What should I do if I meet a villain roommate? How do I get along with my roommates?

How do we feel so much alike! I was so kind and weak that I was bullied by one of the people in the dormitory...He's always been like that, bullying people who are weaker than him. In fact, it is inevitable to have conflicts with the dormitory, the key is to have conflicts with the villain, then it will be troublesome, villain, that heart is so little bit of a needle, usually have a good relationship with other people, protect yourself, and ignore its existence

Four mindsets can help you.

If you are a villain, I will stay away from it and basically do not get along with each other further. Because I feel that I am tired of getting along with villains, and I can't find friends myself, so the well water doesn't interfere with the river water.

The so-called pro-gentleman, far from the villain, try to stay away, try to avoid ta, don't have too much intersection with ta, such people can't have deep friendships.

I don't think I should have too much contact with him, and I should be careful not to speak ill of others when I get along with him on weekdays. Don't discuss him privately.

In the case of ensuring that you are not bullied by her, try to coexist peacefully, and it is better not to be too stiff to live in a dormitory.

Try to avoid this kind of person, because this kind of person is very selfish, they only think about themselves, and they don't think about others. Try to do everything yourself.

Be extra careful. The so-called villain is very good at wearing small shoes, you don't have any tricks to catch him, otherwise, the consequences are unpredictable.

You can do to him as he would have done to you, and you will not be polite, and you will be cold and violent to him, there is no need for such a person to play with him.

Deliberately keep your distance, usually don't go to class together, don't call her when you go to the canteen or anything, just keep the politeness on the surface.

I can only try to avoid too much contact with her, but after all, living in a dormitory together, it is impossible not to talk at all.

In this all-encompassing world, we will inevitably meet some very unpleasant roommates during our time in school, and sometimes this feeling makes people feel very uncomfortable, if you don't handle the relationship with him well, your entire school life may be ruined by this little person. So, how do you get along with such roommates?

Since you don't like such roommates, try not to share joy and not show your pain. Because the display of your excessive feelings will make him grasp the weakness of your feelings, so you must keep your feelings and not leak too much to him. Then keep a serious attitude towards his initiative to approach, so that he thinks that you are not easy to get along with, so that he will not provoke you easily.

When getting along with such a roommate, try not to talk about anything important, because talking is a complete waste of time, after all, you are not a person all the way, if you are friendly with him, he will gain an inch. Therefore, not talking to him is also a kind of getting along with each other, everyone remains strange, don't have too much communication, and it's good to be okay with each other.

In addition, having such a roommate will make you feel very bad, so in order to prevent your time from being taken up too much by this bad feeling, it is a good choice to arrange something meaningful for yourself, such as listening to your favorite songs, reading books, etc.

The above are some of my personal thoughts, I hope it will be helpful to your questions. Of course, as a roommate, you still have to have the most basic etiquette if you look down and don't look up, but once the other party does anything that is not good for you, you will never tolerate it, and you should turn your face, after all, your vital interests have been damaged.