How to Treat a Girlfriend With Rebellious Thoughts! Four years younger than yourself?

Accept her, maybe her rebellion will bring you a lot of happiness, since you love her, you have to tolerate everything about her, talking about children, more or less rebellious, slowly she will be fine, to understand her and support her.

My boyfriend and I are also this age difference, he will take care of me very much, love me very much, sometimes like a loving father, sometimes like a brother, but most of the time it is still like a lover, hehe, don't change anything, people will change with age, now your only duty is to take care of her and love her.

If you love him, you should accept everything from him

Love you

What to whine Love should not have complaints

How can men be so stingy What is there to care about Personality is not something she says will change

Nothing matters, as long as you two are happy, isn't it okay >?

Passing ......Plainly.

It's to get points, sorry.

Hahaha ......

Forgive me for being only 14 years old.

I don't understand, but I'm honest.

I think I got into here by accident.

Hahaha ......

That's how children are.

Especially the modern ones.

If you are referring to the fact that the child is not stupid to listen to no matter how much he persuades, then you must use the basic reward method to teach him, but the reward must be positive, and you must communicate more with the child, so that you can understand the child's thoughts.

A 4-year-old child is not called rebellion, it is a kind of naughty child, and it can be treated normally. Don't be in a hurry.

A four-year-old knows what it means to be rebellious, she's just mischievous. Or rather, nature. As the saying goes, the waiter is "brought in the womb". 80% of the growth of children depends on the guidance of their parents! Wishing your baby a healthy growth! ~

Designing some practical examples in life, such as more childlike things, can affect him very much, which requires you to use your brain, design a small thing to influence him!

If not something excessive! Then let her go! That's how the rebellious period for girls is.

Just follow him.

Show understanding of him.

But when it comes to issues of principle, it takes a hundred positions.

If it is true love for you, then she will change for you.

Intuitively, there are special circumstances.

Calm down, nothing more than 0 and 1 two approaches, continue to talk and break up. It is recommended that the landlord have a good mentality of breaking up and wait and see. A woman's change of heart is more thorough than a man's, calm and calm.

The landlord hasn't played with a kite, so go and play with a kite in March, how to grasp the distance--- if your problem is just because of what she said.

It's sad to have a partner like this Infatuated silly boy Your partner doesn't take you into account Some women are like this Vanity Like a large group of men around you Everyone has their own way of loving someone Depends on how you deal with it I'm very similar to you I manage a lot of it Hold it very tightly Because I care about it That's how I tell your girlfriend what you think But don't talk angrily I don't think your partner cares about your feelings I feel like she likes someone else If she can't do it, I'll divorce her But the most important thing is to be kind to yourself.

It's not a random reply She's in love with someone else.

Give up, live a good life on your own, find a good girl who is down-to-earth, don't hang yourself from this tree.

Can I say, he's kidding you? Be obedient when you're by your mother's side. Just go out and hehehe. What do you think.

Clause.

1. Explain the reason to the child, and do not criticize or scold roughly.

When children have unreasonable requirements and practices, the first thing parents should do is to explain the reason to their children clearly and tell them what is unreasonable. Let the child realize that his behavior is wrong, and why he is wrong. For children who don't like to listen to big truths, parents can tell some relevant stories to let them understand the truth and explain to their children kindly.

Don't educate your child in a threatening tone and in a rude way, which will cause your child to be afraid of you and not be able to clearly stand on his or her right position. This is a long-term process that requires a certain amount of time to be effective.

Clause. 2. Parents should learn to respect their children's opinions.

For children's stubborn and willful behavior, we should not only express our dissatisfaction with children, but also give children the opportunity to express and explain. Let him explain the reasons for insisting on this matter, so that the parents can prevent the parents from wronging the child. If he can provide a reasonable explanation for this seemingly unreasonable request, parents should not only respect their opinions, but also work with their children to help them meet their needs.

This is a good communication opportunity between parents and children, he thinks that you believe him, and he will believe you, so that the child will not lie for a mistake. But if parents don't give their children a chance to explain for a long time, and just treat their children's mistakes roughly, slowly the children will not communicate with you. So many parents are very distressed, why don't children like to talk?

This is because you unconsciously deprive him of the right to speak and disrespect him.

Clause. 3. For children who can't listen to the truth and are too willful, they must learn to use both grace and power.

For example, when crying, parents can quietly observe and ignore it, and the child will give up this expression after a long time when he sees that he has not paid attention to it. When the child has a big tantrum and is unreasonable, carry out reasonable cold treatment. Take your child to a quiet place and let him calm himself; And let the child bear the consequences.

For example, because he can't eat the fruit he should eat because he is crying, and he can't get the toys he should have, telling the child that these are directly related to his tantrums and unreasonable crying. In this way, the child is aware of the consequences of this behavior and will have conscious control. Whatever you do, let your child eventually understand the negative impact of this behavior on everyone and the consequences he will suffer.

Clause. Fourth, the influence of parents' personality on children, the importance of words and deeds.

In order for children to be civilized, polite, and mild-mannered, parents must do it. If the parents are short-tempered, no amount of reasoning will be convincing to the child, because with such a bad example, all the reasoning is very weak. Therefore, for the sake of the child's future and for the child to have a good character, parents should change themselves and put away their rough education methods to convince others!

Even a four-year-old child has his own thoughts, children have a rebellious period, and the child must have his reasons for doing so, and parents should not be too strict to give him enough love but not doting. I highly recommend reading the book "Capturing the Sensitive Period of Children", which is very helpful for parenting!

A 4-year-old child, whose temperament is still unstable and extremely malleable, rebellion is just a symptom, don't worry, enroll in formal education, school education will change him.

Parents should take the lead in setting an example.

Children disobedient to slowly guide education, children disobedient is mostly caused by parents will not educate, the earlier the education, the better, generally to adolescence can not be controlled, here are according to different ages and different personalities of children according to their aptitude, children from an early age to educate well, grow up can also be sensible and studious, do not need parents to worry.