Shouldn t girls take the initiative to confess?

Since ancient times, in many people's cognition, boys should chase girls, boys should take the initiative, and girls should always be reserved. Most people think that this is the only way to achieve their own happiness.

But I don't think so. Actually, I used to think that way, but then I gradually realized that happiness should actually be in my own hands.

Because if you think about it, if you like a guy, but he probably won't know what you want. There is also how much fate two people have to rely on to look forward to it, and he can also like you like him, and he happens to like you. So this kind of thing should actually be in your own hands.

If you really like him, you don't want to be bound by these traditional ideas, and of course you don't take the initiative to confess as soon as you stalk a girl. As many people say, boys always have a curious mentality. Probably nature.

It is especially easy for a boy to get a girl, then he will not cherish it. I think there is some truth to this.

After all, this is a lesson that many people have summed up. So in fact, all you need to do is to consciously or unconsciously reveal that you have feelings for him. However, you shouldn't take the initiative to tell him that I like you.

Then you can look at his thoughts, and if he has a heart set on you, then he will definitely choose to take the initiative. If he doesn't have a heart for you, even if you take the initiative to confess, your outcome will not be very happy.

So again, happiness is actually in your own hands, and you shouldn't think too much about it, but you should also consider it in combination with the actual situation.

Many people think that confession is a boy's business, and girls should only wait for boys to confess, in fact, I think this kind of thinking is very wrong, why don't girls have the right to choose to pursue their own happiness?

I used to be a quiet and timid girl who looked weak, but in fact, I've always been a person who dares to act, and then once I decide on it, I'll definitely do it.

Some people have also said that I don't feel like the character of a quiet girl, but I like my character very much, straightforward and daring.

I once liked a guy who almost everyone recognized that we were a couple, but he never confessed to me, so I couldn't hold it back and confessed to him directly. Well, although he said yes, but I don't feel like he agreed to me because he liked me, so we are still friends as before, and it seems that my confession was just a joke. Maybe that's the best ending, we didn't become friends because of my confession.

Although it was very uncomfortable at the time, what I want to say is that I have never regretted my confession, because if I don't confess, I will always be guessing whether he likes me or not, and I will always wait for him to confess to me.

But I really confessed, I did everything I wanted to do, whether I was together or not, I have no regrets.

Also, I want to tell you that women chasing men are generally separated by veils, and men chasing women are separated mountains.

With the development of the times, people's concepts have also changed, in the past, girls were more shy and introverted, but now in such a diversified era, I think girls should take the initiative to confess when they meet someone they like.

It is not easy for people to meet the person they like in the vast sea of people, and they may regret it if they miss it, who will know that the person you miss is not their right other half? Therefore, when a girl meets someone she likes, she should be brave enough to chase after it, and then start a happy relationship.

Some girls may be embarrassed to speak, or they may be shy and introverted, but I think that in this case, when you meet someone you like, you should take the initiative to confess, because this is conducive to exercising yourself, because it is very difficult to break through yourself, since you like a boy, you should convince yourself and take the initiative to confess, so that you will make great progress in your introverted and shy personality.

Some girls may be worried, because they are afraid of what to do if their confession is not successful, will it be very embarrassing, such an idea itself I think is misunderstood, liking a person and confessing is not a shameful thing, everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, so, I think once you have a boy you like, you should confess to him when you are sure to be with him, and know this person very well.

I think girls who take the initiative to confess also have a different kind of charm, first of all, such girls are very brave and decisive, and many people don't often say that if you take the initiative a little more, we will have a story. Therefore, what you believe in yourself must take the initiative to fight for it, and the feelings are the same.

Because of his own voluntary confession, if he succeeds, he can be with the boy he likes, isn't this a good thing?

So I want to say that if you meet a boy you like, the girl should take the initiative to confess and start a relationship that she has won for herself, doesn't it sound particularly happy? So, if you have a boy you like, let's do it, girls!

If you meet a boy you like, take the initiative to confess, and say it out loud, this is youth. It is said that "men chase women, separate mountains, women chase men, and interlayer yarns", now in the 21st century, women in the new era must dare to express their thoughts and emotions, and love must be spoken out.

I think it should, no matter how boys and girls meet someone they like, they should be bold to pursue, and it is easy to miss love if you are passive

I think confession is very needed, because confession can be the beginning of the pursuit of a relationship, or it can be a sign of the maturity of a relationship. If the confession is regarded as a key step in the warming of the relationship, the last stage of the rocket for the spacecraft to lift off. Then the relationship will come naturally.

I think you have to confess, if a relationship doesn't even have a clear beginning, how can you be sure of the other person's intentions? What if someone ends up saying, "We never started, everything is just wishful thinking on your part"?

A confession is equivalent to a promise that both parties approve of the relationship, are willing to take responsibility for the relationship, be loyal to each other, and give each other enough security. Instead of starting at random and ending at random, treat love as child's play.

If there is no confessional feeling, it can only be regarded as ambiguous or "spare tire". Because when you love someone, you can't help but want to express your love to them, and at the same time hope that their love is also exclusive to you, in their hearts, they are special, different from others, there is a feeling of "you belong to me, your love is given to me, you can't give it to others".

Confession is an expression of love, and I don't even want to confess, I can only say that I don't love enough.

All need a sense of ritual, confession, is the first step in the marriage and love relationship. Through getting along and getting along, the two parties slowly accumulate their feelings, and want to further develop their relationship with each other and turn this relationship into love, just like there is a difference between "good feelings" and "love".

In love, the girl's initiative to confess is not cheap, but rather a frank and efficient performance.

In the twenties of the 21st century, the willingness of girls to actively pursue a happy love life is getting stronger and stronger, and there are many girls who take the initiative to confess their feelings.

It's just that girls like Xiaolin in the case still exist, if they can be honest about their feelings and ruthless, then they will be more relaxed on the road of love.

Some older girls do not miss the marriage because they did not meet their lovely lovers, but because they did not express their feelings in a timely manner.

Therefore, when a girl meets a satisfied boy in love, why not take the initiative and bravely confess it when the boy is uneasy, maybe the marriage will be done.