I'm not the right person for.

There are a lot of people in the world who can be suitable, but not necessarily the ones you really love. Because there are many suitable people, but there are more than so many people who are good to you. You can count the number of people who love you.

Love is a lifelong thing, if you don't love, leave quickly, don't delay other people's lives, other people's time and other people's lives. I don't love others very much, so why should I spend the rest of my life with someone who I don't feel like I can talk about emotionally, in life, career, or in love? We may hardly share the same values, we just have a little bit of similarity.

But there are more people with similar personalities in the world, why should we choose someone we don't love to spend the rest of our lives with?

We can wait for love, but I don't want many people to pursue a suitable person who they don't love. Because love and life are lifelong things. A long, long time later, when you look back on the past, you feel that you have lived a mediocre life by choosing someone you don't love, and you may have no value in this life, and you feel that life is meaningless, what is the difference between that and dying?

The answer is no, that's no different from dying, so why live in this world? Maybe I'm talking a little heavier, but that's exactly what it is. Love someone with your heart, and every moment of life is meaningful.

So I don't want to find someone I don't love but the right person to live with, which is equivalent to wasting my time and wasting my life.

I would like to marry such a person. Because in real life, there are very few people you seem to like. Some people may never find their true love in their lives, but it does not prevent him from finding a suitable family and finding his own happiness.

Some people are just too obsessed with finding what they like. The world is so big, do you really know what you like? I'm sure most people are unsure.

If the one in front of you is something you like very much, but the conditions are not suitable. And the other is that although you don't like it very much, the conditions are very suitable for you. Which will you choose?

I'm sure most people would choose the latter. After all, life after marriage is the most important thing, not whether you like it or not. Of course, there are those who chase to the end for love, but it takes a lot of courage.

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Therefore, if I had to choose me, I would definitely choose the right one for me, after all, the relationship is slowly cultivated. In my opinion, there is no such thing as likes and dislikes, only likes and hates. If at first glance this person is not annoying, then, later in life.

Feelings will be cultivated slowly. And this is when the advantages that are right for you will appear.

Feelings don't come in an instant, feelings are cultivated slowly. Like or dislike is not decided at first sight. When the time comes, with the efforts of both parties and accumulating more and more, the impact of feelings on the lives of both parties will get better and better.

We cannot deny the importance of material life, even if you like someone again, if you do not have the conditions to live, the final result is not optimistic. And even if you don't like someone very much, after a long time of running-in and emotional cultivation, you can eventually treat each other like relatives. That's where the right thing happens.

In the past, my idea was to find someone who loved me and loved me to marry. Slowly it became enough to find someone who loved me, and now I suddenly feel that if I can find a suitable one, it is also a good choice. Fit is like wearing shoes, whether it is comfortable or not can only be known when you wear <>

Some people have never been able to find a suitable person for the word in their lifetime. Because it says a good job of your life, it's all the same. There won't be too many disputes, and there won't be quarrels in terms of living habits because you don't eat spicy food, I want to eat spicy food.

They also discuss big things, and the two people probably have the same idea.

Many times it is even felt that suitability is more important than love. I have a distant relative who once eloped with her boyfriend because of love. No matter how her family persuaded her, she was just a tendon, and said that he would not marry in this life.

Her boyfriend has always been out and about, and he has a short temper. may have been gentle with her at the beginning, but after so long, there is also a kind of boredom, often punching and kicking her. It is still said that beating is kissing and scolding is love, may I ask, what kind of love is this?

She is not as good as her sister, although her sister was introduced by the family, and she is also a Sven text, but she is very suitable for her sister. The small life of these two people is also delicious.

Some people may think that having money is appropriate, but I think that suitability should be considered from many aspects. For example, whether two people get along harmoniously, whether the tempers of two people are compatible, and whether the difference in living habits between two people is not big. These are all appropriate factors to consider.

Just like the TV I watched, the male protagonist is very rich, rich and handsome, and the female protagonist is just an ordinary person. In the eyes of outsiders, they are not suitable at all, but the male protagonist said, I am responsible for earning money to support the family, and she is responsible for it. This may also be a fit.

I feel like I'm glad that there is love between me and my boyfriend, and it's a good fit. Both two people and their families identify with each other. So in this way, life will not be so tiring in the future, and it will be more enjoyable.